Hello, I need your help PEGym!

[johnwooo]

Hi everyone, My name is John Wolf. I've known about PE for quite some time, forgot which forum I was on I think "men network" or something along those lines. Well, recently,

I've been watching a bit too much porn. I've started to feel inferior with my 5" penis. Now I always believed that its how you use it, but being a bit below average sort of drives me nuts. I want to be at least average and have good rhythm.

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost a year now. When we first started having sex, I would be able to have her cum multiple times and also have sex about 3-5 times a day. As time went by, when I'm not with her, I started masturbating much more. I've never had sex with anyone that many times in a day and for so many consecutive days before and I think it backfired on me where I needed to masturbate at least two times a day.

I know the forum has an ED section and I believe that one of the stickies is true. Porn can cause ED! I did not know this before it was too late. About 6 months ago, I've started to become less than satisfactory in bed. Premature ejaculation, ED and everything. I need your help PEgym community!

My girlfriend seems to enjoy a larger penis, but since I am unable to provide one, I did multiple sex sessions and used effective positions to improvise. But lately, I've felt I have no stamina when I get on top of her. I lose an erection quite quickly if I try to hold my orgasm. And now a days its 85% her and 15% me.

I feel I fcked myself big time with this porn ED and my mind is fcked and my stamina and everything is fcked. Heck I can't even write a coherent thread. Please let me know how I can fix things and any questions about things I may have left out.

[aussieguy]

Lose the porn mate!!!
Ive been off of t for two weeks (apart from one slip up) and im slowly starting to find my erections, proper rock hard erections are starting to come back naturally.
I used to watch porn and pull myself 3 times a day and it definitley caused issues when with a woman.

Since ive stopped it im get random wood and great morning wood.

Also check out the 5 Gs thread, im certain thats also helping me!

[Unit]

Welcome to the PE Gym. I'm not an expert on ED, but you are in luck, it sound like the kind you have is mostly centered in your head and not a plumbing issue. A couple things leap to mind: 1) Stop watching porn. 2) Stop or cut way back on your masturbation. 3) Pick a Beginner Routine and start PE, as almost all of us have improvement in our EQ (Erection Quality) with effective Penis Exercise.

There is a plethora of information about ED, effects of porn, excess masturbation and stamina. Take a little initiative and start studying up. The search tool is very helpful.

Your problem is not insurmountable, with some education and work, you'll be fine and yes you can improve your penis size.

[averageguy6]

First of all you are in a frenzy. Dont panic.

(1) Why is it that you think your GF "enjoys a larger penis"...?? That sounds like its in your mind. I always try to tell people not to project what is in their own minds onto their ladies and remember than women are not men with vaginas. Her needs are very different from your needs. Its highly unlikely that she needs to have 3-5 orgasms each day...(at least not in different sessions)

That is just not realistic unless she is some sort of nymphomaniac.

Maybe if she is crazy about you she will have sex with you that much for a little while when you start hooking up...a year later?? No way. Once to a few times a week is normal. Daily sex is a lot of sex for any couple.

(2) Stop watching the porn. Its making you feel insecure AND it absolutely leads to premature ejaculation...not sure about ED. Its not natural for our brains to have so much sexual stimulation. Stop the porn and you will have great erections when you are with your GF. For sure.

(3) Give your GF a break. Its a rare woman that wants to have sex several times each day. You cant expect her to keep that up. That is not realistic. Keep her cycles in mind. They say women are most receptive in the days prior to ovulation.

(4) Listen if you talk to her about the size of your dick...she is gong to tire of the subject and it might even backfire in that perhaps now she could care less...but eventually she might start to care. In the sense that she will see you as insecure. NOTHING is a bigger turn off for a woman than an insecure guy. Heck its a turn off to same sex friends too....no one wants to be around someone who is going on and on about some shortcoming...its no fun and its a real downer.

Now if you want to get into PE..then do it for yourself.

Look I already have everything going for me and I have an average size right in the middle (6.5 bone pressed on top and 7.0 BP on the side and 5 or so MSEG) and I am loving the gains Ive had so far in two months. Im hanging ONLY for gains.

Its GREAT! My wife just told me its bigger tonight. Its a riot!

Im doing it for fun and to feel better about myself.

Have fun with this.

Your GF sounds awesome by the way. Have FUN with her. You may never find another so responsive.

My wife almost never has orgasms.but she is an incredible woman and very giving...this is..after 20 years. Long story. And we have sex all the time...which for a 20 year married couple means 2X per week.ha ha...unless we are on vacation in which case I usually get it daily at least. Work turns her into a dragon during the week...but not a dragon lady in bed.

[johnwooo]

Thanks for the insight everyone!

Anyway, my girlfriend usually is always down to have sex. There was never a time she turned it down. And sometimes during sex, she says "stick that big fat cock" and sometimes says "deeper" when I'm already there. And a bunch of other stuff. But those things are what makes me assume she would prefer a cock bigger. I'm below average, so I'm not delusional in thinking I do have a "big fat cock".

Shes an awesome girl, I just want to be able to please her like I did in the beginning. I am so far 1 day masturbation free! Now I gotta start working on some beginner PE.

Thank you again all.

[morebigger]

Well welcome to the gym johnwoo.I think you need to look at JP's rountin to start off with...Take it slow man do the workouts the way it says.And than after your 90 days look at the diff workouts for the lenght.

[thenewdude]

She's only saying during sex that she want you all up in her and that she is please that it is you inside her. Let the insecurities about your penis go, and don't spend time on porn but instead spend time on your woman who really counts. I, myself, am married and never has my wife acted or even hinted that I was not long or thick enough. Hell, she don't really want my PE'ing but is starting to support me in it (cool). PE is for you because you want it bigger. I think your GF likes your rod just fine, my man. Peace.