New member, advice givers welcome.

[poisonedchalice]

Hello all,

I have dealt with many insecurities about my private parts ever since I have been sexually active, and am in no position to judge these insecurities as justified or not. I have not spoken about any of this to anyone before, and am taking advantage of my anonymity to get it all off my chest. If you do not like whiny, self-absorbed, "who-cares" rants, please read no further.I never masturbated before the age of 17. I don't know why, it just never sounded appealing. Maybe I was just too stupid to figure it out, or too impatient. I distinctly remember having to make up stories in junior high school about my jackspeditions in order to not feel like the weird kid around my friends.

I had sex for the first time a year earlier. It sucked, and so did my next few experiences, until I started dating an older girl (who I'll refer to as A) who was really good at her trade. Until then, I would just have sex for around 45 minutes until I'd get tired, and just not get what the whole fuss was about. A however made me experience my first orgasm (first conscious one, wet dreams ftw). I however broke up with her because after a while, it would be back to having sex for 60 minutes and just going flaccid on her. I have been masturbating successfully and regularly since then (what an achievement right???), but it hardly ever takes me less than 30 minutes.

Girls often tell me that they've never been with someone who can last nearly as long as I could (oh, high school), and I kind of thought of it as a superpower, and would brag about my exploits, kind of like I'm doing right now. I felt pretty good about it until I found out what I was missing out on, as aforementioned. After dating A, I would randomly hook up with this girl (T) who happens to have a very tight vagina, and still do on occasion to this day. T is the only girl who makes come quick, even though I don't find her especially attractive, and nor are we romantically involved.

I am however currently dating someone that I love (C), and for some reason, I won't come. Obviously she's not complaining from the hour + long intercourse, and is perfect enough to give me a permanent boner. The fact that the easiest girl I've ever been with is the only one who's ever been able to make me come in less than 25 minutes, whereas my favorite future ex-girlfriend C (just being realistic, I'm not even in my 20s yet) can't even do it in 90, is extremely frustrating and saddening. After C's climaxed several times and is just too tired to go on, she gives me this look that says "I'm not good enough for you," even though that's not at all how I feel, because I've never been attracted to anyone this much before. Additionally, blowjobs and handjobs just dont cut it, I've kind of given up on orgasming from either of those, since it's never been successful for me.

Then it hit me: T is tight as hell. None of the others were. I finally put 2 and 2 together and realized that I probably have a girth issue. I joined this site so that I can enjoy sex as much as my partner. I would also really hate to be forced to have my children conceived in a test-tube because of my 'problem' a few decades from now. What I'm looking for is a simple routine that would guarantee girth. I've seen many conflicting opinions, even on this website, about what is the best option. All the acronyms don't really help a novice like me either.

If you have a had the patience to read up to this point, I thank you, and am looking forward to getting tips from guys like you to achieve my goal as I have no experience whatsoever in penisbuilding. However, part of me feels kind of silly posting this teenage angst on a penis enlarging website, so please tell me if this isn't the place for me.

Erect Length: 5.5
Erect Girth: 4.8
Flaccid Length: 3.6
Flaccid Girth: 3.5

[thenewdude]

Do you know your girth measurement? And keep in mind that women who do jump from man to man in short spans really do not accommodate to any man but probably be lose because of that. I had one girl who had a history of sleeping around which I don't know why I even sleep with her which is not my style (I was in my teens). Now bare in mind my size (beginning stats) have been pretty much that since I was about 14 (I sprung up fast even in height). It felt as if I was screwing air. I really didn't feel the walls that much. But anyway we hooked up and found out that she got used to much in search for her quest to feel loved. So we went out for a while and I didn't have sex with her for about two week in order to build with a her a rapport not based on sex but on personality and character. Lo and behold, we had intercourse one morning after having went out to a nice restaurant the night before and she felt kind of tight which I was used to. This had proven a fact to me that women accommodate to the man that are with after a while unless that are cheating on the side no longer with only one man. It makes perfect sense and did then when I was only 17.

[poisonedchalice]

Hey sorry,

I was just updating my post when before seeing your reply. That's pretty interesting. Yeah I mean she just broke up with her ex like 2 weeks ago so that makes sense I guess. I only see her on the weekends though so I hope she's not screwing around haha.

P.S.: the figures in my first post are VERY eye-balled, I don't have a meter handy.

[thenewdude]

I mean I can see if one has below average girth being an issue but more with women who have had children because the vaginal muscles are weakened some (that's right because many don't kegel to strengthen them back up yet they want us to be fit, huh? Si figura! (One figures!)). My wife had that issue with her first husband to whom she born two boys way back then where after that the girth was not really cutting it although she said he knew how to use it. One of the common misconception about the vagina is that you have the exterior walls which are very elastic and most times return back to normal (provided she is not one of these have to have a hand up in it causing the membrane layer to weaken and stretch), and then you have the muscles which do belong to the pelvic group of muscles that really makes the difference where she is "tight" or not and the depth of the muscles where some will be farther apart from each other (which one may call "big vagina" but really it is just the top and bottom muscles are farther apart than average, kegeling can help this some; and the muscles which are very close to each other like a clamp which one may consider "tight". Most times that are within normal distance where they have some room in space. If you ever have had your woman sneeze during intercourse you would feel the top and bottom muscle contract involuntarily. So it all depends.