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  1. 12-16-2013 #1
    Ironman04
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    As the title suggests carrying out the exercises promoted on this website has completely destroyed my previously very blessed life which has subsequently destroyed my family's life as they have had to watch my awful demise.

    The injury which came from carrying out the beginners routine which I very carefully researched before commencing ruined my penis.

    The injury has caused identical symptoms that telsa.86 and lostintorture had their lives ruined with.

    That is total penile numbness, total loss of libido and almost total ed.

    Like a lot of people that engage in this foolishness my dick was fine before at over 6inches but I guess ego got the better of me and it has literally cost me my life at 23.

    I've read lots of posts on here after the injury and have noticed the attitude of certain members on this website and other like it that your penis is indestructible and unless you do something really extreme/stupid you won't permanently injure yourself. Well I can tell you :THIS IS NOT TRUE.

    Before this injury I was on two holidays during the summer, with the girl I love so much, well paid job and planning to go travelling again. I was happy in every aspect of my life.

    I can't even BEGIN to describe the pain and suffering this lunacy has caused me and the people around me.

    You wouldn't believe that injury to your dick could cause you to totally lose your libido but I and telsa.86 are the living proof. When you lose your libido life has absolutely no meaning. All drive and motivation completely goes.

    The reason why I post this thread is purely for a warning to other young men like me who just wanted an ego boost of a bigger dick. Girls really don't even care. I would take a 3inch dick to have my life back.

    Know this: YOU ARE LITERALLY PLAYING WITH YOUR LIFE WITH THIS.

    I've spent thousands going to all the specialists that you can imagine. 90% of which was a waste of time. Finally a pudendal EMG confirmed nerve damage. Caused by LIGHT jelqing and stretching.

    There is no hope for me now. I have truly lost everything and no amount of will power can overcome losing your libido as that in itself is your will power, your life blood.

    The risk of what happened to me happening to you all in name of adding a cm or 2 on your dick is simply not worth the risk even if it is a small percentage.

    I'll say it again you would not believe the PAIN and SUFFERING this causes.

    The last big thing for me to do is end this. Such a waste of a life.
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  2. 12-16-2013 #2
    Joint-Expansion
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    Very sorry for your suffering man...But don't take your life. Keep trying alternative therapies and seeking medical attention. You never know if and when things may turn a corner. But taking your life will never even give you that chance, and it will leave all those who care about you devastated. I wish you all the best, and hope you recover friend.
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  3. 12-16-2013 #3
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    OMG!

    Thanks for posting about your experience. It's not common, but nerve damage is a reality, because over the last year I notice a thread about it once or twice a month. As you know first hand, nerve damage is the worst kind of damage that can happen.

    Where did the doctor find the nerve damage? I am asking because some nerves can heal and regenerate and some can't. We have to figure out where you are at.

    You are only 23. Your life is not over. Here is your game plan - Take a heavy duty B complex (B vitamins promote a healthy nerve system). Go to a chiropractor. The chiropractic adjustment will remove nerve interference from your lumbar and sacral nerves (the ones that control sensation and function of your penis). Forget the jelqs and stretches and shit like that, but try to learn how to balloon. Basically ballooning is masturbating with minimal stimulation (try to stay away from the head and frenulum) to get you hard and stay hard. When you balloon, cumming is not what this exercise is about. Ballooning, over time will help your brain and penis reconnect on a neurological level.

    I'm serious, get back to me. Let me know what your final diagnosis is and where the nerve interference was detected during your medical tests. There is hope for you.

    Good luck.
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  4. 12-16-2013 #4
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    Yeah man I feel bad for you. I wish you had been more careful you say "Light Jelqing & stretching" but I would think you would have to get pretty aggressive at it to do the kind of damage you have described. I hope things get better for you one day.
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  5. 12-16-2013 #5
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    This is terrible, I'm so sorry to hear man. I really really hope things improve soon for you, this really sucks.

    Is it possible for damage to be done even at a light, careful level of PE? This is scary shit, I don't want to be doing anything that could result in this.

    Damn that sucks man, but you can't give up on your life things could improve maybe it takes time and healing.
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    Original start - 15th May '13 - July (stopped)
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    October 2014 - NBPEL 6.5" (16.6cm)

  6. 12-16-2013 #6
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    Was this injury caused because you did not warm up? What exactly did you do?
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  7. 12-16-2013 #7
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    I am sorry this has happened to you. Towards the end of your post, you seem to contemplating suicide, and if that is the case, I urge you to see a therapist as soon as possible. I'd suggest you'd see one anyways, in fact. You've been through a lot and I am sure your feelings about yourself, your penis, your sexuality, and your future are rather muddled right now. Have you looked into nerve regeneration therapy? There are ways people have been able to heal nerves that were otherwise considered untreatable.

    This is why jelqing and stretching has to be done so carefully. The penis is not indestructible, and it is damn significant. I hope anyone reading this learns to show their penis the care it deserves while doing PE.

    Light jelqing should actually be lighter than the pressure you put on your penis to masturbate, and while it can damage the penis if done too much, It can't cause complete neurotmetic injury without extensive pressure beyond the recommended erection and pressure levels.

    As for stretching, the damage that can be caused by this act is often underestimated. Stretching, if done too much, can cause neurotmesis. The penis was made out of tissues that can withstand a degree of stretching, but there is a limit, and that threshold is even lower for neurons.

    Anyone doing stretches: do NOT push your limit or something similar can happen to you.

    It sounds clear that your injury was a neurotmetic one, but that should still be repairable to some extent. Was this a transection of the nerve? Such injuries are very difficult to cause, both in the penis as well as elsewhere in the body. Significant trauma well beyond the norm would be necessary to induce such damage.
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  8. 12-16-2013 #8
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    Holy sh## , I can assure you I'm scared about this subjects, what if in the long term we are all doing small injuries to our penises and one day when we stop PEing they will never function normally again?? Nothing went bad untill now..
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    Quote Originally Posted by .I. View Post
    Holy sh## , I can assure you I'm scared about this subjects, what if in the long term we are all doing small injuries to our penises and one day when we stop PEing they will never function normally again?? Nothing went bad untill now..
    The truth of the matter is that, like other muscles in the body, we have to tear our muscle tissue (stretching) in order to for it to recuperate and grow bigger. All bodybuilders should know this and the same goes for the penis, because after all, it's also a muscle.
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    Sorry to hear about your situation man but I'd love to know how exactly this happened and when you started feeling pain in and around your unit. I'm asking so we can prevent things like this from happening again in the future.

    As previously suggested, you're only 23 years-old so your life isn't over! There are therapy treatments available such as nerve regeneration which would be extremely beneficial in your case along with a psychologist which will help you in the process.

    Think about your family and friends while you're contemplating suicide; think of the impact your death will have on them. You killing yourself will probably take more than one physical life.
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