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[jamilicious]

Hi guys,

I'm from Montreal (french canada) and very pleased to join this community.
This is my first week of Jelking.
Here's my story and why i'm starting PE. (sorry if my english is not that good)

I was recently dating that 34 years old woman (during last july-august) and sex was very nice (You know the kind of girls who try their best to please their man sexually before their own pleasure)

One day i made her cum and she told me it was the best orgasm she ever had. (i was very happy to hear that) and immediately she added : """It's weird how size doesn't matter to make a girl cum. My 4 ex's were extremly huge (and she showed me the size with her hands...) and said no one made me cum like you did. """

I told her that's a weird thing to tell a guy. She didn't understand my comment. I tried to use a metaphore to explain her how this was weird. I told her imagine a guy telling you that all his ex's were beautiful than you, but you honey you rock my world as you are. (girls generaly focus on their beauty and guys on their penis)

She replied : "i didn't say that my ex's were more beautiful than you" (yeah she was blonde)
The day after i made love to her and i couldn't stop thinking of her ex's !!!!!!!!!! (during sex). I was telling myself : was she flattering me about the best orgasm ? was she only being nice to me ? does she feel me right now inside her ? Is she somehow frustrated because i'm not thick ?
Anyway, i guess guys you understood that it didn't help our relationship.

Yesterday i measured my penis (bone pressed) and i found it was 5,75 (14,6 cm).
I find that weird because i remember measuring it 7 or 8 years ago and it was (18 cm).

Now i'm dating a new girl and i'm always wondering what she thinks about my size. We've never talked about it, but i guess one day i'll ask and i'll be for sure disappointed (i can't stop asking about that). Some of you have been there and you know what i'm talking bout

Anyway i started jelking novembre 13th and today will be 4th session. (one day on and one day off, i'm not in a hurry). I'll give my self one year of plain jelking. I think i can be constant. I've been constant while working out at the gym since mars and now i'm seeing nice gains. I guess it's the same principle : taking time to learn the moves, not be expecting quick gains, be constant and beleive in it)

I'll let you know about my progress.

Have a good day guys and thanks for all.

[Minuteman]

https://www.pegym.com/forums/190042-post129.html

Similar story, it is a pity that you weren't able to overcome what she said

I am going to give my best never to think like that.

Also welcome and good luck.

[Unit]

Welcome, slow and steady that's the way to plan it. I've never had the penis comparison talk with a lover. I always knew that I was on the short side of average, so I concentrated on the other things that I could do to improve my love making. I've had no negative feed back. As it is I'm doing this for me. I've always wanted great big amounts down were it counts. It was early this summer when I stumbled across PE information an thought I'd check it out. I don't know if you can imagine my surprise to learn that it's not just bull shit like all those other growth pills, potions and pastes. Being a skillful lover is for my wife and I hope she won't mind a bigger dick to go with it. She says that I have no problem with size "down there". What ever says I, if some is good more is better.

[smallpackageRay]

I think a lot of us have a similar story. For myself it was a subject I brought up with my new wife. She says we are a "perfect" fit. We are very communicating in our relationship. She knows it's something I am concerned about and tries to reassure me that she enjoys our sex. Her 1st husband was huge, as large as the largest members on this site. Fortunately, he was too big for her. But I know thatsince she will remind me most of the times when she has an orgasm from intercourse, I know she can tell I am either on the small size or at least smaller then her ex.
She is being very supportive with what I am trying to do here, mainly with the fact that it supports a healthier body. I haven't pressed the growing affects for PE with her other than she knows that everything I am doing could "potentially" help in that area. It's not that I am avoiding the subject, it's just that I don't want to put false hopes or expectations in her mind if really in her mind she would enjoy me being larger.
I've been careful about approaching these subjects not because I am hiding anything, I just don't want her "trying to protect me and not hurt my feelings" get in the way and cause demotivation. I'm planning on talking to her about this very subject over the Thanksgiving holiday and plan on saying basically what I just stated.

[DownLow]

The feelings and thoughts will pass. Not that they will not provide the motivation to keep PEing. I made the mistake of asking my wife of almost 10 years about size. She was not with many guys, but I am the average of her experience. It hurt for a while, but we are very close. Now it doesn't bother me at all, but provides me with the desire to continue toward my goals to be her biggest, not that it really matters to her much at all anyhow, but it does to me.

[jamilicious]

Hi guys,

Thanks for your replies.
Today i met again my new girlfriend and sex was great. It lasted almost one hour
I think i'm doing good these times with my 5.75.

I'm really looking forward to gain an inch (my goal). It'll be even more interesting

Thanks again for your support.

[normalguy]

...Today i met again my new girlfriend and sex was great. It lasted almost one hour
I think i'm doing good these times with my 5.75...

Looks like you don't have any problem with stamina. This is a really good start and it seems that you're already doing great! Best of luck to reach your goal and welcome to the gym!

[CUSP82]

Gee I thought you joined this community because I was here! Oh well, I hate being disappointed so I'll just welcome you to the community. Ready? Here it comes; Welcome!

[Editor]

Welcome mate,

[Waylander]

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