Forbidden Glans Rub!

[Irishfan]

[Uafb]

To be honest, all this sexual energy stuff never quite made any sense to me, nor did it make any difference with my progress. I've read most of Mantak Chia, skipping all the "focus your energy" woo woo, and I've actually grown to the point of being able to have dry orgasms almost every time I edge. All you really need is to control your breathing, monitor your arousal level, enjoy the stimulation, and intensify or lighten the stimulation to keep going as long as you can.

[mvergasioin]

I've read a lot of Chia and others and am trying some of the things out. I am also trying to figure out how much of the energy movement (woo woo) I believe in. I'm on the fence until I develop more skills and consistency in my outcomes. My general thought at this point is there are different names and schema perspectives, but by and large the practices and outcomes are largely the same. ?????

[RickBhmcsb]

I've read a lot of Chia and others and am trying some of the things out. I am also trying to figure out how much of the energy movement (woo woo) I believe in. I'm on the fence until I develop more skills and consistency in my outcomes. My general thought at this point is there are different names and schema perspectives, but by and large the practices and outcomes are largely the same. ?????

I'm almost wondering if some of that is just good ol' fashioned sexual energy just bubbling up inside us waiting to come out?

[Pegasus]

I've read a lot of Chia and others and am trying some of the things out. I am also trying to figure out how much of the energy movement (woo woo) I believe in. I'm on the fence until I develop more skills and consistency in my outcomes. My general thought at this point is there are different names and schema perspectives, but by and large the practices and outcomes are largely the same. ?????

I posted on this recently.
Most westerners will respond better to direct methods ,kegels ,edging,etc.

[RickBhmcsb]

I posted on this recently.
Most westerners will respond better to direct methods ,kegels ,edging,etc.

That kinda answers my question. Thanks Pegasus. I keep forgetting to post to the MMO group about my head spinning MMOs from sometime ago. I'm so absent minded...

[Hanma]

I talked to Peg about this a while back. In his book, Multi Orgasmic Man or something, Chia says that you should contract your anus lightly, breath in and imagine energy going up your spine.

I cannot do that. it seems to me he is asking us to do light kegels, which I don't WANT. I don't kegel UNLESS I use them to stop myself from cumming.

Although it has a part I read and completely agreed with, which I discovered myself by accident (a bit of the woo woo stuff), which balances things and I suppose there are other things which could be useful for me.

[Pegasus]

It amuses me when I see mystic terms used to create kegels and reverse kegels. A lot of the woo woo, is basic muscle control. Having said that I think it has some value ,I am sure they could talk in less gibberish terms if they wanted though.

[mvergasioin]

I talked to Peg about this a while back. In his book, Multi Orgasmic Man or something, Chia says that you should contract your anus lightly, breath in and imagine energy going up your spine.

I cannot do that. it seems to me he is asking us to do light kegels, which I don't WANT. I don't kegel UNLESS I use them to stop myself from cumming.

Although it has a part I read and completely agreed with, which I discovered myself by accident (a bit of the woo woo stuff), which balances things and I suppose there are other things which could be useful for me.

I think we have to take these as suggestions to see if they fit with our body/mind connections. Chia is sometimes obtuse or not specific enough in his directions. (I read somewhere that to master the Chia stuff the Chia way one actually should have a real teacher.) It could be that this reference to anal contractions may actually be a reverse kegel with the anus contracting gently outwards which is what I tend to need.

But I have felt the "energy" and actually I think I have sometimes "moved" it a little in order to pull some of the building arousal away from my groin keep me below PONR.

[Pegasus]

While I an no expert in soft style mmo ,I can do it. There is no doubt it has different physical and mental effects ,there is a flow to it .
Some people are suited to it , I generally prefer hard style.