Hey everyone.The reason I'm here is because I need help. I'm average. 6''long and 5'' girth. My girlfriend and I are both virgins, But she's done oral to a couple of her ex's. We are waiting to have intercourse. My problem is that one of her ex-boyfriends had a 9''inch penis. My size has been my one and only insecurity my entire teenage years. This has really sent me on a downward spiral of depression. I've fought my way out and been able to remain stable and happy. But the catch is that she is still friends with him, and I can't stand the thought of him. When he is brought up in conversation, I can't handle it emotionally and my heart sinks. She is a "virgin" because they tried to have sex but couldn't because it hurt her too much which doesn't make a difference because the first time is always supposed to hurt. I've pretty much obsessed over this whole thing and its made me extremely emotional and insecure.
My one deep concern is that I want to be able to do a BETTER job than he could ever possibly do. She is aware of my insecurity and when she tried to encourage me it hurt more than helped because i felt like she stated the truth, which is: she will still get 100% satisfaction with an average penis, and that the extra inches are just a "bonus" which would give her 130% satisfaction.
I want to be able to give her 130%! She wants to know why he bothers me but her other bf's don't and I don't want to tell her his stupid huge penis is the reason. Honestly, I don't really want to exercise to make it bigger. I want to be happy with what I have and show her that I can do way better than the big guys even though she hasn't really experienced one. I want to be okay when I hear his name and I want to let go of the insecurity once and for all. Please help.
- H4ppy
My one deep concern is that I want to be able to do a BETTER job than he could ever possibly do. She is aware of my insecurity and when she tried to encourage me it hurt more than helped because i felt like she stated the truth, which is: she will still get 100% satisfaction with an average penis, and that the extra inches are just a "bonus" which would give her 130% satisfaction.
I want to be able to give her 130%! She wants to know why he bothers me but her other bf's don't and I don't want to tell her his stupid huge penis is the reason. Honestly, I don't really want to exercise to make it bigger. I want to be happy with what I have and show her that I can do way better than the big guys even though she hasn't really experienced one. I want to be okay when I hear his name and I want to let go of the insecurity once and for all. Please help.
- H4ppy
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