Announcement

Collapse
No announcement yet.

Who can tell me what is wrong with my dick?

Collapse
X
 
  • Filter
  • Time
  • Show
Clear All
new posts

  • Who can tell me what is wrong with my dick?

    Hi there I'm boofguy

    I started doing PE about 3 years ago, doing it on and off throughout that time.

    This past year though I hit a spell of catastrophic depression cuz my nightmare of an ex sent me through the ringer, I went through a period of huge stress before I stopped seeing her in January and after that I literally had no attraction to sex or women or anything, it was soul crushing. All I did was work out all the time, take this supplement called test180alpha cuz it slightly made me feel better, and then after about a month and a half of that I stopped and just did nothing all the time. I started seeking a lot of psychological help, more than I was already getting for other problems, to try and pull myself out of this nightmare. I saw a hypnotist, that certainly turned things around for me somewhat, overall its been a slow recovery, but thats enough for the mental information.

    in that time my penile health was very strange, I wasn't getting erections when I should have for obvious reasons. After seeing a hypnotist I could get erections but felt no attraction towards girls even in sex, it was a very confusing period. during that period though, in mid march of this year, my penis was probably the largest its ever been. my original EL was 7.2, and I had hiked it up to 7.8-8.0 which I was pumped af about. during this period, I was possibly over 8.0, with insane girth to match it. I didn't do any excersizing during that time, and shortly after a few weeks, this faded into weak erections that were much smaller and thats how its been ever since. Id say my dick lasted in its good state for about 2-3 weeks, where erect size and flaccid size were much larger. After that faded and I started seeing shittier erections I decided to start using my bathmate pump again, which is what I've been mainly using for the past year and a half or so. Every time I used it however, it did not seem to give me any improvements and infect it just started to hurt my dick. One time a week or two ago, it felt good but when I took the pump off my dick was straight purple looking, so I said f that I gotta heal.
    During this period of time, I've had hard flaccid on and off but mostly its there, I get pains in my flaccid penis and pelvic area, my right testicle hurts sometimes and always seems to be like drawn up or scrunched or something, and I've been constipated af idk if thats relevant to anything.

    What do I do, what to I take, what doctors do I go to see and what direction do I move in please help, this year has been enough of a nightmare and a mystery.


    EDIT#1: Okay so I just read the entire HANS protocol and I am like almost 100% sure I have an overactive PF muscle, and that I have some sort of PF dysfunction. So my NEW plan is to follow the routine after figuring out how to do those different exercises, and then see where I get in a few weeks.
    My PF problems are clearly like pretty damn bad, so any other notes of what to do with those issues would be appreciated. I feel strongly that if I can properly recover my size and EQ, it will line up with my mental recovery and this may be the end of my road of PE to be entirely honest... I just gotta get that length and girth back, and fix my mind. Then ill be done
    Boofchamp
    Junior Member
    Last edited by Boofchamp; 07-24-2019, 01:37 PM.

  • #2
    Could be you just need to take a break to see if the physical issues subside. Best thing would be to see a urologist. Tell her/him your whole history - psychological and physical. Could be nothing and you're over it when you get your mind straight. But could be something physical in addition to you mental condition. Good luck. Bad divorces are about the worst thing to experience. Your lack of attraction to females could be because of this bad experience with your ex and not you. Maybe meeting a nice lady will cure that.
    Start: BPEL 6.75', EG 5.8", BPFL 4.5", FG 4.7", BPFSL 7.0"
    05/2021: BPEL 7.65”, EG 6.0”, BPFL 5.8”, FG 5.0", BPFSL 8.0"
    Goal: BPEL 8.0", EG 6.0", BPFL 5.75" FG 5.0", BPFSL 8.5"

    Comment


    • #3
      Pump have to be used carefully. Lay off the pumps and try and extender. Give your member a two week break. Strengthen and relax your pelvic floor.

      Comment


      • #4
        Have you seen a urologist?
        Start 9/30/18: NPBEL - 7.14" / MSEG - 5.25" - BEG - 5.5"/ EQ - 7/10 / BPEL - 8.15"

        Current: NBPEL - 7.5" / MSEG - 5.45" - BEG - 5.75" / EQ - 8/10 / BPEL - 8.5"

        Goal: NPBEL - 9.5" / MSEG - 6.5" - BEG - 7" / EQ 10/10 BPEL - 11"

        Comment


        • #5
          I have seen a urologist but he was quite unhelpful, they gave me a ct scan and then said urological there was nothing wrong with me. the guy seemed like a dip tho, so I'm gonna consult another doctor.

          The only thing telling me that I'm probably okay is that not like 3 months ago my penis was in great shape, which I was confused about because it almost seemed to happen overnight, and prior to that it was in terrible shape. I really did not do much after it lost its stature, like nothing that I remember that would have seriously injured it, it just well, wasn't getting as hard and big anymore. Im thinking that all this psychological turmoil is effecting it a lot, as stuff like that tends to do especially on such a detrimental scale. but that part I'm dealing with and ill be good on. The physical concerns are why I'm here, cuz I just want it to go back to the way it was.

          rn I'm taking lots of L-lysine and L-arginine, lecithin and stuff like that, running it under hot water and heat every time I'm in the shower, and resting it.

          it literally just feels like not all of my dick is absorbing blood, but the parts that are are like packed to the brim, then when it goes soft it stays like, soft-hard or whatever.

          if y'all have any other suggestions on what to do or what might be going on, it would be greatly appreciated cuz I feel very in the dark about my own body rn.

          Comment


          • #6
            I am thinking that its mostly pychological, because my mind/body has not been through anything this confusing and stressful probably ever. The help I'm getting though is for sure getting my mental straight again, which is good, and I have seen slight improvements. I'm gonna talk to a different urologist that hopefully is more sympathetic to my situation and gives a little more attention. once my mind is okay ill know for sure how my body is doing, but my instinct this whole time has told me that its a combination of both mental and physical things.

            Comment


            • #7
              should I wait to get an extender and start using it until I've given myself a little time to heal up, or wait for change?

              Comment


              • #8
                In my opinion... for now don't worry about your penis or PE, don't worry about women, don't worry about anything. It's definitely easier said than done. You can keep taking the Lysine and Arganine if you want, but you may not need "lots". Of course, keep an eye on your penis (not too close... POKE) and get help if something is obviously wrong.

                You've had a prolonged bout of stress and anxiety and that takes a huge toll on the body. You've been getting help on the mental side of things and are seeing improvements. That's awesome. Continue as you're doing, as you're already aware of what could be going on with your body and some steps you can take. You said it all in your above posts.

                Work on doing what you enjoy doing. Try something new. Get back to really being YOU, and if you don't know who that is... it's a perfect time to find out. If at any point during this, you end up taking a step backward, it's actually a good thing. Reevaluate and take a step forward in a better direction.

                Comment


                • #9
                  honestly I think thats really good advice. Im not super worried about losing my gains, because to be honest they've always seemed to come back even after times I thought I lost them. I think people REALLY underestimate how much effect your mind has over your whole body including your penis and related areas. I'm just gonna treat it well and make sure its not starved of anything that would be helping it heal. probably gonna try to kick nicotine in that time, because its a vascular constrictor, I'm just gonna calm myself. The HANS protocol already seems to be helping a little bit and its only been like 2 days. hopefully everything will be fine.

                  also from the comments everyone seems to think I was married, I wasn't I'm only 22 years old, my ex was just an absolute psycho, and frankly so was I thats what made it so bad. Im hoping I can sort this stuff out, while not rushing myself, so I can keep getting a little more enjoyment out of the college scene before I graduate.

                  Comment


                  • #10
                    Sounds like you've got the right mindset. That's the first step. And it sounds like you have a good plan going forward. Definitely get off the nicotine. It only gets harder to quit the older you get. Your being younger will help your body heal a lot better/quicker from the effects. I took a couple years for myself after a long stint with crazy girls and crazy me. Really helped me out. It kind of sucks at first, but then it becomes pretty liberating. The not rushing yourself is very important. One day at a time.

                    Be sure to keep us updated with how things are going. Maybe make a log, if applicable. And don't hesitate to let us know if there's any way we can help.

                    Comment


                    • #11
                      I'll add one more thing.......... When my ex and I split, I was happy to finally get away from her bullshit and devastated at the same time. Weird emotions. I still had an interest in other women and started dating pretty soon after the divorce was final. I had never had ED before, but with the new women I occasionally had erection problems. They may not have noticed as it wasn't a complete show stopper, but I could tell I wasn't up to par! I went to my doc and got on Cialis. Man, that stuff worked wonders! And within a couple months I didn't need it anymore. I guess I just had to get my mind straight and confidence back up. I kept the remaining Cialis pills I had and got the extra refill he approved mainly to shorten recovery time during sex marathon weekends. That was years ago, and I've been fine ever since. I still have one pill left I'm saving for a special occasion! heheh You might ask your doc about it if you're interested.
                      Start: BPEL 6.75', EG 5.8", BPFL 4.5", FG 4.7", BPFSL 7.0"
                      05/2021: BPEL 7.65”, EG 6.0”, BPFL 5.8”, FG 5.0", BPFSL 8.0"
                      Goal: BPEL 8.0", EG 6.0", BPFL 5.75" FG 5.0", BPFSL 8.5"

                      Comment

                      Working...
                      X