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    Hi everyone,
    I justed wanted to say hi. My beginnings with PE has been kinda of shaky. When I started, I didn't have a definite, consistent way of measuring. For example, by memory it seems like I was at best a 6.75" NBPEL, and 5.5" EG. But that can only be a guess. But I am sure at least I would have exaggerated. But I was a beginner at that time, and never really researched PE after my initial attempt at it, and now I have been curious about my size again. So technically I began about 4 years ago, and after having very inconsistent attempts at PE I am now measuring at 8" NBPEL and 5.8 EG. I am a little surprised at this. I do remember having some quick gain when I first started a long time ago, but I think I remember getting up to about 7.3 or even less and I don't remember the base. Since that intitial gain, I pretty much stopped caring about PE (I think I thought that was good enough and I was too lazy to keep going). So instead I just did exercises randomly like a habbit (stretching when I'm in the shower, on the toilet, jelqing occasionaly), and stopped really measure at all. Now that I have begun to measure again, I am getting into it again because I see that even a modest attempt at it yielded results, but now my objective is different. I've been reading a lot about how the perfect size is around 8"/6". Well, I am not far off (with MSEG), and at the base it's around 6.1" EG. So, should I stop now, or try to sculpt it?

    Here is my objective: I want to be as pleasurable as possible for my future wife, who I intend to be my one and only wife. I'm not a player (currently a virgin) and I see sex as very sacred, but I do believe that if I can do something to make the exprerience more enjoyable for my "soulmate", then why not? i see sex as a wholistic experience, but the physical aspect is just as crucial as the psychological and spiritual. Should I wait to see how my future wife can even handle what I have now, or? I was thinking of just doing mild jelging type exercises that focus on the girth, so that I can even it out a little more, and maybe make it a tad fatter. But I really don't think I need to add length at all. How can I add girth without adding length? Sorry I have so many ideas and issues spewing. Hope someone can make sense of it and give me some advice. Thanks! Good to be here.

    Okay, official measurements:
    8.5 BPEL, 8.0" NBPEL, BPSL 8.9", NBPSL 8.4"
    4.9" EG at the glans
    5.8" MSEG
    6.1" BEG

    hope I used the right abbreviations :P
    Mr.Sector
    Junior Member
    Last edited by Mr.Sector; 09-08-2011, 07:33 PM.

  • #2
    god blessed u! wish i got wat u did ill trade my virginity for it
    bpel - 5
    eg = 4.5

    Current Sept 10,2011
    Bpfl- 4
    fl- 3 1/4
    Nbpel- 4 3/4
    Bpel- 5 1/4
    el- 4 3/4
    eg- 4 3/4

    Goal
    Nbpel - 5.5-6
    bpel - 6.5-7
    eg - 5.5-6

    Want to fit a magnum for personal confidence

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    • #3
      Well, I know it's possible to change the size no matter what size you are. I honestly don't know how I got that much gain. I think maybe I just sucked at measuring before.

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      • #4
        Welcome You may be too much for her already, if you want to be as pleasurable as possible then you and her will have to find out what you both like the most, sex isn't all about plowing her with your member and then thats it.

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        • #5
          Man I am new here too, plus I am also here for somewhat similar reasons as you stated above. If I can offer my two cents... since you and your future wife have decided to wait for marriage, know that sex is not about how impressive you are the first time. Chances are, she is not expecting you to "knock it out of the park". The beauty of waiting for marriage is that you both get to learn each others body; likes & dislikes, and ultimately working TOGETHER to achieve sexual bliss lol.
          - D.

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          • #6
            Well thanks for the advice guys! I think I should probably hold off on the exercises then. You helped me solidify what I already was leaning toward...but its been almost an obsession lately. I know it's big, so I don't know why I feel an urge to get it any bigger. Has anyone else struggled with this?

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            • #7
              You seem to be a very considerate person from what you have written-and very spiritual. Don't worry-relax- You are special and so is she. Have fun-sex is a gift for you both!
              Consciousness and intention matter here.

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              • #8
                Thanks for comments all! I think I will forget about gains for now and focus on finding a wife I did notice that my erections are not really very hard (not really sure how to measure that though). What are the best exercises and/or herbs/supplements to increase hardness of erection? I think that's what I want to work. Are pc squeezes good, or is there more? Thanks for help already. I'll keep you posted on the social scene.

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                • #9
                  Kegal kegal kegal!
                  The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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                  • #10
                    good luck and let us know when u pop that cherry!
                    bpel - 5
                    eg = 4.5

                    Current Sept 10,2011
                    Bpfl- 4
                    fl- 3 1/4
                    Nbpel- 4 3/4
                    Bpel- 5 1/4
                    el- 4 3/4
                    eg- 4 3/4

                    Goal
                    Nbpel - 5.5-6
                    bpel - 6.5-7
                    eg - 5.5-6

                    Want to fit a magnum for personal confidence

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by Mr.Sector View Post
                      Hi everyone,
                      I justed wanted to say hi. My beginnings with PE has been kinda of shaky. When I started, I didn't have a definite, consistent way of measuring. For example, by memory it seems like I was at best a 6.75" NBPEL, and 5.5" EG. But that can only be a guess. But I am sure at least I would have exaggerated. But I was a beginner at that time, and never really researched PE after my initial attempt at it, and now I have been curious about my size again. So technically I began about 4 years ago, and after having very inconsistent attempts at PE I am now measuring at 8" NBPEL and 5.8 EG. I am a little surprised at this. I do remember having some quick gain when I first started a long time ago, but I think I remember getting up to about 7.3 or even less and I don't remember the base. Since that intitial gain, I pretty much stopped caring about PE (I think I thought that was good enough and I was too lazy to keep going). So instead I just did exercises randomly like a habbit (stretching when I'm in the shower, on the toilet, jelqing occasionaly), and stopped really measure at all. Now that I have begun to measure again, I am getting into it again because I see that even a modest attempt at it yielded results, but now my objective is different. I've been reading a lot about how the perfect size is around 8"/6". Well, I am not far off (with MSEG), and at the base it's around 6.1" EG. So, should I stop now, or try to sculpt it?

                      Here is my objective: I want to be as pleasurable as possible for my future wife, who I intend to be my one and only wife. I'm not a player (currently a virgin) and I see sex as very sacred, but I do believe that if I can do something to make the exprerience more enjoyable for my "soulmate", then why not? i see sex as a wholistic experience, but the physical aspect is just as crucial as the psychological and spiritual. Should I wait to see how my future wife can even handle what I have now, or? I was thinking of just doing mild jelging type exercises that focus on the girth, so that I can even it out a little more, and maybe make it a tad fatter. But I really don't think I need to add length at all. How can I add girth without adding length? Sorry I have so many ideas and issues spewing. Hope someone can make sense of it and give me some advice. Thanks! Good to be here.

                      Okay, official measurements:
                      8.5 BPEL, 8.0" NBPEL, BPSL 8.9", NBPSL 8.4"
                      4.9" EG at the glans
                      5.8" MSEG
                      6.1" BEG

                      hope I used the right abbreviations :P
                      I'm with you there. I'm still saving myself for the right person, too. I'm 45. Welcome to the site! You'll find a lot of knowledgeable guys here.
                      Porn the unknown disaster of our time.
                      the_iron

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                      • #12
                        Whether you have the standard 6x5 or 8x6, it is how you used it. In a committed relationship, the best sex doesn't depend on the size (because it depends on what the woman prefers and is comfortable with) but more on the intimacy you have with one another and learning how to please one another. I have been married for a while and can tell you that we worry more about thinking it is the size that really matters (well, 60-80 percent of men are average and most marriages don't end because of it). The important thing is not the physical attribute you bring to the relationship but the spiritual and mental attributes you bring which is what should define you.
                        Begin 7/25/2011:
                        NBPEL 7, BPEL 7.2, MEG 5.6, BEG 6

                        Current 12/05/2014:
                        FL 5.25, FG 5.2
                        NBPEL 7.8, BPEL 8.1, UEG 5.75, MEG 6.25, BEG 6.7

                        Long:
                        UEG:MEG 6.5

                        https://www.pegym.com/forums/progres...henewuser.html

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                        • #13
                          So, guess what?
                          I met the girl I'm going to marry. I proposed to her just over a week ago. It's so exciting! We're planning on getting married in the spring time. It's going to be so difficult to wait that long. We have such good chemistry and we have the same standards and expectations with a family and everything. We've talked a little about this stuff, and it sounds like it's a good thing I held off on the exercises. Though, since I've been doing the PCs, I have noticed at least a .20 inch increase in length. I think I'll just stick with increasing the erection strength. Thanks for all the encouragement and support guys. I'll keep you updated on my life from time to time. But probably won't be giving any intimate sexual details lol. I just don't feel right about that.

                          Peace

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by Mr.Sector View Post
                            So, guess what?
                            I met the girl I'm going to marry. I proposed to her just over a week ago. It's so exciting! We're planning on getting married in the spring time. It's going to be so difficult to wait that long. We have such good chemistry and we have the same standards and expectations with a family and everything. We've talked a little about this stuff, and it sounds like it's a good thing I held off on the exercises. Though, since I've been doing the PCs, I have noticed at least a .20 inch increase in length. I think I'll just stick with increasing the erection strength. Thanks for all the encouragement and support guys. I'll keep you updated on my life from time to time. But probably won't be giving any intimate sexual details lol. I just don't feel right about that.

                            Peace
                            Congratulations on your new life together.
                            Porn the unknown disaster of our time.
                            the_iron

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                            • #15
                              In all honesty I think you should wait until after you've had enough sex to know whats working and whats not in the bedroom. As many educated and experienced men in this forum will tell you the size of your unit only plays a small part in the overall satisfaction you both receive while making love. If I was going to advise you on any exercises it would be those that allow you to have more control over your own body. It's going to take you guys a few times to find out what works (angles, positions, amount of foreplay etc etc) that the longer you can "hang on" the better chance you have of finding your proper rhythm.

                              In my opinion you should make sure you know how to use what you have first before you attempt to make any changes to what you have already.

                              Oh, and Congrats!!
                              "Be not proud when victorious, do not give up when defeated."

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