In another thread, MrB8 challenges my take on the fact that having a lot of sexual experience with many different women (or different men for the ladies), does not have any bearing on our current relationship with someone.
Here's his post in quotes:
The way I see it, if you are thinking of your Ex(s) you are not over them, are not with your CURRENT partner, and definitely not in the moment especially if you bring them to your bed.
What I meant with my previous post is that it really doesn't matter how much we are packing, or how many we or our partners have been with before we met, whats past is past and it is up to us to live the present and the future.
Its not like a penis auction and whoever has the biggest unit is picked by the girl nor is it about sex, its intimacy and emotions that matter, and those don't even need a penis.
I don't want to hijack the thread so I won't be responding on this subject here anymore, if you are interested in maybe another laugh at this moronic idiocy lets take it elsewhere.
So ya dude, I'm taking it elsewhere.
I've only been with 2 women in my life. First girl was really hot, but stuck up and bitchy, and had that princess attitude "I'm beautiful so you have to do what I say if you want me as your gf". So yeah, because she was hot I put up with that shit for a while, but it was grating to be around her and I had enough one day and just cut things with her.
I never asked her how many guys she was with before me. I'm guessing probably more than 10 or 15, most of them likely one night stands, who knows.
I met another girl who is much sweeter. The funny thing is, first time we had sex, I was actually surprised how much tighter her vagina was. I had only felt one vagina prior to that, and it was looser, but having no real comparison, I had no idea there were differences.
I wasn't looking for a girl who was tighter. I stater dating this girl because she won me over with her sweetness, even though she was more average looking. Still eventually we started chatting about previous exes, and she was surprised to find she was only my second. She admitted to me she had had 8 guys before me, and I believe her, and of course the usual "they turned out to be assholes" speech, etc etc.
So anyway to not make this about my life story, basically:
1. I don't have a lot of experience
2. Yet, I was able to feel a noticeable difference between only 2 women.
So you say "Well if you're still thinking about your exe's with your new SO, then you are not in the moment with your new partner"
Sir, respectfully I say to that "horseshit!". I wasn't looking for another girl, I was forced out of a relationship into another one. I still wish the first girl wasn't so goddamn stupid. I don't miss her much, but I still miss her a little bit even if the new girl actually has a better "feel" so to speak.
And I can honestly say that if I had to stop seeing my new gf, and end up with another girl who was looser, yeah I'd miss it.
Are you going to say this wouldn't be the case for you too?
Here's his post in quotes:
Glad you two enjoyed a good laugh
The way I see it, if you are thinking of your Ex(s) you are not over them, are not with your CURRENT partner, and definitely not in the moment especially if you bring them to your bed.
What I meant with my previous post is that it really doesn't matter how much we are packing, or how many we or our partners have been with before we met, whats past is past and it is up to us to live the present and the future.
Its not like a penis auction and whoever has the biggest unit is picked by the girl nor is it about sex, its intimacy and emotions that matter, and those don't even need a penis.
I don't want to hijack the thread so I won't be responding on this subject here anymore, if you are interested in maybe another laugh at this moronic idiocy lets take it elsewhere.
So ya dude, I'm taking it elsewhere.
I've only been with 2 women in my life. First girl was really hot, but stuck up and bitchy, and had that princess attitude "I'm beautiful so you have to do what I say if you want me as your gf". So yeah, because she was hot I put up with that shit for a while, but it was grating to be around her and I had enough one day and just cut things with her.
I never asked her how many guys she was with before me. I'm guessing probably more than 10 or 15, most of them likely one night stands, who knows.
I met another girl who is much sweeter. The funny thing is, first time we had sex, I was actually surprised how much tighter her vagina was. I had only felt one vagina prior to that, and it was looser, but having no real comparison, I had no idea there were differences.
I wasn't looking for a girl who was tighter. I stater dating this girl because she won me over with her sweetness, even though she was more average looking. Still eventually we started chatting about previous exes, and she was surprised to find she was only my second. She admitted to me she had had 8 guys before me, and I believe her, and of course the usual "they turned out to be assholes" speech, etc etc.
So anyway to not make this about my life story, basically:
1. I don't have a lot of experience
2. Yet, I was able to feel a noticeable difference between only 2 women.
So you say "Well if you're still thinking about your exe's with your new SO, then you are not in the moment with your new partner"
Sir, respectfully I say to that "horseshit!". I wasn't looking for another girl, I was forced out of a relationship into another one. I still wish the first girl wasn't so goddamn stupid. I don't miss her much, but I still miss her a little bit even if the new girl actually has a better "feel" so to speak.
And I can honestly say that if I had to stop seeing my new gf, and end up with another girl who was looser, yeah I'd miss it.
Are you going to say this wouldn't be the case for you too?
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