Results 1 to 5 of 5
Thread: Hard to cum sometimes :(
- 03-20-2014 #1
- Join Date
- Mar 2014
- Posts
- 8
As the titel says I have problem to cum sometimes
In the beginning of my PE many years ago I had the opposite problem
I wonder is there away to learn how to cum faster or say cum at will...
Is there any one who got the same problem?
- 03-20-2014 #2
Ask Pegasus.
Buy a Flesh Light and teach your penis how to enjoy it. No stress that you have to cum like during sex.
Dont watch porn.
Dont masturbate with hands.Start(11.24.11) BPEL 6 7/8 EG 4 7/8
Current stats
- 03-20-2014 #3
- Join Date
- Mar 2014
- Posts
- 8
No porn no masturbating.
Im still sensitive so i cum pretty fast if I dont hold it back.
My PC muscle is so strong that i always can hold out for as long as i want to.
the thing now is every time i hold back its get harder for me to cum
I hold back to make my girl cum before me and after she cums
I have hard to cum and that tears on hers confident its a real problem. Shes not in the same mood and feels unsexy and soo on...
When we have sex often it turns to a maraton fuck for an hour or so she cums 4-5 times and i strugel to get there no problem for me its awsome accept for she gets worn out and not in the mood for a week+ or soo.
Almost the same when i get a blowjob shes super at it but very often it turns to a real maraton there to not becuse i hold back its just something that blocks in my head i think im so in to to hold back when im about to cum that my dos it naturaly
I want to cum fast when i get blown to make her feel good build up her confident make her feel great
I want to learn to cum on cue anybody here who can do that? Thanks for answers
- 03-20-2014 #4
I have problems with delayed ejaculation also.
Assuming you have no problem stimulating yourself to orgasm, what I do when I feel like I'm just not getting there, is basically when the Mrs is happy I withdraw from penetration and beat around the bush so to speak (masturbate), when I feel like I'm getting there I penetrate again and let her have my joy juice.
Spending less time stimulating yourself each time you have sex before re-penetration, in this way you are training yourself to be more stimulated by your partner.
It can be a little embarrassing the first time you do this, but if you are comfortable with your lady it shouldn't be a problem.
Also ease up on your grip when you masturbate as the death grip can desensitise you.
There is nothing wrong with masturbation, I see it as training for the main event (even though I rarely do it lately), most guys jerk quickly and end up with Pre E because they are training themselves to cum quickly.
Use your breathing to aid you in this, ThePassionateWife has information on acheiving orgasm on her website, I think this is meant for women but I believe it applies to men as well:
http://www.thepassionatewife.com/201...asmic-bliss22/
Something to try anyway, hope this helps.
"Those who know others have knowledge,
those who know themselves have insight.
Those who master others have force,
those who master themselves have strength". - Lao Tzu
- 03-21-2014 #5
- Join Date
- Mar 2014
- Posts
- 8
Thanks for reading and nice to so im not the only one whit that problem
I gona try these tips and check out the other thread
http://www.thepassionatewife.com/201...asmic-bliss22/
Similar Threads
-
Having Hard Time Getting Hard....
By zax1108 in forum Beginner's ForumReplies: 11Last Post: 07-09-2013, 09:25 PM -
How hard is a hard flaccid
By gebruikersnaam in forum Penile Anomalies, Injuries, Pelvic Floor IssuesReplies: 6Last Post: 06-24-2013, 08:52 PM -
clamping to hard causeing injurys not hard enough slippage during hanging. what to do
By zuljino1 in forum Penis Devices ForumReplies: 11Last Post: 08-20-2012, 06:26 PM -
How hard is hard? (flaccid)
By frogo in forum Penile Anomalies, Injuries, Pelvic Floor IssuesReplies: 2Last Post: 04-24-2011, 01:48 PM -
No erectile disfunction at all but its getting hard to stay hard during PE ?
By One Day. in forum Penis Enlargement ForumReplies: 2Last Post: 02-21-2011, 03:33 PM
Try reading about the TGC...
I can't choose a program and...