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    Hello. I have spend many hours reading this forum. I see here nice community supporting each other. Now I decided to register, because I want to share my thoughts. Maybe that will reduce the anxiety which came really hard during the last week. I even lost appetite and feel that I'm loosing my weight and mind too. I meet a girl, that I like and she likes me, but we haven't sex yet. She had a lot of sex experience. I'm afraid that I'm gonna disappoint her when we make some love. I need some how to fight off that negative thoughts, because I'm afraid, that I will have problems with EQ (that has occured few times in past, but that girl is so important for me and I must to please her) .

    I'm doing PE about 1 and a half month already. Actually just basic stretching and jelquing whith no warm up or warm down. I spend about 20 - 30 minutes per day for that and gained approximately 0.3" in lenght, but girth is still as it was before PE. One more good think is that PE increased my EQ. Mine tool is 5.5" NBPEL and only 4.33" EG. Girth is the main concern for me. I know that girth is more important than lenght and I'm below average in girth.

    Question especially for those with girth near like mine (but everyone comments are welcome): Have you ever pleased girl with your cock and what is your girth? What technique is best for those with girth like mine? Is the problems with EQ, caused by anxiety is frequent for you and how do you overcome that?

    P.S Sorry for my poor english. I'm still learning
    lysergic
    Junior Member
    Last edited by lysergic; 04-10-2011, 09:44 AM.

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    Thanks for sharing and welcome to the Gym. Since you are already active in a routine, as a suggestion, you may want to work on technique - starting with proper warmup and warmdown. You may think it's unnecessary but it'll go a long way in helping you achieve gains and help prevent injury.

    Best of luck to you and please post any questions or concerns you have to the forums!
    Old Gym Log - Tracking progress with the iLogPE App
    "Wherever you go, there you are. Stay sexy, my friends."

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    • #3
      Having a big penis is not all that matters during sex. While you're working on making your unit bigger, which is a process of years rather than weeks, make sure you work on your oral and fingering skills too. While your current size might not be sufficient to give certain girls a vaginal orgasm yet, you can learn to give them those shaky orgasms with just one finger. If you see them go crazy with just one of your fingers, you'll know that size is not the only thing that matters. Learn proper foreplay, and don't just attack her pussy like a madman. She must be almost begging you to insert your finger. And then just rub her G-spot, about 2 inches in her vagina on the top (where her belly is), and make a "come her" movement with just one finger. You'll feel it quiet easily. When she's really begging for that finger, just rubbing her G for a few minutes should be enough to give her an orgasm.

      Cheers,

      Johnny B
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      • #4
        Welcome to the PE community

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        • #5
          Hi lysergic, welcome to the gym!

          Firstly congratulations on your already impressive gains.

          Secondly, i'm sure if you continue doing PE all of your anxieties and insecurities about your penis will quickly disappear (because you'll get a much bigger girth and length).

          Best of luck!

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          • #6
            welcome to the gym. Learn to lick the cooter well and you will be able to make her cum with a 3 inch ding dong. all these posts above me are telling you the true deal, use some forplay and make her squeal. enjoy the site
            Going an inch and 1/2 deeper than before

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            • #7
              Thanks guys. This site boosted my life. After my girlfriend left me due to doubtful reasons, I came to conclusion that she left me because I was unable to satisfy her with my cock, only with my fingers or tongue. She didn't tell me anything bad about my cock, but I think it was too small for her (at my mind it is too small for every girl in this world). After that, I live without sex for 3 years, although I had some chances to make out with girl, but haven't self confidence to do that. Now things are a little bit better, because I've gained some lenght in pretty short time and now I believe that PE really works. I just need to gain some girth somehow. Now I have chance again, but this time I will don't miss it. I'm thinking about taking some viagra.

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              • #8
                I gained 1/2inch girth from extending and dosing collagen pills (genacol) i have a thread on here somewhere about it. Any more girth and my little wife won't be able to give me BJs, so I am now trying to avoid girth, have stopped taking collagen and am focusing on length. Extending is not known for big girth increases but I responded hugely.. albeit I was very dedicated extender probably 7-9hrs a day 7days a week for months! It's hard work. I am now happy with my size and anything else is a "bonus" so I just take it easy these days... 25-30min manual stretch workout + 2-4hrs a day extending.
                starting stats: 6.5-6.6 BPEL 5.5.-5.6 EG
                March: 7.2 BPEL x 6.0 EG
                March: BPFL 7.7
                Goal: 8.0 NBPEL x 6.2 EG

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                • #9
                  Welcome to the PE Gym. Making love is about intimate contact and being attentive to your lovers needs. It is a fact, that you could have a big cock and still really suck at sex. There is so much more about been a skilled lover than just dick size.

                  I agree with GTO you need to start doing warm ups. Penis Warm-Up Methods: Heating Up Before Working Out
                  ​The enemy of good is not bad
                  The enemy of good is better

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                  • #10
                    If youve gained over 1/4 " in six weeks then your doing something right. It could however just be improved EQ, which is still a positive. I have been at this for 7 months and have only "gained" .25" in length and maybe 1/10" in EG. Can your size satisfy or make a woman orgasm? I think the woman at hand is more of a factor then penis size (to a certain extent).I have been doing my wife for 19 years and she never had a orgasm from sex or anything else until a year ago. She said she had come close before but didnt know what to make of the feeling and actively did things to prevent it. She said it felt like she had to pee. Last year I found out that this sensation was a common indicator of G-spot stimulation. I told her this and to just let go and ignore the sensation. She now has easy orgasms just from intercourse. She has them so easily I am still shocked. I am pissed that she was missing out all these years. I honestly think its the angle of attack that is more of a factor than the girth. I have great success with woman on top but have also made her cum with missionary (You just have to "ride high") rubbing up against the urethel sponge area. She really likes full penetration but says she doesnt really feel much deep inside and most of the sensastions are around the opening. All women are different but this is what works with my wife. I bet I could do the exact same thing with other women and have totally diferent results. A lot of women just aren't pre-disposed to having ogasms just from sex. I thought my wife was in this category.
                    Those who would give up essential liberty to purchase a little temporary safety, deserve neither liberty nor safety. - Ben Franklin, 1775.

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by coltar-15 View Post
                      If youve gained over 1/4 " in six weeks then your doing something right. It could however just be improved EQ, which is still a positive. I have been at this for 7 months and have only "gained" .25" in length and maybe 1/10" in EG. Can your size satisfy or make a woman orgasm? I think the woman at hand is more of a factor then penis size (to a certain extent).I have been doing my wife for 19 years and she never had a orgasm from sex or anything else until a year ago. She said she had come close before but didnt know what to make of the feeling and actively did things to prevent it. She said it felt like she had to pee. Last year I found out that this sensation was a common indicator of G-spot stimulation. I told her this and to just let go and ignore the sensation. She now has easy orgasms just from intercourse. She has them so easily I am still shocked. I am pissed that she was missing out all these years. I honestly think its the angle of attack that is more of a factor than the girth. I have great success with woman on top but have also made her cum with missionary (You just have to "ride high") rubbing up against the urethel sponge area. She really likes full penetration but says she doesnt really feel much deep inside and most of the sensastions are around the opening. All women are different but this is what works with my wife. I bet I could do the exact same thing with other women and have totally diferent results. A lot of women just aren't pre-disposed to having ogasms just from sex. I thought my wife was in this category.
                      Great success story!!
                      Old Gym Log - Tracking progress with the iLogPE App
                      "Wherever you go, there you are. Stay sexy, my friends."

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