The theory behind multiple ejaculations if your kegels are really powerful

[Radiohead Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Radiohead]

They say: once the pubococcygeus muscle is very strong, men can have multiple orgasms.

Can somebody explain to me what they mean by that? Is it really many orgasms, one after the other, like how women experience it?

OR

Do they mean: after an ejaculation, your penis gets soft. With a strong pubococcygeus muscle, you stay hard after an ejaculation, therefore you can have several orgasms without getting flaccid??

Please explain it to me.

And, does anybody here have multiple orgasms thanks to kegels? I sort of doubt it.

[buffdaddy Member Find all posts View Profile Close buffdaddy]

I think I have multiple orgasms due to kegels. I've been doing kegels since I was about 6years old. my sister and I were arguing over who's privates were "better" and she showed that she could stop peeing, so I tried and a have been doing it every since. Except for when I am/was outta shape and/or extremely tired, I can usually go for more than one round.

[Radiohead Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Radiohead]

So, your penis does NOT go flaccid after an orgasm.

Is that the ''multiple orgasm'' theory?

Please be specific.

[Heat89 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Heat89]

So, your penis does NOT go flaccid after an orgasm.

Is that the ''multiple orgasm'' theory?

Please be specific.

Sometimes it doesn't go flaccid. Sometimes the refractory period is reduced to only a minute or two. I've experienced both.

Like buffdaddy, I had been doing kegels from a very young age, but for whatever reason, I quit doing them when I was in my teens.

After I had gone from being a shooter to a dribbler, and now that I realize how crucial they are, I'm trying to get my IC, PC, and BC muscles back to their former glory.

This is a little off the topic, but I actually think that I stopped kegeling when I started orgasming regularly. I think frequent ejaculation was exhausting my pelvic floor muscles.

I'm currently without a girlfriend, and I swore off porn and masturbating a week ago, and I can already feel a difference in the strength of my pelvic muscles.

[buffdaddy Member Find all posts View Profile Close buffdaddy]

So, your penis does NOT go flaccid after an orgasm.

Is that the ''multiple orgasm'' theory?

Please be specific.

I've heard numerous theories about what constitutes multiple orgasms for men. But the fact that you can have an orgasm and then have another immediately or shortly thereafter is what I believe multiple orgasm is for men.

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

Relax your entire body, but first turn off the cell phone and the porn. Then start edging, gently massage in soft circular motion the glans. This will force your BC muscle to automatically kegel. This may also force you to have multible orgasms. It does me anyway.

[Hairtrigger Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hairtrigger]

We must understand that orgasms and ejaculation are two different things, a man can orgasm without ejaculation if he is conditioned and trained good enough. Edging is the best way to achieve this as KP just stated, this will ensure you are strengthening the right muscles to restrain your ejaculation and eventually produce an orgasm in return. From what I understand the PC muscle has nothing to do with a unit going soft after ejaculation, this is caused by a chemical released by the brain. I believe that frequent masturbation makes this worse but edging can trick the brain into thinking we are not finished and continue to maintain an erection. If you train a dog to hide a stick when you throw it then that is what he will do, we need to train our brain not to hide our stick anymore, it's easier said than done though. Once you are able to edge none stop up to 20 minutes or so then you will understand.

Edging needs to be done separately from your PE routine to be done correctly but there is nothing wrong with short ballooning or edging sessions after your workout, this will help cement your gains and is an excellent warm down exercise. I do lose some stamina when on a gaining routine but a full blown edging session will put me in a over trained state quickly, if I had to choose what is best I would choose stamina and EQ over added length and girth. Two hours of sex with an average unit is WAY better than five minutes with a big one, I suppose everyone will agree with this, especially the women.

[Radiohead Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Radiohead]

This makes sense to me now, thank you.

However, despite the numerous bits and pieces I read on edging/ballooning, it is still slightly unclear to me.

I've read Kingpole's thread on Edging 101 and I dont quite get it.

It is my understanding that edging is: masturbate, when youre about to cum, stop masturbating and contract the pubcoccygeus muscle. Re-masturbate until youre gonna cum, then stop again.

KP's theory of massaging the head of the penis until ejaculation is pretty unrealistic to me. I cant cum simply by massaging the head. That would take too long to train.

But is my definition of edging correct? masturbate until youre gonna cum, then stop, then repeat?

Please correct me.

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

We must understand that orgasms and ejaculation are two different things, a man can orgasm without ejaculation if he is conditioned and trained good enough. Edging is the best way to achieve this as KP just stated, this will ensure you are strengthening the right muscles to restrain your ejaculation and eventually produce an orgasm in return. From what I understand the PC muscle has nothing to do with a unit going soft after ejaculation, this is caused by a chemical released by the brain. I believe that frequent masturbation makes this worse but edging can trick the brain into thinking we are not finished and continue to maintain an erection. If you train a dog to hide a stick when you throw it then that is what he will do, we need to train our brain not to hide our stick anymore, it's easier said than done though. Once you are able to edge none stop up to 20 minutes or so then you will understand.

Edging needs to be done separately from your PE routine to be done correctly but there is nothing wrong with short ballooning or edging sessions after your workout, this will help cement your gains and is an excellent warm down exercise. I do lose some stamina when on a gaining routine but a full blown edging session will put me in a over trained state quickly, if I had to choose what is best I would choose stamina and EQ over added length and girth. Two hours of sex with an average unit is WAY better than five minutes with a big one, I suppose everyone will agree with this, especially the women.

How tight is your grip while edging? edge with about the same grip level used for PE. A very feathery light grip

[Radiohead Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Radiohead]

Well, when I edge, I usually just use masturbation force to get to the orgasm, then I stop.

I'll use a light jelqing force next time. Thanks.

[pemanfl Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close pemanfl]

it is true that there is a difference between cumming or ejaculating and an orgasm. I have the ability to cum maybe 2 or three times on a good night, but before I cum or ejaculate, I might have as many as 25, 30 or more orgasms, each one building off the other and each one intensyfing until I am overcome so to speak. This is much like what a women goes through from what I am told. Many, many times i have not even needed to cum, because all of my satisfaction came from the multiple orgasms.
This is not something that just happened to me. I have been taught and learned over several years how to do this. I met an older man in my youth that taught me the tecniques to do this. Unfortunately he did not teach me how to spell, so please forgive my lack in that area. Any one can achive, it is just a matter of learning how to do it. Let me tell you that these building orgasms are like nothing you have ever experienced and there have been maybe three or four times in my life when I have even reached another level of extacy by doing this. It is long and involved and detailed to explain and to be saved for another thread.

[skyfalcon888 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close skyfalcon888]

And the technique is...........??!?!?!

[kooljohn Member Find all posts View Profile Close kooljohn]

How tight is your grip while edging? edge with about the same grip level used for PE. A very feathery light grip

oh,that explains why my EQ has diminshed so rapidly and my penis is so sore/numb at the mo....

I've been using a fairly tight grip for my PE exercises. Oops.Well,I'll definitely make sure I use a much lighter (feathery) grip when I start up again next weekend ,after my self imposed rest.There's just sooooo much to learn with this PE stuff but I'm enjoying the journey & am in it for life!!!!

Thanks again Kingpole for that important bit of info,much appreciated.

Now back on topic, multiple orgasms for men is having more than one orgasm without ejaculating. I'm able to do this but I've been doing kegels on & off since my early 20's. Infact once I have enough energy I'm capable of going for maybe 3 or 4 hours (including foreplay of course)

This is not me bragging or anything like that because anyone can do it and I'm sure a lot of the vets on here are at that point already and way beyond but it is a very powerful feeling to have in your sex life,knowing you won't ejaculate prematurely & can keep going until your partner has 2,3 sometimes more orgasms before you have to pop your load.

Infact,a girl I was with last week opened her eyes halfway through her 3rd orgasm that morning and saw I had a little smile on my face & later on that day text me calling me a smug bastard. I had to laugh because at the time she was right.I knew she had never had multiple orgasms with a man before (and she's had a lot of men b4 me) I'm not the biggest in the world but I do my very best with what I got and am always looking to improve & be generous with my love making.

I suppose that is what has led me here. Wanting a bigger dick (I'm about 6.3" in length),more girth (not measured yet) and to learn all I can about the penis and what it can become to benefit your love life.

But I digress.

Anyways, multiple orgasms were gained by me through working the pc/bc muscles on & off for about 10 years now but I can see that Edging & Ballooning could be quite effective in that respect aswell.