Depressed as a Guy, Renewed as a Man

**MovingUp** · 03-01-2013

I mean guys it's not a terrible thing to not have sex or a relationship for a year lol if that's what you really want at 20 I think that can be a beneficial thing in your life, take a break from girls and focus on other things, you get most of your gains in the first year anyways and then after that continue on with what you were like beforehand along with pe ... not suggesting you to do this, but it's not such a bad idea ... i haven't kissed or dated a girl in well over a year, I haven't spontaneously combusted 0_o

**Toadstool** · 03-01-2013

If taking a break for girls to work on other things is your goal, that's one thing. If you WANT to sleep with women but hold back because you think it will harm your gains, that's another.

**MovingUp** · 03-01-2013

but he wants to sleep with women with his future improved penis, and sleeping with women will hurt his progress, whether it be too much ejaculation, not enough private time to pe, or whatever ... obviously sex is great to have but that doesnt mean it's in his best interest just because it be nice to have ...

besides that, he could find himself in the position that he really starts battling his self-esteem about his penis and then loses all confidence in bed or has erection psychological problems or just has complete disasters in his relationship and has some bad experiences ... i just see a 20 year old guy that could totally skip all those possible problems by laying off of that for a bit over a year and make some good gains and go back in there with some new found confidence and it seems like thats what he wants too

**jay1993** · 03-01-2013

Sorry to hear about that man. Use it as motivation. Stay away from the porn for awhile too, if you watch porn right now it will be like pouring salt on an open wound. Porn can make a 7 x5 look like an 8x6, so it really distorts your perception. Resist the urge, and make your dick really fucking big. Shoot for 8x6. And then fuck her sisters and best friends. Fucking bitch.

**Boosie** · 03-01-2013

ur right tho, no point of having sex with a girl if she isn enjoying it. For me atleast :/ Welcome to the gym tho.

**MrsLooking4more** · 03-01-2013

Welcome to the Gym Brain Hack! Here is a woman perspective, glad that you got rid of the insensitive, mulish, B*%@#! She was just trying to be demeaning, since she can get herself off with her darn fingers then there was no reason for that verbal abuse. Wish I could have a chance at her with my whip and restraints.
Not all women are like her after all, how do you know the problem isn't her being all stretched out from her sexual history (as Girth5 pointed out maybe she needed to do some kegels). Do not let it get to your head, she is not worth it! Go ahead and do PE because you want to improve the health of your penis and have it in excellent working order through out your life but don't do it for a woman such as that one.

You will love the support you will have here this place is amazing! The JP90 routine already pointed out for you is a great one, my husband incurred most of his gains with it. Looking forward to seeing your posts. Good luck!

P.S. My husband and I are sexually active just about daily and it did not inhibit his grow. Everyone is different you need to experiment and see what works for you.

**Toadstool** · 03-01-2013

Originally Posted by MovingUp

but he wants to sleep with women with his future improved penis, and sleeping with women will hurt his progress

Except, it won't. Did you read the links I posted?

**Jay1983** · 03-01-2013

Originally Posted by jay1993

Shoot for 8x6. And then fuck her sisters and best friends. Fucking bitch.

I like this idea!

**Going2Grow** · 03-01-2013

You seem to have been hurt enough that this has left a serious impact. ( ...and rightfully so might I add.)

Really stop and *think* about it, rather than be emotional. You are 20 years old and know you can grow your cock. You are soooo lucky. Many of us here are much older and don't have the same "rebuilding" power as you because you're younger. Even if you grow 1/2 an inch for 5 years that's 2.5 more inches. That's more than 50% of your lowest estimate!! What if you PE for 8 years, gaining 1/2 an inch per.... sheesh. Time is on your side.

I have a little different take on things, so for me personally I would take that moment of the cold water feeling and remember it, concentrate on it... CEMENT it in my head. I would then recall it every time I started to feel lazy about PE and I would also really learn to appreciate the woman I am with because she *does not* make you feel like that. Not all our bad memories and bad feelings should haunt us even if they hurt us deeply at the time. Let them motivate you, drive you and change you.

... and I'm sorry, I have to say, let's also be racially aware since you brought it up. An Asian guy with a 6.5-7.5 inch shlong or bigger is not common so you're going to stand out!! ... pun intended.