Sharp pain when erect. Down curve from urethra?

[JPit125]

Ok, I'm new to the gym and reaching out for anyone's expertise and help on what I did/should do. Just over a week ago I spent the day and night with a women, and had some sexual intercourse like we have many times before. She and I are both healthy and haven't had any issues in the past. I've never had any erection issues or UTI's or anything like that either. One of her girlfriends actually came over while her and I were hanging out and suggested the idea of a Ring she just so happen to have. After a quick conversation and what not she ended up leaving it there with us in case we or I wanted to end up using it. It was well washed before use of course and my partner suggested to give me oral. I put it on soft, as it should be, checked out the sizing, seemed ok if not a bit to small. and for probably close to 1.5 hours she performed oral on me with 2 short breaks in between. We both smoke cigarettes and we did smoke quick during these small breaks which may or may not matter. After oral I was basically standing during intercourse and that's when I was beginning to feel some discomfort. Which like and idiot I ignored for a bit until I ejaculated. Afterwards taking a break to become soft I removed the ring because

[JPit125]

..... removed the ring because of the discomfort. Became erect again with much much less pain and finished her off I guess you'd say. All was fine and dandy that night other than the small imprint around my package the ring left after. The next couple days no issues. I did use a new soap recently which again may or may not matter but a few days after all this I've ran into problems. Symptom wise my forskin was a bit swollen and puffy. My urethra seemed irritated and sore at the head to about 1/4 way down the shaft. Next day.. same issues but now I was getting pain with urinating and a very mild discharge. Now I was kind of freaking out not knowing what was wrong. I've been letting it rest and not been sexually active for over a week now.
The forskin is not swollen. I would get a pain in the base of my shaft where it meets my testicles and at the top where it meets my l

[JPit125]

..... removed the ring because of the discomfort. Became erect again with much much less pain and finished her off I guess you'd say. All was fine and dandy that night other than the small imprint around my package the ring left after. The next couple days no issues. I did use a new soap recently which again may or may not matter but a few days after all this I've ran into problems. Symptom wise my forskin was a bit swollen and puffy. My urethra seemed irritated and sore at the head to about 1/4 way down the shaft. Next day.. same issues but now I was getting pain with urinating and a very mild discharge. Now I was kind of freaking out not knowing what was wrong. I've been letting it rest and not been sexually active for over a week now.
The forskin is not swollen. I would get a pain in the base of my shaft where it meets my testicles and at the top where it meets my lower abdomen. When I'm erect I have a sharp pain in the head of my penis/urethra and it makes my erection bend downward severely with bad pain. The urinating is now almost painless but the downward curve and pain while erect is still a present issue and a lite milky yellow discharge is also. Wtf!? Along the top of my shaft where it meets my abdomen I recently noticed a swollen, painful to the touch vein? I don't know what is going on. Even when I'm soft, a light tug to stretch the shaft is painful at the head of the penis as if the urethra is pulling back the other direction. I'm very concerned and would really appreciate help and advise.