Does anyone else...?

[morrisk Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close morrisk]

Find it hard to not play with their dick all the time? I started PE'ing 2 months ago, grabbed my noob gains and now it's like I have a brand new toy in my pants. I know my little cactus, we've been through good times, bad times, I know what it looks like. It's definitely bigger, and the measurements confirm. You know the 'stranger' routine? Where you sit on your hand until it's numb and then you wank so it feels like someone else is giving you a handjob? When I do that know, it looks like someone else is wanking someone else's cock. very strange. Anyway, hi all

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

Welcome to the forum!

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

Welcome. So what’s the big deal? I love playing with my cock, as long as you aren’t watching porn at the same time. Perfectly normal. At least in my world.

[morrisk Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close morrisk]

Welp, there goes my only chance at a funny intro. On a more serious note, I started PE'ing after becoming insecure about my size when I was with my most recent ex.

Nowadays I'm 99% sure there was no need for it. I am (was) bang average but my ex couldn't deny she had some amazing sex with me (crying + basically saying as much). One or two conversations early in the relationship made me doubt my size a lot, though. Turns out I definitely have some carryover childhood insecurities. Being both a grower and a late bloomer while playing competitive sports during your early teens does that to you. These environments were also hypercompetitive socially speaking.

So yeah, quite by accident I find out about PE during these recent insecurities and start doing the JP90. I wouldn't have been doing PE still if I didn't see some very nice noob gains. I started at 6.2 bpel, I'm at 7.1 now after 2.5 months. And this is a conservative estimate. My measuring isn't on point, but I'm pretty sure I gained more.

I'm not 100% convinced that I'll stick with it, but I might. With 4.5 mseg, girth should be my focus and I have barely seen an increase there. Counterintuitively, I do like gaining length because it's the first dimension I can be 'big' in. But dicks are 3D of course. :-)

I'm in my mid 20s. If I can do this as a lowkey hobby for the next 1-2 years and have a nicer sex life + more confidence for another 50-60 years, I'd say that's totally worth it.

All in all, pretty classical PE story, I'd wager.

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

Your intro was funny- don't sweat it

Why not just start off with some Stamina Only work and see if you'd like to expand your routine further form there.

[Physdoc Retired Moderator Member of the Month July 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close Physdoc]

Welcome. And yeah, I have been grabbing at my cock alot since I restarted PE. My girlfriend even said something about how often I "adjusted." heheh

On a more serious note, I know you could get to the "long" category relatively quick - you're already close. But, I've heard women talk about how long is good as long as it's not thin like a spear poking at them and not filling them up. Combine your 7.1" length with 5" girth and you're checking both of their boxes (so to speak). I'm guessing if you focus on girth, you'll also get some length gains, too.

[morrisk Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close morrisk]

Thanks to all of you for the welcomes and advice.

Yeah, the spear thing is a real possibility. I'm pretty sure I've recently experienced it. For the first time in my life I had to make sure I didn't go all the way in. It doesn't bother me all that much but if I'm at the same time not stimulating the girl because of a lack of girth, that's a problem.

First PE setback, I just realized the middle line of an inch is not .5 but .4. I'm European and I just never noticed. Unless my current girth is temporary I might be 4.5 anyway... while I thought I was going on .6

I might start a progress report more sexual experience/psychology/relationship base because frankly I find it all very fascinating.

Enjoy your day all