Hard to cum sometimes :(

[Notsodeep]

As the titel says I have problem to cum sometimes
In the beginning of my PE many years ago I had the opposite problem
I wonder is there away to learn how to cum faster or say cum at will...

Is there any one who got the same problem?

[arkham]

Ask Pegasus.

Buy a Flesh Light and teach your penis how to enjoy it. No stress that you have to cum like during sex.
Dont watch porn.
Dont masturbate with hands.

[Notsodeep]

No porn no masturbating.
Im still sensitive so i cum pretty fast if I dont hold it back.
My PC muscle is so strong that i always can hold out for as long as i want to.
the thing now is every time i hold back its get harder for me to cum
I hold back to make my girl cum before me and after she cums
I have hard to cum and that tears on hers confident its a real problem. Shes not in the same mood and feels unsexy and soo on...
When we have sex often it turns to a maraton fuck for an hour or so she cums 4-5 times and i strugel to get there no problem for me its awsome accept for she gets worn out and not in the mood for a week+ or soo.
Almost the same when i get a blowjob shes super at it but very often it turns to a real maraton there to not becuse i hold back its just something that blocks in my head i think im so in to to hold back when im about to cum that my dos it naturaly
I want to cum fast when i get blown to make her feel good build up her confident make her feel great
I want to learn to cum on cue anybody here who can do that? Thanks for answers

[burtybasset]

I have problems with delayed ejaculation also.

Assuming you have no problem stimulating yourself to orgasm, what I do when I feel like I'm just not getting there, is basically when the Mrs is happy I withdraw from penetration and beat around the bush so to speak (masturbate), when I feel like I'm getting there I penetrate again and let her have my joy juice.

Spending less time stimulating yourself each time you have sex before re-penetration, in this way you are training yourself to be more stimulated by your partner.

It can be a little embarrassing the first time you do this, but if you are comfortable with your lady it shouldn't be a problem.

Also ease up on your grip when you masturbate as the death grip can desensitise you.

There is nothing wrong with masturbation, I see it as training for the main event (even though I rarely do it lately), most guys jerk quickly and end up with Pre E because they are training themselves to cum quickly.

Use your breathing to aid you in this, ThePassionateWife has information on acheiving orgasm on her website, I think this is meant for women but I believe it applies to men as well:

http://www.thepassionatewife.com/201...asmic-bliss22/

Something to try anyway, hope this helps.

[Notsodeep]

Thanks for reading and nice to so im not the only one whit that problem
I gona try these tips and check out the other thread
http://www.thepassionatewife.com/201...asmic-bliss22/