I am new here and am very sad :(

[sadman95]

Hello, like my nick is already saying that i'm sad guy.. (
I will not tell you story of my life but i will tell you only what i never told to anyone. I'm 20 years old and i have small dick, only 10cm in lenght and 10,5cm in girth erect. I started doing penis stretching and jelqing one month ago and i can see a little difference. Many people say size doesn't metters, but it does. I had first sex 3 months ago and i saw that my dick isn't enough and girl noticed it too. So i want to work and get bigger. Can anyone tell me is 10min of stretching and 13min of jelqing enough?

[Cavalier]

Welcome aboard!

Congrats on starting your PE journey. Keep it up, it will be worth it in the end.

A great place to begin is in the START HERE! link that can be found in the navigation bar at the top of the page. In there you will find important information to get you started safely and effectively on your way. If there is anything you don't understand don't hesitate to ask, the members here are very helpful.

Pe does work but you will need to be dedicated, consistent and patient. It won't happen overnight, it's a slow process. Stay motivated and positive and you will reach your goals.

Good luck and always PE safely.

[Anonymoustard]

Dont let it get you down man! I experienced the same problem. You are obviously not alone. You will grow and it will take lots of time. Just keep at it and you will see the results. You are only 20 years old. You have lots of time.

[sadman95]

Thank you very much guys, i see here are a lot of good people.

[ehlolol]

Is that a BPEL (bone pressed erect length) measurement or just NBPEL (non-BPEL).
If its NBPEL and you are very heavy - meaning you have a lot of fat pad (the fat where your pubic hair grows; the fat that "hides" a lot of your potential dick) - it means your dick is not actually small.

Lets just assume the worst case scenario here (sounds worse than it actually is).
You are 10.5 cm / 4.1''.
(cm : 2.54 = inches)
(inches * 2.54 = cm)
If you read up on the top gainers, you will notice that gaining about 3'' or 3.5'' is possible yet very unlikely. You can expect to gain minimum 1'', in average 1.5-2'' in length over max. 2 years, lets be really pessimistic, 5 years - btw these are all my interpretations, and I'm pretty much a newbie as well so take it with a grain of salt.

So in 5 years, you have the potential to be 6'' BPEL. For starters, that above average.
The average according to many studies is between 5.2-5.9'' BPEL approx. So just assume ~5.5 BPEL.

This is good news for you - you dont have to be sad anymore. You have to objectively soak up this information and get your ass to working. Absolutely no need to be worried anymore. It is in your hand whether you reach your 6 BPEL or not.
You should feel like some sort of heavy weight was taken from your shoulders

Edit/PS:
Assume you reach your 6 BPEL in 2 years and cement those gains. You can then take a big break (3-4 months or something) to decondition your penis and then restart the whole procedure. I am sure you will become greedy since actually, the way you feel right now wont stop. Men always want bigger/better...
My point is, you can then perhaps go from 6'' which is above average to about 7'' or something which is actually considered big and then try to crack the 8'' mark at which point you should be bigger than 99% people IRL who have no idea about PE.
Perspective bro! Its all possible. It only depends on you!

[strong_root]

Hey sad guy, don't be sad, try reading this:
https://www.pegym.com/forums/success...nner-read.html

[sadman95]

It's 10cm BPEL, i mean i have a litlle maybe 1cm fat to the bone.

I didn't know that , thank you very much man you made my day!
I hope i will do that, 5.5inch erect will be more then enough but if i can get more why not.

I just want to be a guy with a normal penis size, to have a normal sexual experience. Since my first sex 3months ago i am really nervouse because the girl sad she is virgin but she had a big vagina. And my penis was small to her i think...

[sadman95]

Amazing, thank you for this.

[dmizzle]

You can either cry about your problems or so something about your problems. Go get it done.