bad past experiences need growth

[TheGreatDivider]

Ok, wow...... Your friends are not "friends". And that girl was just being a bitch. So fuck her.

If I were you I'd seriously think about getting new friends who don't make fun of you. Maybe some that don't like to drink and party. Because at your age you should not be worrying about that one girl that doesn't like you.

And about that ONS..... She was drunk, you were drunk, and later she showed you her true colors. So you know, cut her out of your life and your asshole friends as well.

[GrowStrong]

Ok, wow...... Your friends are not "friends". And that girl was just being a bitch. So fuck her.

If I were you I'd seriously think about getting new friends who don't make fun of you. Maybe some that don't like to drink and party. Because at your age you should not be worrying about that one girl that doesn't like you.

And about that ONS..... She was drunk, you were drunk, and later she showed you her true colors. So you know, cut her out of your life and your asshole friends as well.

yeah i definitely have some ass hole friends at the moment, but i dont partically class them as friends its more of like, my friends hangout with them, so i have to tolerate them when im around them. the one who called me out and said i had a small penis, not many in our group likes him, he is simply the "c" word and i was so close to killing him at one point, but i restrained myself.

ahh well, in life you gotta weaving through the dicks until you find the right people to be in your life, thats what i feel im doing at the moment, i definitely know who my true friends are and who the pretenders are. and as for the girl who told everybody, i dont class her as anything other than abit of a slut, im with a real woman at the moment and shes helped lift my confidence out the mud alot since all of that happened.

[TheGreatDivider]

So if your friends hang around these people that doesn't mean you have to. Think about that one..... Your friends are associating with people you can't stand. And you're telling me you go along like you absolutely have to.

Set yourself some boundaries here and don't go anywhere or stick around anywhere where you have to see these jerks. I mean you came close to killing that one guy..... Is it really worth getting kicked out of school to whoop his ass?

Chances are both of these bullies are going to pick on you no matter what. Bullies do it because they want to draw attention to themselves and put themselves above others but also when they're bored, lonely, anxious, etc. And bullies don't stop for long after you stand up to them.... They tend to rise up again to take revenge. The key with them is to show them they can't get to you anymore and show them you're stronger than anything they can dish out.


Let me tell you a little story about my high school experience. I had this bully follow me into high school from middle school gym class. I was the fat kid and he used to make that class miserable for me. So one day I told him to shut the fuck up and called him a needle dick. He backed off from that point on in middle school, but when I got to high school..... Guess what nickname he started calling me with his idiot friends down the hallways. That's right, these assholes were shouting "Needle dick! Needle dick! Needle dick!" down the hallways whenever they say me. I was pissed at first but as soon as I realized how pathetic this guy was I stopped giving a fuck and just put up with it until he found someone else to torture.

I also had bullies in college and in the Navy, but that's a different story.