Desperate and miserable

[depressedaboutgirth Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close depressedaboutgirth]

Hello all. I think my username gives a pretty good indication of the issue I have with my penis. My EG is 4.6", perhaps 4.75" on a good day. I always assumed that my penis was of average size, and I've been perfectly happy with that. After checking the internet for average sizes I was heartened to find that some websites give the figure for average EG at about 4.5", after a bit more checking though I quickly realised that many more websites seem to suggest that the average EG is at least 5". Moreover a quick look around this forum seems to show that the vast majority of people give their EG measurement as at least 5". Basically I'm a long way off from the average whichever way I measure it.

Needless to say that I am absolutely crushed by this; I have become utterly, hoplessly miserable and obsessed with how pathetic my EG is. I think about it constantly - to the point of losing sleep - and I frequently find myself close to tears when I think about my worthless pencil-dick.

All I want is to be average: to have a girth which would be comparable to the general penis that a woman has experienced, whereas at the moment I am pretty sure that most women would notice through sight or touch that I don't really measure up in the circumference department. I don't want a porn-star dick, I just want a penis about which a women with experience of the average size wouldn't be able to say "most others I've had are bigger". I realise that all women and the penises they experience are different, but I'm just trying to put across that I want to be of average girth.

As such I am desperate to gain some penile girth, and that desperation has brought me here. I was intially sceptical about PE, especially as the scientific evidence for its effectiveness seems slim (probably from lack of research), but the anecdotal testimony of people on this forum has given me every reason to believe that it might work. Either way I am hugely unhappy and very desperate so PE is my only hope.

I don't care at all about my penis' length (at least 6" BPEL if you're interested), it is literally only my girth that is the issue. I'll start with the 90-day beginners routine and see what happens. I understand that it can take many months to see any results, but that's fine with me. My only goal is to reach the average EG: 5". Anything more (length or girth) is a bonus.

Apologies for the long post - I didn't realise I had rambled on for so long.

[Pirate Retired AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Pirate]

Relax. You are in the average range and have plenty.
Welcome to the PEGym!
Check out this link:
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With some time and effort you will get all the girth you want.
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[Berulakide Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Berulakide]

Hello, I am new to the gym so take my advice lightly. I have lingered here for two years and found the same as you. I have tried pills and creams and pumps before. I have pe'd off and on for a couple years and have recently bought a bathmate and have only used it for four days now so cant really say much. But from what i can see pills ect is garbage. Pe seems to work if you work at it. I am looking for exactly the same thing as you and am being told that my bathmate will help me gain girth. I can say that after using the bathmate it is thicker, for a while but feels heavier when hanging all the time. Also i have gain a bit more sensativitty to the underside of my penis and that is awesome for orgasm purposes for me...
anyway welcome and hope you find what you are looking for and gl.

[surv376 Member Find all posts View Profile Close surv376]

You're already average in girth. Don't beat yourself up over it so much, man

[engleangle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close engleangle]

yeah average is anywhere from 4.5-5 maybe even in the 5.5 range on the upper average. your good dude dont worry about it just get ta training. start with the jp90!

[Panther Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Panther]

Yup - no problems. I started with a girth close to yours. I now at 5.0 and didn't really do much girth work. You can gain girth with no problems at all.

Even without gains in girth you are still fine.

[shiv Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close shiv]

Just take it easy on yourself and be glad you found a place like this. Do a newbie routine, take your time, stick it out and try not to hurt yourself.

[ThomasJohnThomas Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThomasJohnThomas]

The combined measurements of the two main girth studies show that average girth is 10.6cm (4.17")
One study measured the average erect girth to be from 8.8cm to 10cm, the other showed a result of 9cm to 12.5 cm.
Put together we can say that the normal erect girth is everything between 8.8cm(3.46") and 12.5 cm(4.92")

The average measurements, both length and girth, found by a professional staff are allways lower than averages found in surveys done by selfreported measurements. Also, it is speculated that even the professional and medical studies atracts those with more to show, hinting that the average is actually lower.

(Norwegian link) https://www.onlinelege.no/temaer-om-...nge-penis.html

[schlittle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close schlittle]

Hi, welcome to the gym! And good luck with your gains.

[jacktwist Member Find all posts View Profile Close jacktwist]

bro if your at 4.75 eg on a good day, by pe, your erections will increase and get harder and thicker, thats mans you really only need to gain .25 in , if you want to be average, a lot of guys do it in a 1 to 3 months.

i started at 4.75 about a month a go, i measured last night i was at 5" eg

I'd actually recommend working on length, girth will come with it, and you don't wanna achieve your girth goals, then think ur not long enough

from what i understand bout girth is if you start working on girth first, getting length gains after is a lot harder

[Guest Close XitemeM]

My EG is less than yours, but I'm not depressed, desperate or miserable about it. In fact I'm glad about it. You know why? I've been thinking that my size is perfect for PE gains. The somewhat smaller girth means that length may very well come easier, and adding girth to what I started with will only make it that much more impressive in comparison.

Simple fact is, if you don't like your size, get to work and make it bigger

..and enjoy the journey, it's fun, and doesn't need to be an act of desperation.

Welcome to PEGym

[depressedaboutgirth Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close depressedaboutgirth]

Thank you all for the encouragement and the kind reassurances that I am of average EG, even though I find it difficult to believe that I am. I also apologise if I seem overly negative, especially to those with similar problems regarding their EG - for someone with less EG than me I am sure that I sound like a whiny idiot. However I am finding it very, very hard to be positive at the moment, but with some dedication perhaps I can gain enough to be average and I can feel like a real person again. Certainly some of the results reported by users here suggest that, if I am lucky, I may be able to make my desired gains within a year or less.

Either way I can tell that this is a highly supportive community with good people who clearly know what they're talking about

[Leibniz Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Leibniz]

Man, start JP90 right now. It will work! I'm on the 49th day and i can already fell awesome girth gains. Not to say about amazing erection quality and huge morning woods...By the way, my girlfried said her best sex ever was our last experience just about a week ago.

It Works!

Just listen to this...Less is more! Do not overtrain. This is very important for guys like you and me, who feels that his unit isn't enought and want to rush all the way.

Good LUCK man! And Enjoy your journey (that's the whole damn secret!)

[Guest Close XitemeM]

Sounds like you're coming 'round. Remember everything will be easier if you enjoy this process with what you've got. Enjoy yourself and enjoy getting bigger. There are guys here that will start off where we end up, and guys that end up where we start. All different sizes and shapes. I think of it largely as improving my health. Getting big and strong and healthy.

I would also be guessing that you might be a younger man, which means you have even more time on your side. I lived through my teens, my 20's and early 30's the size in my stats. Discovering PE at any age is being initiated into secrets that >99% of the world don't know. We're so lucky!

When I became convinced that this amazing stuff works, I was walking around like a had a big dick already. It was like an impending certainty. Destiny. In the future I already have a big dick and all I need to do is exercise and wait to greet him like a long lost friend. He's already sending me postcards and this month is even coming over for a visit! :P

[1969mari Member Find all posts View Profile Close 1969mari]

Hi Im a woman I hope what i have to say can help you.
We (women) never mind penis shape or size. exceptions exist but just aré that exceptions. Be with a MAN is much more than be with a penis.