I thought I was a RockStar Now I am in Pain: 3 Years of Injuries It is time to Heal.

[scissorCock]

In 2008 (I was 28), during intercourse, while the female was on top, my cock slipped out and she landed on my penis as it was standing in an upright position. I heard a large popping sound but no physical sight of injury. After this I was unable to maintain an erection for more than 30 seconds without stimulating my penis. I shortly broke up with her afterwards because I did not want her to find out that I now have erection problems, as she was only 19 and I 9 years senior. Brief Health at this time: Drinking about 2x a week; Smoking about a pack a day. But otherwise I did consider myself in excellent shape and previously had great sexual endurance.
At the time, I did not have health insurance so I used what I believed was the next best thing to a doctor, the internet. I came across many articles to fix my erection problems. Of course, those articles were trying to sell me something but I did not recognize this at the time. Anyhow, I purchased a product called Newzair, similar to Extendze.
Ingredients:
- Tribulus Terrestris
- L-Arginine
- Ginseng
- Damiana
- Deer Antler
- Tongkat Ali
- Horny Goat Weed
- Maca
- Licorice
- Pumpkin
- DHEA (50mgs)
- Zinc
- Folate
- Niacin
- Black Pepper
- Ginger

I used this product because I used a similar product that the same company used to produce in the past. However, this time around I decided that I needed to take more to solve my problem, I increased my intake to 2 pills a day. I continued smoking everyday and drinking 2-4x a week after I broke up. My erections were coming back and I was doing ok mentally with my whole erection problems.
Fast forward to spring of 2010 (now 30yrs old). I was on a rampage, working 65hrs a week and almost drinking everynight and smoking a pack a day. I was hardly getting any sleep at all. I was trying to impress this DR by taking her out every night and fucking 4x a day (while I was working everyday). I was getting no rest. Problem was I was taking 5 pills of Newzair almost on a daily basis.
One night during, tired intercourse, it happened again, my penis slipped out and it snapped. However, this time I did not break up with her, rather the 4-5 pills of Newzair were keeping my erections fine, however I was ejaculating FAST. My penis became super sensitive. Soon I ran out of Newzair and I could not purchase any more because I was going crazy from it and my lifestyle.
In July, I decided to calm my lifestyle down. I reduced the cigarettes, hardly ever drank, stopped taking penis supplements, and cut back my hours from my work so I could focus more on resting. My penis felt better but I was still ejaculating FAST!
In September, I decided to purchase DHEA, which is the primary ingredient in Newzair. For approximately 3 weeks I was back to fucking like a rock star. Then one day my penis just wouldn’t work. I realized, that the DHEA may have started creating more estrogen than testosterone. I laid off the DHEA for a week, while avoiding sex, and my penis was working again but my EQ was rather low.
Fast Forward 3 months, In January my girlfriend and I went out to dinner and decided to go out for drinks after. We got hammered. I came back and fucked the shit out of her and I think I reinjured my penis. I worked great the next morning then I had a flaccid penis but it felt hard and rather smaller than it used to when it was flaccid.
After the course of the next few weeks, I developed a god awful pain at the base of my penis. But rather at the base it is where the base connects to the PV muscle. I followed several veins in my testicles with my fingers and one large one in particular seems to hurt most, on the left side, at first I was thinking vericocele but I am not too sure, because it hurts. Often it hurts too much to have sex and I am still ejaculating FAST.
I started following tips on here such as taking 5 G’s, Kegals, and Erection Tea. I threw out the DHEA. My penis works ok when it needs to but I am still in pain after almost 2 months, still cumming fast, and I am hardly having sex at all, like once every 3-5 days. I just want to know what this pain is coming from and why it won’t go away. I am taking it very easy during sex, like super easy, almost like I am having sex with a virgin. I believe I may have injured my penis so many times that it is just fragile now and for the rest of my life I may have to deal with having sex slowly and cumming fast while in this awful pain.
I spoke to my girlfriend about it and she is extremely understanding, which is great and I didn’t feel embarrassed telling her. However, I feel her thoughts may change down the road.
Please Help!
Here is what I am doing with my health now:
Quit drinking, smoking.
Taking
2 caps of green tea
2 caps of ginseng
1 cap of Ginko
1 cap of vitamin E (because I heard it repairs cells)
During the cycle rest, I am taking 3 caps of L-Arginine.
I drink a crazy amount of Green Tea and Black Tea with lemon and occasionally I add Ginger.
Any more suggestions?

[Hockey_NY]

Detailed thread and I understand that is pretty severe trauma...Sorry to get off track, but did you ever see a doctor after either of the two incidents? Possibly caused albugineal rupture or the like.

These are direct traumas that can actually lead to injuries that no amount of supplements of PE may be able to cure. It may need medical attention.

[scissorCock]

Detailed thread and I understand that is pretty severe trauma...Sorry to get off track, but did you ever see a doctor after either of the two incidents? Possibly caused albugineal rupture or the like.

These are direct traumas that can actually lead to injuries that no amount of supplements of PE may be able to cure. It may need medical attention.

I did research this when it originally happened. I realized, I may not have ruptured anything because there were no injuries that I could see either time. If I ruptured something wouldn't it swell up?

No I have not seen a doctor, as my insurance just got cancelled. I am waiting for it to kick back in. I work as a independent contractor and I often get my insurance cancelled without notice. It is awful.

Thanks for your quick reply.

[Hockey_NY]

That is brutal about the insurance. Hopefully other guys can chime in, but I'd still make it a goal to see a urologist or something because something still could have gone wrong, even if you can see any real symptoms. The symptoms enough were the ones you noted about in terms of decreased erection power and quicker ejacs

[ManWithPlan]

I agree with Hockey_NY, seeing a doctor is probably the best move.

Also, congratulations on your decision to quit smoking/heavy drinking, this is probably the best decision one can make for one's life.

[scissorCock]

I agree with Hockey_NY, seeing a doctor is probably the best move.

Also, congratulations on your decision to quit smoking/heavy drinking, this is probably the best decision one can make for one's life.

Thank You.

I guess I should of mentioned, "besides seeing a doctor", which will be my next goal, is there anything else I should do in the meantime that I am not already doing?

and reps to you as well

[moxsum]

Hey man.. well I hope you learned your lesson this time.. Take it easy on your cock man, you've only got one!! Thankfully ive never had the snapping dick thing during sex.. although I remember a few years back hearing a pop sound once or twice, but it was while my dick was in, not the girl slamming down on it (eek).. this happened to my bro, apparently his dick was bruised, but he took some anti-inflammatories and i guess it went away cuz he's never complained of any lasting problem.. still freaks me out though.. def down want that ever to happen to me..

From now on you should take it more easy.. sex isnt about pounding the shit out of the girll (although I know how fun that is ).. it can be just as enjoyable or even more so going slower and really feeling all the sensations.. And if you do go hard.. be aware of what your doing so you don't just slip out and smash your dick.. guess its hard to control that when a chicks on top but..

Anyway, obviously drinking/smoking a pack a day and not getting enough sleep and stressing yourself out.. dude im surprised you can get a boner at all? Your doing like 5 things that hurt your EQ and then you think its just the one possible injury causing the problem.. its probably the other things.. You shouldn't expect to have a rock hard dick if your smoking cigarettes, even if you didn't have a problem before, the damage is cumulative.

If your dick works OK though and your main problem is premature ejaculation.. then your doing ok..

It sounds to me like you may have prostatitis.. do you have any urinary symptoms, weaker ejaculation, pain? You said one of your testicle veins is painful? This sounds like epidydmitis .. inflammation of the epidydimis.. its often found together with prostatitis.. you may have an infection OR just super tense messed up pelvic floor muscles. You should probably have a urologist look at it.. if he says you have epididymitis and gives you antibiotics .. take them.. but if he says you just have prostatitis or something, be weary about taking long/large doses of antibiotics .. often its not an infection and the antibiotics will further damage your health.

I think you were living a very unhealthy lifestyle, and having way too much sex and it finally caught up with you.. it will take time and dedication to recover but you can recover 100%.. but if you go back to your old lifestyle you may never get better. Stop smoking cigs, cut back on the booze, eat a better diet, sleep more, stress less, be more gentle with sex, and over time you will get better and better, but dont expect an instant fix, it doesnt exist. Hopefully youll learn to live a better lifestyle from now on so you can avoid this from happening ever again.

[scissorCock]

Hey man.. well I hope you learned your lesson this time.. Take it easy on your cock man, you've only got one!! Thankfully ive never had the snapping dick thing during sex.. although I remember a few years back hearing a pop sound once or twice, but it was while my dick was in, not the girl slamming down on it (eek).. this happened to my bro, apparently his dick was bruised, but he took some anti-inflammatories and i guess it went away cuz he's never complained of any lasting problem.. still freaks me out though.. def down want that ever to happen to me..

From now on you should take it more easy.. sex isnt about pounding the shit out of the girll (although I know how fun that is ).. it can be just as enjoyable or even more so going slower and really feeling all the sensations.. And if you do go hard.. be aware of what your doing so you don't just slip out and smash your dick.. guess its hard to control that when a chicks on top but..

Anyway, obviously drinking/smoking a pack a day and not getting enough sleep and stressing yourself out.. dude im surprised you can get a boner at all? Your doing like 5 things that hurt your EQ and then you think its just the one possible injury causing the problem.. its probably the other things.. You shouldn't expect to have a rock hard dick if your smoking cigarettes, even if you didn't have a problem before, the damage is cumulative.

If your dick works OK though and your main problem is premature ejaculation.. then your doing ok..

It sounds to me like you may have prostatitis.. do you have any urinary symptoms, weaker ejaculation, pain? You said one of your testicle veins is painful? This sounds like epidydmitis .. inflammation of the epidydimis.. its often found together with prostatitis.. you may have an infection OR just super tense messed up pelvic floor muscles. You should probably have a urologist look at it.. if he says you have epididymitis and gives you antibiotics .. take them.. but if he says you just have prostatitis or something, be weary about taking long/large doses of antibiotics .. often its not an infection and the antibiotics will further damage your health.

I think you were living a very unhealthy lifestyle, and having way too much sex and it finally caught up with you.. it will take time and dedication to recover but you can recover 100%.. but if you go back to your old lifestyle you may never get better. Stop smoking cigs, cut back on the booze, eat a better diet, sleep more, stress less, be more gentle with sex, and over time you will get better and better, but dont expect an instant fix, it doesnt exist. Hopefully youll learn to live a better lifestyle from now on so you can avoid this from happening ever again.

Awesome reply, I will look into the symptoms of prostatitis and epidydmitis. My insurance kicks in 5 weeks from now. I do not have any urinary symptoms that I know of, but when I study the symptoms of prostatitis and epidydmitis maybe I will discover I that I actually do.

Regarding weaker ejaculation, if you mean "are my ejaculations shooting like they used to, distance wise", answer is no, they are not as powerful as they once were.

EDIT: ^ But how will I know if my ejaculations are not as strong as they used to? I usually cum inside my girlfriend and I quit masterbating. I will start shooting on her chest or something every other time we have sex.

I am committed to improving my lifestyle. I was having too much fun and it caught up with me, unfortunately it had to be my sexual health that took the beating.

Anyhow, I have been reading and reading a lot. However, I stayed away from reading about injuries because I did not want to freak myself out. I will look into the medical problems that you mentioned. In addition, hopefully I can learn something I can share with the community.

Thanks and repped.

More information is always helpful-- not only to myself but others who read this thread.

[moxsum]

Sounds good man. Thats smart of you not to read to much into injuries and such, ive done that and it only leads to paranoia. Also, just because you MAY have prostatitis or epididymitis doesnt mean you do, so dont convince yourself of that either The lower ejaculation force could be caused by tired and/or weak pelvic floor muscles and/or prostate inflammation and also lower excitement level and dehydration..

But yea if you are having pain around/in testicles you should get it looked at by a good urologist.. its not the most comfortable experience, he will feel your balls and may even want to stick a lubed finger up your bum to feel your prostate lol.. but its strictly professional

Good luck man You can/will get your sexual health back. I think a decline in sexual health is actually normally the first clue that your body/health are beginning to deteriorate in one way or another. Of course sex is one of our primary objectives on this planet, BUT its also the least important in terms of survival of yourself.. so when your body starts to decline, thats the first system to go because your body needs the energy for your vital functions.. thats my theory anyway.

Also, I want you to know ive had many similar symptoms and dealt with prostatitis, pelvic floor problems, weak erections, weak ejaculations, occasoinal pain, etc.. and its all gotten much much better, infact I would say I am healthier now then I was before. You can do it too!!

[scissorCock]

Sounds good man. Thats smart of you not to read to much into injuries and such, ive done that and it only leads to paranoia. Also, just because you MAY have prostatitis or epididymitis doesnt mean you do, so dont convince yourself of that either The lower ejaculation force could be caused by tired and/or weak pelvic floor muscles and/or prostate inflammation and also lower excitement level and dehydration..

But yea if you are having pain around/in testicles you should get it looked at by a good urologist.. its not the most comfortable experience, he will feel your balls and may even want to stick a lubed finger up your bum to feel your prostate lol.. but its strictly professional

Good luck man You can/will get your sexual health back. I think a decline in sexual health is actually normally the first clue that your body/health are beginning to deteriorate in one way or another. Of course sex is one of our primary objectives on this planet, BUT its also the least important in terms of survival of yourself.. so when your body starts to decline, thats the first system to go because your body needs the energy for your vital functions.. thats my theory anyway.

Also, I want you to know ive had many similar symptoms and dealt with prostatitis, pelvic floor problems, weak erections, weak ejaculations, occasoinal pain, etc.. and its all gotten much much better, infact I would say I am healthier now then I was before. You can do it too!!

Well the past 24hrs have been interesting. After 2 weeks of drinking several cups of green tea per day, taking 3 out of the 5 G's, and doing Kegals (and a more focused routine, which I'll explain later it involves massaging a certain area), my random day time erections are back, morning wood is back, and most importantly the pain in my scrotum disappeared. Tonight, I had great sex. I did not cum fast. However, I do wish I lasted longer. I had to stop several times and perform oral. I started doing Kegals and reverse Kegals during sex. When I penetrate I would do a normal kegal. As I backed out I did a reverse Kegal. I went slow, took my time, and breathed. The most relaxing sex I have ever had. I was at about 85%. This stuff really works!