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    hi guys im 27 years old an really starting to get down about my size, its not so much the length but the girth, just feels like i have to put so much work in to get a reaction out of a girl, tried the whole jelqing thing nearly a year before but didnt see any difference whatsoever, i also watch a lot of porn and seeing the guys with big hefty tools and knowing the fact that the girls im sleeping with have had bigger too just puts me down, they never say anything about it to me but i know secretly their thinking it, im also on steroids as well so i have big muscles and some little twiglet of a knob, i just wanna know is there anything i can do to increase girth that actually works?
    any help greatly appreciated

  • #2
    What's your size? Not sure how to help if we don't have that.

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    • #3
      to the Gym loginthefire!


      Don't miss this thread!!





      And if you haven't already done so, please https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...cess-here.html Pay attention to safety instructions.

      Don't let porn rule and ruin your perception of size, first of all, those "performers" are selected for their physical attributes, so they are not the norm/majority, then there are special tricks, shooting angles and drugs, if you give in to those thoughts you are only doing a disfavor to yourself, porn aint real, and it doesn't represent reality nor what is "expected" of a male in bed.

      Greetings from the Fairy Pornmother

      Adolescent Brain Meets Highspeed Internet Porn

      Don't RELY on porn for an erection!

      Therapeutic Help For Porn Addiction

      The Detraining Effect: Understanding and Reversing Negative Habits To Improve Erection Quality and Sexual Confidence: Part 1


      When done correctly, PE will greatly improve your penile health and increase your EQ, in addition to size gains, but you need to be consistent, patient and persistent, please do as much research as you can, ask questions, follow safety and exercise instructions carefully and remember that PE is a long term process, don't rush it up.

      Starting a journal in the progress forum is a good idea, to track your progress and get feedback, also for motivation!

      Girth work requires conditioning, I recommend following a beginner's manual routine for at least 90 days or until you stop gaining - whichever comes last. Most members here start with JP90, and gain fine from it, being an intense beginner's routine, you may want to consider starting slow and gradually increase workload!


      Pay attention to your PIs, your penis is trying to tell you if you are over working, or you are in the growth zone, aim for positive PIs, and steer away from the negative ones.

      Physiologic Indicators (PIs) to Help Penis Growth!

      Helpful jelqing Information

      What to Expect....A Beginner's Guide


      Good Luck!
      A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_it

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      • #4
        my size is 6" 1/2 and 5" in girth when fully errect

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        • #5
          Originally posted by loginthefire View Post
          my size is 6" 1/2 and 5" in girth when fully errect
          Well you are above avg in both length and girth so idk what the problem is. I think you're fine.

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          • #6
            Originally posted by loginthefire View Post
            my size is 6" 1/2 and 5" in girth when fully errect
            your girth is fine man no need to worry about it if i can recall right your girth is average , or high avrage my girth is the same as yours roughly don't feel bad just quit watching porn and mabye focus on erect length its a tad easier to gain and it will make you look a lot bigger quicker then focusing on girth because for the most part girth is harder to gain, a 7 or 7.5 inch with a 5inch girth would be enough to Wow any girl i know and you are very close to there.
            anyway good luck PEing and making gains

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            • #7
              thanks guys for tryna make me feel better, i dont really know what to say apart from i wish i was a bit more blessed

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              • #8
                I often hear that I am big and I'm your size and I don't fish for compliments. You would be surprised how far a hard cock with slightly above average stats will get you.
                Get positive about your size and be confident. Get off the juice. Start a solid beginner routine and work on your EQ.

                Good luck
                Jrems

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                • #9
                  Honestly dude, you're not small by all standards!
                  We almost have the same size and I don't really feel small to be honest!
                  In fact, having a girth close to the length size makes your unit look bigger than it really is, at least to me.

                  I think you have made this image about yourself where you need to look like those porn guys and that girls only enjoy horse size units.

                  I would definitely suggest that you cut down porn or even better cut it off cold turkey!
                  Start realizing that you don't need a giant cock to get a girl satisfied.

                  If the PE hasn't work yet and it's been around a year for you, i'd suggest you review your routine and fallow your PI and mostly what your body says. Over training won't lead to gains, you may just need 50 reps to get gains instead of 150.

                  So try to move pass this depression thing as soon as possible.

                  Good luck!
                  Allow and encourage your dick to grow. Don't force it to grow.

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by loginthefire View Post
                    thanks guys for tryna make me feel better, i dont really know what to say apart from i wish i was a bit more blessed
                    Its the truth, all scientific studies confirm it, your anxiety is based on the angle from which you view your penis and on porn, its all in your head.

                    https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym/558...ize-chart.html

                    Mr. Average - The true story about penis size, from a site that isn't trying to sell you anything.

                    Now that you are here, you have the chance to improve your penile health and EQ as well as gain in size and a new and better perspective!
                    A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_it

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                    • #11
                      Welcome to the gym loginthefire!

                      Your size is above average, you have nothing to worry about! Stop watching porn as MrB8 suggests, because it sounds like it's messing with your perception. With a dedicated, persistent approach you will make gains, but they won't happen overnight and less tends to be more with PE.

                      Also I believe that steroids won't benefit you in the long run as they have negative counter reactions. I don't know if you will be able to tell that your body is responding to PE effectively while taking them.

                      Either way I hope you get the results your after! Starting a log in the progress forum will help you stay motivated and help you track what works for your body.

                      Good luck, stay positive!
                      burtybasset
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                      those who know themselves have insight.
                      Those who master others have force,
                      those who master themselves have strength". - Lao Tzu

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                      • #12
                        Hiya loginthefire and welcome to the Gym!

                        If I may ask, what do you mean specifically when you wrote that it "just feels like you have to put so much work into getting a reaction out of a girl?"

                        You also stated that no girl has ever said anything negative to you but you KNOW secretly what they are thinking. How is that possible? Unless you are a bonafide mind reader, you are simply making assumptions and negative ones at that. Please remember that when you do that you are not only underestimating the girl(s), you are severely underestimating yourself. You need to do as MrB8 and others have recommended and stop watching porn; it is an unrealistic depiction of size as well as sexual play. Remember it is designed to be a fantasy, not a comparative, so go easy on yourself, okay?

                        I also wanted to mention that should you require it, there are also some helpful and supportive ladies available on the forum too who are more than willing to offer their insight and wisdom. We can often be located in the following forums:

                        A Woman's Perspective

                        Relationship Forum

                        The Gym


                        Originally posted by loginthefire View Post
                        hi guys im 27 years old an really starting to get down about my size, its not so much the length but the girth, just feels like i have to put so much work in to get a reaction out of a girl, tried the whole jelqing thing nearly a year before but didnt see any difference whatsoever, i also watch a lot of porn and seeing the guys with big hefty tools and knowing the fact that the girls im sleeping with have had bigger too just puts me down, they never say anything about it to me but i know secretly their thinking it, im also on steroids as well so i have big muscles and some little twiglet of a knob, i just wanna know is there anything i can do to increase girth that actually works?
                        any help greatly appreciated

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                        • #13
                          Porn gives a warped sense of unreality.Yes I know I said unreality!
                          Imagination expands the mind

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by The Passionate Wife View Post
                            Hiya loginthefire and welcome to the Gym!

                            If I may ask, what do you mean specifically when you wrote that it "just feels like you have to put so much work into getting a reaction out of a girl?"

                            You also stated that no girl has ever said anything negative to you but you KNOW secretly what they are thinking. How is that possible? Unless you are a bonafide mind reader, you are simply making assumptions and negative ones at that. Please remember that when you do that you are not only underestimating the girl(s), you are severely underestimating yourself. You need to do as MrB8 and others have recommended and stop watching porn; it is an unrealistic depiction of size as well as sexual play. Remember it is designed to be a fantasy, not a comparative, so go easy on yourself, okay?

                            I also wanted to mention that should you require it, there are also some helpful and supportive ladies available on the forum too who are more than willing to offer their insight and wisdom. We can often be located in the following forums:

                            A Woman's Perspective
                            firstly thanks for the replies, i dunno it just seems i have to hit a girl hard as an fast as possible to make her scream, where as on porno's all the guy has to do is stick the tip in and shes squeeling like a cat and all the things i've heard of normal girls i know in person saying they like it big combined with the porn have just kinda made me get low self esteem, another thing when im in the gym and i accidently catch a glimps of next mans penis they all just seem to be bigger than mine, ive never had a girl tell me mine was big ever and sometimes during sex i just feel like giving up because its like throwing a hotdog down a hallway, sometimes i blame the fact i've been on cocaine the last 10 years which made me skinny therefore my penis skinny but now i've put on weight and have gotten myself healthy and am getting a lot more girls i just feel like i cant satisfy a them even if they seem to be enjoying it, maybe your right it is all in my head.. ahhh i dunoo?

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by loginthefire View Post
                              firstly thanks for the replies, i dunno it just seems i have to hit a girl hard as an fast as possible to make her scream, where as on porno's all the guy has to do is stick the tip in and shes squeeling like a cat and all the things i've heard of normal girls i know in person saying they like it big combined with the porn have just kinda made me get low self esteem, another thing when im in the gym and i accidently catch a glimps of next mans penis they all just seem to be bigger than mine, ive never had a girl tell me mine was big ever and sometimes during sex i just feel like giving up because its like throwing a hotdog down a hallway, sometimes i blame the fact i've been on cocaine the last 10 years which made me skinny therefore my penis skinny but now i've put on weight and have gotten myself healthy and am getting a lot more girls i just feel like i cant satisfy a them even if they seem to be enjoying it, maybe your right it is all in my head.. ahhh i dunoo?

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