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    Hi guys, I joined this forum because I realize I have a big problem. Please allow me to give some background about me.

    I am 49 yr old male. In decent shape,Not overweight, do not drink, smoke weed, taking any medications, eat decent healthy. I love having sex with my girlfriend but noticed problems.

    I would stroke penis to get ready when I was performing oral sex on her so she can be lubricated. I would then attempt to insert penis inside. Then boom, I go flaccid. Then I go back and repeat process. Same results each time. I can not hold an erection at all. Not for lack of trying.

    I got so frustrating for me that I would feel ashamed and just quit sex completely. Here I have a GF that's good looking, hot and loves me. But I can not show my feelings because I am a failure.

    I searched around net to find out about natural supplements. I tried Extenze, Extenze Cherry Shots, Schwinnng, Libido Max, etc... None of them worked.

    I still come up with same problems. And sometimes even worse. I semen volume is much lower watered out, not thick or dense, and sometimes do not feel like ejaculating at all.

    This is starting to effect my relationship big time. Please give me insight what to do naturally with no side effects. Pills form, whatever,

    I am in desperate trouble of losing the love of my life.

  • #2
    Could be anxiety .
    How long do you expect your erection to last without attention btw?
    Ok so what did the medical people say and especially what were the numbers on the hormone test?

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    • #3
      Originally posted by Pegasus View Post
      Could be anxiety .
      How long do you expect your erection to last without attention btw?
      Ok so what did the medical people say and especially what were the numbers on the hormone test?
      The erection goes flaccid immediately. Right at the time ready to insert into my girl.

      I did not dare go to for medical help because I feel bad, and ashamed not being able to perform. I hope there would be another natural option.

      If not, then last step would be seeing a doctor for sure.

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      • #4
        Do you watch much porn or have other fantasies? If so you could be desensitized.
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        • #5
          Originally posted by GiftBringer View Post
          Do you watch much porn or have other fantasies? If so you could be desensitized.

          Yes, I do watch porn. But very sporadically. I purchased some DVDs and they are still sealed. Also, I do not automatically get hard. I have to stroke to get erection.

          Something is wrong correct?

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          • #6
            Originally posted by mmalive View Post
            Yes, I do watch porn. But very sporadically. I purchased some DVDs and they are still sealed. Also, I do not automatically get hard. I have to stroke to get erection.

            Something is wrong correct?
            Yeah if you have to stroke to get hard you may not really be ready for sexual activity as you're forcing something that should be natural. You might not be as interested as you used to be which is ok too. I had this issue and stopped all porn. I think its pretty shit now/doesn't serve any purpose. Sex is supposed to be loving. And dont think about it, you need to focus on how she looks, how sexy her body is and how she responds to what you're doing. Right now your focus is on how you're feeling and you're not feeling good. You're feeling anxious, when you're supposed to relax.
            It could be many factors tho. Hold onto your semen until you two have sex, maybe some nights dont orgasm. This will definetly drive your lust.
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            • #7
              Originally posted by GiftBringer View Post
              Yeah if you have to stroke to get hard you may not really be ready for sexual activity as you're forcing something that should be natural. You might not be as interested as you used to be which is ok too. I had this issue and stopped all porn. I think its pretty shit now/doesn't serve any purpose. Sex is supposed to be loving. And dont think about it, you need to focus on how she looks, how sexy her body is and how she responds to what you're doing. Right now your focus is on how you're feeling and you're not feeling good. You're feeling anxious, when you're supposed to relax.
              It could be many factors tho. Hold onto your semen until you two have sex, maybe some nights dont orgasm. This will definetly drive your lust.
              Great information. I only see her on weekends due to our schedules. Even then sex is not on her mind. She usually pushes on back burner. Sometime we skip sex totally. So every time I get chance I try to have sex with her.

              Maybe trying to hard is cause?

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              • #8
                Have you tried any penis enlargement exercises? ( hanging, jelqing, extender etc) did or do you tense your pelvic floor and feel everything is tight down there?

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Cd7777 View Post
                  Have you tried any penis enlargement exercises? ( hanging, jelqing, extender etc) did or do you tense your pelvic floor and feel everything is tight down there?
                  I am so new to forum. I do not know practices. I willing to try though. Thanks.

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                  • #10
                    No I mean I’m saying a lot of these dudes on these forums get these problems because of overdoing them. You might have clenched your pelvic floor during sex and orgasm causing your pelvic floor to get overworked and it could be tight and tense.. do u have tightness down there? Any problems pissing or shifting? You have a weaker than usual urine stream?

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by mmalive View Post
                      Great information. I only see her on weekends due to our schedules. Even then sex is not on her mind. She usually pushes on back burner. Sometime we skip sex totally. So every time I get chance I try to have sex with her.

                      Maybe trying to hard is cause?
                      She might be feeling a little disconnected because you cant stay hard. Assure her its not her. Make something up and say you've been feeling a little stressed. But don't make your issue hers. You should be having sex once a week atleast. Make it romantic and make her feel special, kiss her neck, then seduce her. Show her how much you want her. Try some cialis if the problem persists, this shit will make your dick hard and stay hard, even without sexual activity. Will give you the confidence to make it happen. I found it got me over that fear of not getting hard, then stopped using it.

                      I dont think you can try hard enough (without being needy) if its only once a week. Difference between being needy and purposefully wanting her sexy body and personality. Ladies are just as sexual as guys.
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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Cd7777 View Post
                        No I mean I’m saying a lot of these dudes on these forums get these problems because of overdoing them. You might have clenched your pelvic floor during sex and orgasm causing your pelvic floor to get overworked and it could be tight and tense.. do u have tightness down there? Any problems pissing or shifting? You have a weaker than usual urine stream?
                        I have never tried any of these exercises so I have no clue to be honest. But my urine stream strong. Especially because I drink a water, juice, soda, etc.... Thanks for input.

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by GiftBringer View Post
                          She might be feeling a little disconnected because you cant stay hard. Assure her its not her. Make something up and say you've been feeling a little stressed. But don't make your issue hers. You should be having sex once a week atleast. Make it romantic and make her feel special, kiss her neck, then seduce her. Show her how much you want her. Try some cialis if the problem persists, this shit will make your dick hard and stay hard, even without sexual activity. Will give you the confidence to make it happen. I found it got me over that fear of not getting hard, then stopped using it.

                          I dont think you can try hard enough (without being needy) if its only once a week. Difference between being needy and purposefully wanting her sexy body and personality. Ladies are just as sexual as guys.
                          Thanks for info. Problem is I do not have prescription for Cialis etc...

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                          • #14
                            Are you circumcised?

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by Zyxciz View Post
                              Are you circumcised?
                              Yes sir.

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