Men's Fitness Rx - "Men Hung Up on Penis Size" article

[XitemeM]

Cool post Calixto. I agree with the culture aspect of it, but at the end of the day, we're doing the exercises by ourselves. Our success comes from our personal commitment, but the advice, information and support here is a very valuable part of the process.

I think of it as improving my penis health. My wife had a bit of a problem with me making it "bigger", but she liked it when I asked if it seemed "healthier" to her. I get a lot of enjoyment from PE.

[Toadstool]

I totally have SPS and it might be from porn. I'm above average in size, too!
It is about confidence in yourself. (most) Women find confidence in a man a hundred times sexier than a long dong. I'm a firm believer that a short, fat, bald man with a small dick can attract almost any woman he wants if he has the right attitude about him.
Women aren't as shallow as men, generally speaking. Looking good and being big help, but there's more to the equation than that. In the world of love and romance, it's how you feel about who you are, how you carry and present yourself that take you to where you want to go. Actually, in almost any part of the world, that will be true.

In that sense, the article is right. It wasn't saying that the members of PE gym all have anxiety issues, hiding in their room, tugging on their dicks. It's saying that your dick size is not as important as men seem to think it is. Work on your game by changing your attitude and work on your confidence.

[Miamihurricane]

Working on your game is what most ppl need to do.I live n Miami where it's have confidence like the cellebs or your considered weird, I've been raised around guys who are party animals and if you show any lack of confidence around girls your pretty much pushed away from the group, sounds harsh but that's how it's been for me..meaning ive always had to be confident around girls which in a sense has helped me easily socialize with girls even tho i have always thought my penis was a little small,i agree in the sense that we do all work on the game,but for the give up on the pe scheme,they don't know about pegym.com....it's better that way

[Miamihurricane]

Oh and toad ...your huge, your prolly 7x6 bpel, I would love to have your size and I will in time but...really man..YOUR FUCCIN HUGE ALREADY,6eg....your length is awesome too !

[thenewdude]

Well, I don't feel I have a SPS but I just want it bigger because I am a bigger dude, so it looks better. I know a whole lot of dudes that don't have SPS but that doesn't mean they wouldn't want a bigger shlong for real.

[Toadstool]

Working on your game is what most ppl need to do.I live n Miami where it's have confidence like the cellebs or your considered weird, I've been raised around guys who are party animals and if you show any lack of confidence around girls your pretty much pushed away from the group, sounds harsh but that's how it's been for me..meaning ive always had to be confident around girls which in a sense has helped me easily socialize with girls even tho i have always thought my penis was a little small,i agree in the sense that we do all work on the game,but for the give up on the pe scheme,they don't know about pegym.com....it's better that way

Haha. Clearly they don't know about PEgym.com. For the most part, people here look at these exercises as a matter of health, and a personal goal to achieve. Who wouldn't respect that?

Sounds like a bit of a tough area to live in. Socially, anyway. You can spot that sort of exclusion elsewhere but it sounds very prominent where you live. Sort of like a social survival of the fittest ... Either you do, or you don't.

[Toadstool]

Oh and toad ...your huge, your prolly 7x6 bpel, I would love to have your size and I will in time but...really man..YOUR FUCCIN HUGE ALREADY,6eg....your length is awesome too !

HAHA
You know, it doesn't look that huge. Maybe I'm used to it? I look down and I think... meh, could be bigger.
But to be honest, the only reference point I have for comparison is porn. I look at those videos and I see huge.
Then, I hear around me that girls prefer big, or huge.
Creates some insecurities in me.

Now, LOGICALLY, I know there is more to it than that. It's not just your size that matters.
But you know, when I'm laying next to a girl after we've done the deed, there's that silence and I think, among other things, "What's been your biggest?"

Oh, yes it is 7" BPEL btw.

[Trotsky slaying thedragon]

The CNN writer probably meant "game" in a generic sense.

The seduction community gets men laid; feminist philosophy doesn't. Those dissing this community have a problem with men achieving their desires. The dirty secret is that women enjoy this too. Men who practice game actually please their women mores than nice guys.

The nice guy is dead, maybe forever, and let's not pretend that this community isn't part and parcel with the general movement.

[Hanma]

If the nice guy is dead then I'm DIEING to witness the turmoil it will bring.

[Rando]

I think the best thing that PUA can teach guys is that you just have to put yourself out there to be rejected at times and to just have fun with the whole thing. The reason the nice guy always finishes last is b/c he's so terrified of rejection that he never even takes a chance, or if he does, then he "puts the pussy on a pedestal" so to speak and acts way too submissively, which is the opposite of what most women want. Picking up women is way different than the actual relationship. Once you've impressed a girl and you start seeing each other exclusively, then you can be the nice guy and treat her like a princess, but you will never even get to that point if you don't understand how "game" works.

That to me is the true value of PUA and I think it can be a very good thing and a nice kick in the arse for a lot of nice guys out there who just need a way to get a foot in the door. Like anything though, it can be twisted into something evil and that's why I think it gets a bad name.