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Hey fellow PEGYM buddies. I just wanted to introduce myself and hopefully, after skimming through the site for the last 3 days, get a little advice from more experienced members about the newbie strategy approach I'm contemplating.
Believe it or not, I've only been with one woman in my whole life. I know...not a lot of experience for a man in their thirties. The ladies have always considered me physically attractive (e.g. body build, face, etc.), but I've always been afraid to get to close to them after discovering and finding my Dad's porn when I was just in sixth grade. My sisters and I (I was the only boy) would sneak and watch them for weeks until a sleep over friend told on us and we were discovered....LOL. I saw the huge cocks in these films and I thought to myself, "Wow, I'm not close to that size, something must be wrong?" I can't even remember how many women I've turned down over the years, because I was afraid that I didn't have it where it counts. I think those films scarred me a little really.
Finally, in my mid twenties, I got the courage to try to go all the way with a woman, who really pursued me, because I didn't want to be the thirty year old virgin...LOL. I think she thought I was small as well, because sometimes she would make sarcastic comments like, "with that large package you have there." She had experience with porn at a young age too and I think she was basing her judgement on that.
I got to third base with another woman after her and was afraid to go more. I stopped and made an excuse that I didn't have protection, which was true, but really not the reason for stopping, and told her that I'm not the biggest guy around. She told me that she "thought I'd be too big." This is the assumption I've heard other people tell me all my life. You see, I am almost 6' 4", 235-240 lb, so I've heard people make the assumption that my you know what is big too.
After reading up on this site the other night, I decided to measure myself. I'm going to do it again and pay more attention to accuracy, but I'm somewhere around 6.75 in BPEL, and 5.25-5.5 girth at erection. So, I guess I fit into the average category based on what I've read on here. But because I'm a fairly above average sized guy body wise, it just looks below average in the mirror. It's like seeing 225/75/15 size tires on a Jeep with a 4 inch lift.... it is out of proportion. My goal is to get around 8 inches NBPEL, and add a little girth to make me look proportional. Of course if I can go larger safely I will.
I'm going to go by the book as much as possible....do the JP90 conditioning routine, practice safety by observing PI indicators, document with measurements and photos etc. However, several members in one of the forums I read on here, can't remember the title, suggested to another new member that he gain as much as possible with manual PE exercises for about a year and then purchase an extender when he plateaus or needs a boost. I'm considering buying an extender, either a PMP or Phallosan Forte (open to suggestions), now and using it after the 90 day conditioning phase. I'm thinking about refraining from manual PE because I want to see if the extender actually works by itself. Of course, I'm not adverse to warm-up PE. Are extenders only supposed to be used to break plateaus? Thanks for reading.
Believe it or not, I've only been with one woman in my whole life. I know...not a lot of experience for a man in their thirties. The ladies have always considered me physically attractive (e.g. body build, face, etc.), but I've always been afraid to get to close to them after discovering and finding my Dad's porn when I was just in sixth grade. My sisters and I (I was the only boy) would sneak and watch them for weeks until a sleep over friend told on us and we were discovered....LOL. I saw the huge cocks in these films and I thought to myself, "Wow, I'm not close to that size, something must be wrong?" I can't even remember how many women I've turned down over the years, because I was afraid that I didn't have it where it counts. I think those films scarred me a little really.
Finally, in my mid twenties, I got the courage to try to go all the way with a woman, who really pursued me, because I didn't want to be the thirty year old virgin...LOL. I think she thought I was small as well, because sometimes she would make sarcastic comments like, "with that large package you have there." She had experience with porn at a young age too and I think she was basing her judgement on that.
I got to third base with another woman after her and was afraid to go more. I stopped and made an excuse that I didn't have protection, which was true, but really not the reason for stopping, and told her that I'm not the biggest guy around. She told me that she "thought I'd be too big." This is the assumption I've heard other people tell me all my life. You see, I am almost 6' 4", 235-240 lb, so I've heard people make the assumption that my you know what is big too.
After reading up on this site the other night, I decided to measure myself. I'm going to do it again and pay more attention to accuracy, but I'm somewhere around 6.75 in BPEL, and 5.25-5.5 girth at erection. So, I guess I fit into the average category based on what I've read on here. But because I'm a fairly above average sized guy body wise, it just looks below average in the mirror. It's like seeing 225/75/15 size tires on a Jeep with a 4 inch lift.... it is out of proportion. My goal is to get around 8 inches NBPEL, and add a little girth to make me look proportional. Of course if I can go larger safely I will.
I'm going to go by the book as much as possible....do the JP90 conditioning routine, practice safety by observing PI indicators, document with measurements and photos etc. However, several members in one of the forums I read on here, can't remember the title, suggested to another new member that he gain as much as possible with manual PE exercises for about a year and then purchase an extender when he plateaus or needs a boost. I'm considering buying an extender, either a PMP or Phallosan Forte (open to suggestions), now and using it after the 90 day conditioning phase. I'm thinking about refraining from manual PE because I want to see if the extender actually works by itself. Of course, I'm not adverse to warm-up PE. Are extenders only supposed to be used to break plateaus? Thanks for reading.
Member of the Month Nov 2013
Man, she was drop-dead gorgeous. Still hating myself for that one.
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