New Guy from Space

[TheStarScream]

Hey everyone, Starscream here, first day on the forum. Have read you guys a couple times, recently compelled to join.

My big thing that I want to work on, needless to say is penis size, and secondly the confidence that comes with being "OK" with it. I used to be rather confident until my current fiancé and mother of my child embarrassed me in front of my friends when we were first engaged.

After what was a successful sex session we began departing when my roommates mentioned how loud we were in the other room. My girlfriend had mentioned not to worry, since I was cut off for a week anyway. Of course my friend inquired and she responded that hitting the cervix during pregnancy made her bleed and we couldn't play for a week. My friend laughed and stated "well get used to it, happens with black guys". My girlfriend immediately looked at me and told me to ignore what she was going to say. I refused presuming that it wasn't anything harmful. She immedielty and frankly stated she had seen bigger. I took it lightly and assumed porn, as did my mates, until she matter-of-factly said with disappointment that she had had bigger (the same she 'd seen). Evidently her first boyfriend was around 10 in and her previous lover was circa 7.5 to 9 (can't seem to get an exact figure from her). Needless to say I've felt like shit and refuse to look her in the eye anymore despite her claims that she doesn't care much about size, with her previous partners ranging from 4 to 10 inches. I pretended to let it go and ignore it but our sex just hasn't been as fun or frequent for me ever since, I just don't want to anymore really.

Personally i had a BPEG of about 6.75 and a Mid Shaft EG of 5.1 and was quite pleased. Not so pleased or proud anymore so I'm looking to make it at least 7.5 - 8.5 (Her non-verbal perfect range) and a good 6 in girth would make me feel like myself again.

Whew, sorry about the read, kinda unloaded. That being said I'll clearly need as much help as I can get. Will add before pics to my album and question the hell out of everyone. Thank you gentlemen

- S.S.

[Looking4more]

Welcome to the Gym The StarScream.
First thing you need to do is stop torturing yourself or your girlfriend over penis size. As you look through the threads here you will realize that most women could care less about size especially if their man treats them well. They like us as a whole package, not by just our package.

If you would like to gain size and keep your unit in tip top shape, I recommend starting here https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...cess-here.html . Read through the whole thing. Pay close attention to the safety tips and choose a beginner routine. Many guys and myself included started with the JP90. It worked very well for me. My gains and routine are in my signature if you want to see the possibilities.

Please don't hesitate to ask questions. We are all here to help.
Good luck.

[Pegasus]

The standard abuse, no truth to it usually ,designed to break down your confidence .
This is an extreamly bad sign re her personality and your relationship.
Standard advice is find a new girl and cut your losses.

[DennyA]

Ah, the girlfriend or wife with the ex yielding a 10 inch cock...it's an epidemic in the world. Your size is good and when you reach your goal of 8.5 x 6, you will magically have a 10 inch penis in her eyes too...

[TheStarScream]

Welcome is much appreciated mates, see you all on the boards

[draggin]

Love the name and title. You are a creative guy.

Nothing wrong with your size. You are correct about your confidence though. Get your confidence back and you'll get your "swagger" back and love the size of your cock once again too.

In the meantime, start PE exercises and get a bigger badder dick while your at it.

[jstane45]

Welcome. You'll like it here.

Sorry to hear what your girl said, women all to often have no idea the impact those type of statements can have on a guy.

[draggin]

The standard abuse, no truth to it usually ,designed to break down your confidence .
This is an extreamly bad sign re her personality and your relationship.
Standard advice is find a new girl and cut your losses.

You must be one good looking son-of-a-gun, cause I can't afford to throw women away so quickly. Besides, good ones are worth effort. Plus it didn't sound like she was intentionally trying to hurt him, she just gave too much information away in that one conversation. People say stupid shit sometimes, Hell, take me for example.

[kickinthemebs]

Girls are notoriously useless at predicting what sizes their exes were, as was already pointed out. As you frequent these forums you will realise that it is an extremely common recurrence, of the "my girl's ex boyfriend was bigger than me" theme. It has, and will, come up time and time again. Girls know for a fact of guy's insecurities about penis size, so her mentioning it and downright upsetting you would demonstrate to the objective viewer that she is a bit stupid, insensitive or directly making you self-conscious. Her "10 inch" cock was in reality at max an 8 incher to 8.5. Guys lie about their size all the time, measure incorrectly, and girls always add an inch or two! Don't get bogged down, you have a large penis as it is. Get a bigger dick for yourself, not because your girl has had bigger.

[trepan]

The standard abuse, no truth to it usually ,designed to break down your confidence .
This is an extreamly bad sign re her personality and your relationship.
Standard advice is find a new girl and cut your losses.

Ditto.... This is not acceptable. Truly a very hurtful attitude. Do not take this lightly as it was a show to her hidden nature. If you enjoy having someone view you as someone to be treated poorly, let it go. I would move on... life is short.

The biggest mistake I ever made in my life, was allowing a woman treat me poorly.