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    Hey, I'm 18 (soon to be 19). My penis is way below average and always has been. It is around 4.5 inches erect which i don't think can really please a girl. I was having to thrust quite hard and quick and tried to go in positions where she would feel it as much as possible. When flaccid it is TINY and i'm really self conscious about this. It can go seriously small so that its like 1 inch. Don't be horrible to me on here cause I'm small. Luckily though I get erections very easily (even just thinking that I will soon be having sex with a girl will make me 100% hard) so during sex the whole time, the girl will never see me flaccid. But one day my erections would not always be so strong so I would like to make some gains when flaccid and erect. Also because I'm literally always erect when with a girl i like and who likes me, I think my erection quality can go down by the time we have sex because my penis can be up for at least an hour beforehand and can be even longer.

    My other reason why I am here is that I don't last long at all during sex. I've only had sex about 6 times in my life. Only with 2 girls though.
    First time: Cummed before intercourse. She gave me oral and I accidentally ejaculated in her mouth. woops! Lasted maybe 30 secs.
    Second time: Same girl, she was giving me oral and I really had to do my best to hold it in. Take my mind off sex, breath deeply etc. I managed to hold it in and just before ejaculating, I pulled out, went down on her before proceeding to sex. Lasted maybe 3 mins
    Third: Had sex but with no oral. Lasted a lot longer but i was getting tired now from lots of thrusting. Lasted about 3-4 mins.
    4th - Different girl. She sucked at oral and i couldnt even ejaculate from it (it was her first time), sex was terrible and lasted about 3-4 mins.
    5th and 6th - We tried it with no condom so first time I cummed in 30 seconds. Second time maybe just under a minute.

    Should I do JP's 90 day? And what should I do for premature ejaculation?

    Also... I don't have any lube. I hope I don't need it as I don't want to buy it in case anyone in my family sees it (thought i may need it for jelking).
    welovethehammers
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    Last edited by welovethehammers; 04-16-2013, 05:13 PM.

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    Hey man, welcome to the forum. I don't think anyone will be horrible to you because of your size here, we're all here to gain!

    Yes, you should do the JP 90 programme. It's excellent for beginners. To help with premature ejaculation try edging. This is the process of masturbating and bringing yourself close to climax without actually ejaculating. Keep doing this and gradually add more and more time to help you overcome the premature ejaculation.
    March '13 - BPEL 6.0' EG 4.5' (length is an approximation)
    April '13 - BPEL 6.75' EG 4.6'

    Short term goal - BPEL 7' EG 5.0'
    Long term goal - who knows?

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    • #3
      Originally posted by Whiteboy16 View Post
      Hey man, welcome to the forum. I don't think anyone will be horrible to you because of your size here, we're all here to gain!

      Yes, you should do the JP 90 programme. It's excellent for beginners. To help with premature ejaculation try edging. This is the process of masturbating and bringing yourself close to climax without actually ejaculating. Keep doing this and gradually add more and more time to help you overcome the premature ejaculation.
      Thanks for the rely!! I will start the JP programme tomorrow hopefully. And maybe edging tomorrow. Is it ok just to do edging whenever I feel horny. I.e whenever i want to watch porn, i will just do it then and keep holding it in just before climax over and over again. I can tell my bandwidth is going to get destroyed haha

      Also... is there a specific technique to find my girth? I don't have any tape measure so I will use some string, start from the beginning of string and as soon as the string reaches the other side after going round my penis, I will put a little pen mark there. Then straighten out the string next to a ruler and measure it. Do i do it flaccid or erect?

      Also - What do I do if I have no lube and cannot get lube?

      Also.. one more question... what does 'do a kegel' actually mean? is that the same as a jelq?
      welovethehammers
      Junior Member
      Last edited by welovethehammers; 04-16-2013, 06:15 PM.

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      • #4
        Edging - please don't use porn, expand your imagination.
        Girth measuring - Erect is mainly the best to represent for girth.
        Lube - use extra virgin olive oil or high quality extra virgin coconut oil
        Kegel - when you pee, squeeze the muscle in your groin area and it will stop you from peeing until you release the hold.

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        • #5
          You will need lube. Hand cream or regular lotion works great. Might need a cup of water or some spit to keep it wet.

          I haven't had sex since I started jp90, but something tells me it will help my PE. I basically get tired of playing with my penis and my penis gets tired of being played with. It might take some of the excitement out of it. Also, maybe, just maybe the skin gets a bit tougher hence less sensitive. Just a thought.

          You should do PE now. In a few years you can be 6 inches. I wish I had the interenet when I was your age. I'd be a monster by now

          Good luck, stick with it. Read the forum every day for a while to learn all you can.
          Learn from my 3+ years of experience. Tips and tricks.

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          • #6
            Read, read, read, read, read, read, read. That's all I can say to newbies. Read this forum (and others if you have the time) like it's the most interesting damn book out there.
            Collection of scientific articles and books related to PE: pe_sources.zip

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            • #7
              welcome to the gym..
              Mighty oaks from little acorns grow!
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