No libido premature ejaculation

[jones89y Member Find all posts View Profile Close jones89y]

Hey,

So for the past 6months or so I seem to have lost all my libido, I mean really I never feel like masturbating and have been turning my partner away from any kind of sexual intimacy.


I still seem to wake up with morning glory most days so I know it's still working, but I just don't get that feeling I used to get of blood rushing down there even when I see females who I find attractive and physically sexy. I could go through the rest of my life with-out masterbating or any sexual contact, I just NEVER feel like it, but mentally I want to be out banging as many girls as I can being I'm only 25 and have only slept with one girl (my partner).


All though I'm not currently sexually active with my partner I do try to edge every other day (not because I feel in the mood for it, but to try and regain some kind of feeling down there and to try to last longer). At the moment it takes me a long time to get an erection to be able to edge and when I do it's like it hits me all at once and it's impossible to prevent the point of no return, so when I stop stroking way before I ejaculate the feeling still carries on and I get involuntary kegels then ejaculate.


So I'm wondering has anyone else over come anything like this and if so how? I could probably live with the PreE but not EVER get that feeling down stairs unless I spend ages trying is killing me and my relationship.

Things I've been trying for awhile now, mainly to improve circulation-
. quit smoking
. taking loads of supplements like horny goat weed ect
. drink raw garlic and ginger in water
. stopped watching porn, just edge with imagine (well try)
. exercise everyday and keep active
. eat only things I've cooked from scratched (nothing processed)
. Jelqs and Kegels

I really don't know what else I can do to regain my hornyness

[longerlastingnoob Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close longerlastingnoob]

Are you taking any medication?

[jones89y Member Find all posts View Profile Close jones89y]

Are you taking any medication?

Nope no medication what so ever

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Are you stressed and when was the last time you had a full check up?

[longerlastingnoob Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close longerlastingnoob]

Is this the only reason your not sexually active with your partner?

[WIItard Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close WIItard]

Caught the Gay????

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Caught the Gay????

It's not a disease, you know.

[Sebt1890 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Sebt1890]

Check Test lvls

[chunk639 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close chunk639]

I've had similar for the past month, however my libido and EQ seems to be coming back little by little. It started happening when I started jelqing and adding some light squeezes and such (and perhaps stretched a little to much). But for now I lost that same feeling of blood rushing down there and getting hard like a rock and it sucks. I'm trying to lay off porn and eat healthy/ edge without doing the deed/etc. Maybe cardio exercise would help as well.

Also I just started doing 10 min of kegels every other day, holding for about 10 sec, then 10 sec rest, repeat. Everyday I'm going to do 10 min of reverse kegels. Guess we'll see how that goes, just started doing this kegel routine today actually.

Otherwise, Maybe it's low testosterone or stress?

[jones89y Member Find all posts View Profile Close jones89y]

Are you stressed and when was the last time you had a full check up?

I'm a little stressed only due to not being able to get in the mood and give my girl what she needs although does does like the licking she also wants the full works too.

I went into have a check up about a week ago and a may have a varicocele as there's some enlarged viens (that I can feel myself as a bag of worms). although this is not supposed to affect your sex drive I think it may have something to do with it as in the mornings when the veins aren't full with blood, my ball sack is firmer and this seems to be when I have most feeling down there but as the day goes on my ball sack goes softer and hang really low by the evening, this is when I have least feelings at all of blood to the penis.

[jones89y Member Find all posts View Profile Close jones89y]

Is this the only reason your not sexually active with your partner?

Yeah I try to keep her satisfied but when I comes to using my member it's not happening anymore

[jones89y Member Find all posts View Profile Close jones89y]

Check Test lvls

I've been thinking about that, what tests of T would I need doing as aren't there a few?