Depressed as a Guy, Renewed as a Man

[brainhack13]

Here's my story:

I am a 20-year old guy from the Philippines, hence, an Asian. I wasn't bestowed with a monster dick. I am in the average with BPEL varying between 4-5" depending on EQ. It didn't matter at first. I didn't really care about it to begin with. I thought performance overpowers size, which is true with some women, otherwise for the rest.

I never had any problems getting girls to have sex with me. I'm cute, as they say, and I've learned the Mystery Method and it has been working wonders for me. Finally, I thought, I found the woman I can get serious with. She's 36, sexy and cute, and has a LOT of experience, but well, who cares? I was in-love.

But life doesn't really end at 20, I guess. I thought she was the one never knowing that she's just passing by just to give me a huge punch below the belt.

A few days ago, 6 to be exact, the most depressingly devastating part of my manhood came. Me and my now ex-girlfriend had sex. It was all cool. Not spectacular, but it was with someone I love so I was all good. Through countless experiences, I know she wasn't enjoying it that much. I asked her what's the matter. Then she began to tell me her story. About how huge of a change for her to have sex with a guy with a size like mine. About how I am the 'smallest'. She kept telling about her exes who has 7 to 8-inches. She told me I was a performer but I wasn't just reaching enough.

Have you ever had that feeling like someone's pouring ice-cold water on your head? It was all messed up. Then I told her to get out and never come back. I just sat, my back on the wall, depressed like shit, never knowing what to do. Later that night, I sat up in front of the computer, playing music, and searching for ways on how to enlarge my unit.

I've seen a lot of ways. Mostly BS. Then I found PEGym and though, "Pfft! Stupid guys trying to enlarge each other. LOL."

Honestly, that was the wrongest thought I had. I read the success stories and was enlightened. Indeed, there's a way. A way to be the man I want to be.

This gym will help me to achieve my unrealistic but definitely reachable goal -- to have beautiful women lining up by my apartment door while I am inside saying, "Next!"

For me, it's not enough to learn how to put girls into bed. It's equally important to give them mind-blowing sex in all aspects, size and performance. And with the guys out here who've travelled the path of self-improvement back and forth a couple of times, the journey I will take will not always be easy, I know, but will be fun and exciting.

I promise y'all that I will be reborn. I will refrain from sex for a year. I will use this 1 year to improve my penis overall (health, length, girth).

Thank you all for the inspiration. I will surely visit the gym everyday.

[Jay1983]

Welcome to the Gym bro. Read as much as you can, and don't hurt your unit!

[donjelqer76]

Welcome to the gym

I'm really sorry to hear your story - the only thing I can say is that you've come to the right place.
If you haven't already, check out https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...r-routine.html. Its a great way to start safely, and will condition you for heavier routines in the future should you need them.

Visiting here daily, making friends and interacting is a great way to stay motivated and have a little fun while you PE. I look forward to seeing you around

Good luck

[Going2Grow]

That must have been brutal to hear, specially in the frame of criticism and seeing the poor results before your talk.

You were right to kick her the fuck out. Even if she was not considerate enough to "work through it" during sex there are ways to say things and ways not to. Women as a species are mixing up equal rights and being mean spirited bitches.

*PLEASE* re-consider making any 'life changes' - abstaining from sex, etc... for the next year. I feel that if you do you are letting her continue to beat you and make you feel small (pun intended). Are you really going to let that rude, inconsiderate and insensitive woman hurt you like that? Why should you go without the joy of sex, the fun of relationships and the 'regular' life style of what you were living before?

ANY woman worth being with long term is considerate, kind and gentle. If you don't have that as a starting point, it's a good idea to make note... you don't have a starting point.

Since you are here on PEGYM take a few minutes to find the forum about where the women talk about things. There are some real keepers here; perhaps to be frank, they are not the norm. But somewhere in the grey area between the insensitive c-faced bitch you were with and the really super cool ladies here there is someone waiting to meet you brainhack13. There are women that will just appreciate that you even care about learning to pleasure them and that you geniunely care for them. Just as much as you are a wounded bird from your "ex" there are women that have been wounded too and will really appreciate a guy who takes care of them.

Yes, PE away but don't let your spirit be broken.

[faithandhope]

hell yeah dude, I'm 20 years old, we are blessed to have found the PEgym now, in teh days of technology. Rather than live another 20 years with anxiety and fear about women! Fuck that! Welcome man

[Jay1983]

Fuck BITCHES! Love WOMEN!

[Girth5]

Tell tha BITCH TO DO KEGELS !

[brainhack13]

"You were right to kick her the fuck out."

- Damn straight.

"*PLEASE* re-consider making any 'life changes' - abstaining from sex, etc... for the next year. I feel that if you do you are letting her continue to beat you and make you feel small (pun intended). Are you really going to let that rude, inconsiderate and insensitive woman hurt you like that? Why should you go without the joy of sex, the fun of relationships and the 'regular' life style of what you were living before?"

- That I am having questions about. You see, I don't know if it's okay to bang everyday while PEing. Will it not hinder my growth? I'm serious about PEing, man. And I would do everything to achieve my goal. I'm planning to grow as much as I can in a year.

"ANY woman worth being with long term is considerate, kind and gentle. If you don't have that as a starting point, it's a good idea to make note... you don't have a starting point."

- Yeah. I thought so. I mean, I'm probably just too young to know what "falling" really means, or I probably just saw my mother in her. Either way, not good.

"...perhaps to be frank, they are not the norm."

- That's a good one there.

"Yes, PE away but don't let your spirit be broken."

- Thanks bro, and sorry for the broken quotes. I don't want to quote it all together. Looks messed up to me. LOL

[brainhack13]

Fuck BITCHES! Love WOMEN!

Short and sweet, baby.

[Toadstool]

"

- That I am having questions about. You see, I don't know if it's okay to bang everyday while PEing. Will it not hinder my growth? I'm serious about PEing, man. And I would do everything to achieve my goal. I'm planning to grow as much as I can in a year.

Sex/masturbation might impede gains, depending on other variables. I'll find you some good links to read on the subject in just a sec. No one here, or maybe very few, will say to abandon sex for gains. The thought behind this is that PE is just a goal, like maybe fixing a car or painting a fence, and should not take the place of other joys in your life.
Me, I'm an advocate of having your cake and eating it too. You don't need to live in one extreme or the other, you can find balance and have both of the things you enjoy. Gains won't come any faster if you do PE more often.


Okay, so there is a little bit of controversy when it comes to PE and size gains: https://www.pegym.com/articles/ejacu...nis-size-gains. This study says that there should be at least a 1-2 hour gap between ejaculation and your routine, or your gains will suffer.

However, it's not as simple as that. Remek (the author of the book Exercising your Penis and the owner of this site) posted his detailed response when someone asked https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...turbation.html.
This is well worth the read and gives insight into it.

Whatever you do, make sure you keep a close eye on your PIs : https://www.pegym.com/articles/physi...p-penis-growth.