Feeling Down

**closed111** · 01-12-2014

Hi all,

I have been doing PE for 2 weeks now as a result of overhearing some of my friends saying that I had a small penis. I knew I never had a big size, but I didn't know that the lack of a bulge was obvious with my jeans. I am now extremely self conscious about my penis and realize the lack of bulge I have. I haven't had many sexual partners previously, but I used to be a fairly confident and cheerful individual before the overhearing incident, which occurred for the second time in the last couple of days. Now I am the opposite. My self esteem is shot and I do not want to leave the house in order to avoid being seen in public. With the few times I have been in public, I am paranoid about people looking at my package and judging it.

I am 21 with a FL that fluctuates between FL 3-3.5 inches FG of 3.9 EL 5.5 and EG of 5.1 and I have about about half an inch of pad fat. I don't know if I am even considered a grower but I definitely want to eventually be a shower.

I am possibly in a borderline depressed state, however I am hoping that with enough PE and the use of a bathmate which I'm contemplating on purchasing, I can increase my size in both states in order to regain some confidence.

**schlittle** · 01-12-2014

Hello Dam!

There is a saying in life "dickheads will be dickheads". You may consider them friends.. but you have got some dickheads for friends.

Those hurtful comments by those dickhead friends of yours are completely wrong because like most men in the world your penis size falls in the average size range. So don't feel self conscious and sheild yourself from the world because your penis size is nothing to be ashamed of.

About PE, it does work and if you want a bigger penis then PE can give you it.

Good luck!

**DennyA** · 01-12-2014

Originally Posted by dam101

Hi all,

I have been doing PE for 2 weeks now as a result of overhearing some of my friends saying that I had a small penis. I knew I never had a big size, but I didn't know that the lack of a bulge was obvious with my jeans. I am now extremely self conscious about my penis and realize the lack of bulge I have. I haven't had many sexual partners previously, but I used to be a fairly confident and cheerful individual before the overhearing incident, which occurred for the second time in the last couple of days. Now I am the opposite. My self esteem is shot and I do not want to leave the house in order to avoid being seen in public. With the few times I have been in public, I am paranoid about people looking at my package and judging it.

I am 21 with a FL that fluctuates between FL 3-3.5 inches FG of 3.9 EL 5.5 and EG of 5.1 and I have about about half an inch of pad fat. I don't know if I am even considered a grower but I definitely want to eventually be a shower.

I am possibly in a borderline depressed state, however I am hoping that with enough PE and the use of a bathmate which I'm contemplating on purchasing, I can increase my size in both states in order to regain some confidence.

You need to turn this around and ask yourself why these guys are trying to check out your bulge...and then commenting on it. When i was growing up, if one of my guy friends said that to me i would have shut him up by saying "dude, it's ok that you're gay and i am honored that you came out to me...i am your friend and here for you but i am straight."

**BigO** · 01-12-2014

Welcome Dam101, good to have you here.

First, lets address your size concern. Your size really isn't as bad as you think. According to stats, you are pretty much spot on average, with a little above average girth. That is certainly not a bad thing. Think of it this way, mother nature has seen fit to give you the size that has been working for centuries, and the size that the majority of men have. Here's a couple links to look at and get a better perspective on average;

Donjelqer76's Percentile and Frequency calculator
Mr. Average - The true story about penis size, from a site that isn't trying to sell you anything.

Next, your friends. Not exactly sure how or why they would know, or be talking about your size, but chances are they have a very similar size according to the law of averages. If they're bigger, then they are lucky, and shouldn't be putting people down because of it. Might be time to re-evaluate your circle of friends, but I don't know the whole story, so that's going to have to be your call.

Either way, don't let their comments or judgement get you down, make you insecure, or ruin your self esteem. Your size is fine, and plenty to please a woman with.

Now, the exercises can and do work for increasing size (erect and flaccid), hardness, and health. So, by all means, pick up a beginner routine and go for it, especially if it makes you feel more confident. Just understand that results take time, patience, and dedication. Take it slow, and always keep safety in mind.

Keep your head up Dam, and best of luck to you.

**heretohelp** · 01-12-2014

Hey there, welcome on board!

I'm sorry to hear you're feeling a bit down and out. We all have those times when we feel less than happy with something about ourselves. Critical reflection of the self is necessary to grow as a person and make positive changes to your life but rarely is helpful when it becomes focused on one physical detail. As others have said you're an average size and this gives you the advantage of not needing to know the extra sexual techniques that go along with having a small or very large penis. In saying that, many members here seem to find success in PE, and anything that boosts your self worth without harming you is valuable. Remember that there are many other factors that define who you are as a person and what you're worth - you seem very clear, well articulated and a deep thinker which are tremendous strengths to have and far more likely to impress the general populas than your penis size (which seems to only be under the scrutiny of a particularly odd set of individuals. Friends don't analyse friends' packages).

**BigO** · 01-12-2014

Some wieners are hung in different spots and there are many guys that have big wangs that do not have big bulges in the pants. Your friends are dickheads.

**Wolfemother** · 01-12-2014

Welcome to the gym Dan. You have an average penis and an ideal proportions to start making important. One advantage is you have time on your side ..

**TheStarScream** · 01-12-2014

Welcome Dam! Actually my story is pretty similar and I feel you. I'm looking to work hard too and get that confidence back!

To confidence!

-S.S.

**closed111** · 01-13-2014

Thanks for the words of wisdom guys, really appreciate it. I am not intending to contact or see those people any time soon, which will hopefully remove them from my life. Guess its not such a bad thing as they weren't exactly people that were motivated to do well in life. Luckily I have good friends in another social circle who are quite the opposite and more polite. Hopefully with dedication to PE the gains will eventually come.