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[Elenarob Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Elenarob]

I am doing this research for my husbands penile problem, well it affects me too as our sex life is nothing to write about. He suffers from small penis and weak erection/expulsion.

Sometimes I think his issues are too much for one person. The topic is kind of sensitive in our house now. I can't bring it up because he sometimes get insecure about and don't want to sound too pushy too.

Want to research and find out the best product to deal with this before I suggest it to him, of course I need to read a success story with the said product. Thanks.

[Dangler Senior Administrator☼ Wizard ☼ White Tiger Award 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Dangler]

Elanarob, on occasion, wives do join, participate, and offer a different perspective. We have had both partners of a relationship participate also.

A clean bill of health makes for a sound beginning. That said, we send new members to do a reading of:
Click here to start! <------ click !
Please review the Rules, and most importantly the items in the Safety section. Critically important information is in there, so you don't hurt yourself/go in the wrong direction.

Then on to the Beginners Section, and select a Routine.
JP's 90 Day Beginner Routine is one used by many.

One will be 'conditioning' his penis.

This is conditioing stage, done before more advanced work is started.

Leave the hardware devices on the shelf until you research/read enough to not cause yourself a problem.

Then, begin reading through these-
Physiologic Indicators (PIs)
PI's are your best friend
Wiki Terms - EQ
PEGym Videos *new*
Best of the PEGym
Penis Measuring

MrB8 does pe work ?
https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...ml#post1057147

As you can see, we advise geting basic knowledge, and safety first. Not much in the way of instant fixes.

Questions ? Our members will try to advise, offer opinions, and try to help.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

I am doing this research for my husbands penile problem, well it affects me too as our sex life is nothing to write about. He suffers from small penis and weak erection/expulsion.

Sometimes I think his issues are too much for one person. The topic is kind of sensitive in our house now. I can't bring it up because he sometimes get insecure about and don't want to sound too pushy too.

Want to research and find out the best product to deal with this before I suggest it to him, of course I need to read a success story with the said product. Thanks.

Welcome. I have ED and consider myself on the small side but the Mrs and I are having the best time of our sex lives.

[Hailtotheburrito Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hailtotheburrito]

You should tell him about this one boyfriend you had that was huge and how you came so fast... no just kidding. It’s a sensitive subject. If he wants help just direct him to this forum and the success section. I started at 5.75 and now I’m at 6.93 inches 7 months later, and my wife can definitely feel a difference. She’s even easier to get off now more than ever. Extenders work for length but need discipline. Water pumps apparently are good for girth. Most people go for length first then girth gains. And most gain an inch within 6 months. Good luck! Talking about it is better than cheating on him .

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Want to research and find out the best product to deal with this before I suggest it to him, of course I need to read a success story with the said product. Thanks.

We'll all be willing to help.

Though not many will recommend any "product", most like to do things naturally.
Go through what Dangler wrote and ask any questions you might have.

And look up 5G tea.

[Cabba Senior Member Member of the Month March 2020 Find all posts View Profile Close Cabba]

Most guys have some sort of ED in their lives so it’s totally normal for him to go thru this. There are plenty of good ways to increase erection quality and size to be found I this site. But I always say any physical or verbal support you can throw his way is a plus. Let him know you enjoy being with him no matter the size or hardness and maybe a little positive feedback will go a long way. I know it did for me and my GF.

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Sometimes I think his issues are too much for one person. The topic is kind of sensitive in our house now. I can't bring it up because he sometimes get insecure about and don't want to sound too pushy too.

Elena,

Welcome to the forums.

I commend you on wanting to improve your sex life for your husband.

If I may offer suggestions?

Adore him as he is right now...even his small penis. Why? Our egos are fragile and penis size is especially one of our Achilles' heel. You will never know how much being loved as you are is so powerful.

Also, you will need to make the suggestions we have here as something he thought of. We husbands love to be empowered and if we can find the answers without being nagged, we will appreciate you more.

Lastly, change will need to come from him. You won't be able to change him (a hard lesson I had to learn with my wife) and love them where they are at.

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

Welcome to the forum!

Women/wives are surely welcome on this site, and we have both present as active members

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

Welcome. Hopefully you stick around (and none of us scare you off), and you find the answers you are looking for.

[Liam Strong Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Liam Strong]

I am doing this research for my husbands penile problem, well it affects me too as our sex life is nothing to write about. He suffers from small penis and weak erection/expulsion.

Sometimes I think his issues are too much for one person. The topic is kind of sensitive in our house now. I can't bring it up because he sometimes get insecure about and don't want to sound too pushy too.

Want to research and find out the best product to deal with this before I suggest it to him, of course I need to read a success story with the said product. Thanks.

Well, whenever i wanted the only girl i was with to do something i wanted her to do, i did it myself first and encouraged her to do it with me, while teasing her at the same time.

If you start doing kegels naked in your bedroom and he comes in and asks you what the heck you are doing, you could walk up to him, look deep into his eyes and say "I love you and i want to improve our sexlife, so i am doing the exercises i found on the internet to increase my ablitiy to come easier and maybe even get a bit more tight for you down there" Give him a wink, and go back to your exercises. ideally, go down on him a few days later, for absolutely no reason.
Dont connect the going down part to the exercises, it would just be manipulative and wrong. Just show him you are dedicated to your relationship and you love him the way he is. There is not much more you can do then going down on a man to show him that you love him. We measure our worth quite a lot on how much we can attract girls, and if a girl comes up and does something sexual with us without us having done anything prior for it, our Mood and Confidence usually go through the fkn roof.

There is NOTHING better then positive reinforcement then something like this for him. Do the exercises again on the next day and on regular bases, ideally with him seeing you doing it.

Just do it regularly on your own and after a while, you can ask him to join you so you can do it better and he can learn to control his orgasms and get better erections as well.
The more you make sex awesome while improving your own sexuality, the more he is probably going to be intrigued.
If the sex isn't great to start with, why bother training for it. Gotta give the kid the candy first to make it hungry for more and start cleaning the room : )

Always do this with love and never force him to, it will never work. He needs to have a reason to do it, and the more you make sex enjoyable for him, the more of a reason he has to improve himself, because there is an actual achievement to be gained.
If you stay the same and just want him to change, you are probably going to have a very difficult time.

This also includes generally a healthy diet, workout out normally and taking care of yourself. The more he desires you, the more of a reason he has to improve.

[tank0909 Senior Member Member of the Month Jan. 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close tank0909]

I am doing this research for my husbands penile problem, well it affects me too as our sex life is nothing to write about. He suffers from small penis and weak erection/expulsion.

Sometimes I think his issues are too much for one person. The topic is kind of sensitive in our house now. I can't bring it up because he sometimes get insecure about and don't want to sound too pushy too.

Want to research and find out the best product to deal with this before I suggest it to him, of course I need to read a success story with the said product. Thanks.

Lots of good info here for you already.

Is the weak erection/ejaculation a fairly recent thing? Or has it been ongoing? Any health issues? If he seems insecure when the subject is discussed, I'm willing to bet it's been an insecurity for quite some time. Just don't call it an insecurity to him or say he has one, if you do say/have said it. There is a stigma associated with the word and, from my own experience, it doesn't help matters when it's brought into the conversation. Reassurance is very important, but there's only so far it will go. Ultimately, the only way he'll feel comfortable in his own skin is when he accepts himself for who he is and what he has. And by "what he has", I'm not just talking about what's in his pants.

When you say "he suffers from small penis...", is it you, him, or both of you saying it's small? (This is only for information for moving forward, not judgement.) What's considered small? He could be average, but his insecurity (or something else) may be keeping him from achieving a full erection so it seems less in size? Has he tried Viagra/Cialis/Yohimbe/cockrings/etc? Sometimes just the confidence in being able to maintain an erection can work wonders.

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Turns out the OP was trolling the forum. Banned for spamming.

[closed291 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Member of the Month June 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed291]

Great info here though...This could be a sticky thread.

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[closed291 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Member of the Month June 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed291]

Moved to Relationships and sticked.