I came & I left...Now I'm ready.

[anotheragain62]

Hello Guys,

My name is TJ. I am a 20 yr old college student and I am eager to get started.

Until recently, I had no idea that my Penis was a little below average. After having an awkward sexual experience with what we would call a "size queen"...my confidence in bed was shot. For the next several months, I lurked on this site desperately hoping for a solution to the problem. The funny thing is...I decided not to take action. Instead of jelqing or buying a penis pump, I decided to work on me first, not my little guy. I wanted to be in a position where I was enhancing my penis for myself, not for a woman that clearly didn't deserve my attention.

Now, several months after my deflating experience, I have a fantastic girlfriend that is more than satisfied with my penis and my confidence is at an all time high.

However, I have to admit, although my girl loves my penis, I want to have that feeling of truly filling her up and I would love to have sex with her in ways that my current size won't allow me to do.

Don't get me wrong, I want to enhance for my partner as well, but I must say, it is incredibly liberating to do something primarily motivated by my desires and not someone else's.

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As for my goals, I would like to add girth to my 6 inch penis and learn creative bedroom techniques to continue to please my girlfriend.

Looking forward to improving with you all!

TJ

[TPW]

Hiya TJ and welcome to the forums!

I'm sure some of the guys will jump on here soon to provide you with the information you need to help you reach your goals. As far as learning creative sex techniques, there are plenty of threads and posts that can help you achieve that goal too especially in the following forums:

A Woman's Perspective

Relationship Forum

The Gym

If you cannot find what you are looking for, you could always start a thread as well.

Best wishes on your PE journey!

[Hanma]

Actually six inch is slightly above average.

The girl was just a loose sack of flubber. Don't let it get to you.

[MrB8]

to the Gym TJ!


Don't miss this thread!!

https://www.pegym.com/forums/penis-e...t-mindset.html

And if you haven't already done so, please https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...cess-here.html and focus on safety.

Then pick one of the manual beginner routines to follow for at least 90 days to condition your penis, most members here choose JP90.



Pay attention to your PIs, your penis is trying to tell you if you are over working, or you are in the growth zone, aim for positive PIs, and steer away from the negative ones.

Physiologic Indicators (PIs) to Help Penis Growth!


Good Luck!

[Richvextends]

Hello TJ,
Glad to see you are taking the plunge of self improvement. You will find here a helpful community. Great sex begins in the heart and head (the one you think with) and the pressure, breath, looking, holding are byproducts. To help you with the heart and head it seems you are well on your way. For the physical and technique one would do well to visit the following website:

The Passionate Wife - The Cultivation of Sexual Pleasure in Relationships

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Take care.

[BigO]

Welcome TJ!

Great intro. I think you have your priorities in a good place, and it's great you recognized what was important and took the time to build yourself back up first.

Reaching your goals will require some patience, and taking advantage of the great information that has been suggessted. Take your time, read up as you can, and don't hesitate to ask if you have questions.

Also, starting a log in the Progress Forum would be very helpful for tracking your routine. Plus, it let's others offer advice and encouragement.

Best of luck to you!

[kickinthemebs]

WElcome TJ, there are plenty of sex positions to feel like you are filling your girl fuller, no matter whether you feel you are limited because of your length or girth. So get reading

[Deeperbyrequest]

Welcome TJ, I'm TOTALLY digging your motivation. Someone directed me over to the mental PE thread in my intro post, and it made me rethink both my motivation and goals. I still have goals, but I was struggling a bit with being motivated by external validation. Once I realized this, I realized it was the same cause of perturbation within me about telling someone in the future that I practice PE. So I spent some time dwelling on it and came to the conclusion, I'm doing this for me. At the end of the day, that's what it's about, how I feel about myself. I shouldn't worry about whether someone approves. I don't need external validation, what I need is to be happy with my self-concept, and if that means PE, then that means PE and I'm okay with that.

So thanks for sharing your motivation, it's great to see a fellow newcomer coming to similar conclusions.

And after a week of thinking I finally got around to my first session today. Feelsgoodman.