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    Hi I am 20 years old, 6 months ago I had casual sex with someone, before I was a virgin. I engaged in both oral and vaginal sex. At first the girl was on top so I wanted to penetrate her but my penis wasn't hard enough so I went on top instead and had penetrated her that way. Afterwards I ejaculated we engaged in oral sex again but afterwards, I couldn't penetrate her again as my penis wasn't hard enough and my erection was weak. So I left home but still felt horny so I masturbated for another three times, but at this moment I felt my penis to be a bit numb after sex. I would like to say that I felt no pain at all during sex. Also in the past a lot of the times my erections in general were pretty hard and so I would press down on the tip of the penis and I would hear a crack sound - I have done this around 8 times. I do not drink or take drugs, I am a healthy person.

    A few days following this I noticed my penis was numb from the head and it feels like a baby penis as it has shrunk when it is flaccid, I went to the doctor they told me that there is nothing much to worry about and give it a few days and it would get back to normal, the GP examined my penis and told me that it looks and feels normal but gave me Viagra and was told this would restore my penis to how it was before but it never did. I have had another GP consultation and was told to take a blood test for testosterone, hemoglobin (diabetes related), and two other blood tests, these all came back negative, I have therefore been referred to a urologist in two weeks’ time but from reading other people’s post regarding how their urologist treated them; I don’t think my situation would been any different and so I think the urologist would just dismiss me the same way my GP did.

    The Viagra had only made a slight improvement in the blood flow but this was all just temporary.
    I was still able to get erections but it was weak and my penis wouldn't be that rigid enough as usual. My semen levels when I ejaculate has remained the same.

    Now in these 6 months I have not noticed any improvements at all. My penis has shrunk significantly in its flaccid state – it is 1.5 times less than how it was before. I have also noticed that my scrotum is generally tight even when I am having a shower and the glans (penis head) is numb and I don’t feel anything when I masturbate. Whenever I walk around it feels as if I don’t have a penis at all as I can’t feel my penis rubbing against my groin or anything, this would happen before and my penis feels as if it isn’t mine anymore, my penis feels rather very rubbery. In these past six months I have had sex anther times but didn’t notice any improvements at all, I had to take Viagra to keep the penis running but even still the penis was stubborn. Only once did I have sex without taking Viagra and as soon as I had ejaculated my penis went all numb into its flaccid state. When I get an erection only get 30% blood flowing through my penis compared to how it was before.

    From this day on wards, I only masturbate once a week to see if there has been any improvements but there hasn’t been. I don’t have any libido at all and so If I want to then I can stop masturbating at all even when I am watching porn or If I see a naked women in front of me as I only get a very weak erection.

    Ever since this day, I constantly have my fucked up penis in my and so I can’t concentrate on anything, I feel absolutely hopeless and sometimes feel suicidal.

    The strangest thing out of all is that I didn’t feel any pain or discomfort at all when I had sex, but I am dead sure that I must have done something to be in this state I am now. Is this issue related to any injury of the nerves and or blood chambers on the penis? How can I overcome this issue and get my penis back to normal?

    Below is a link that shows my penis from flaccid state to erection state and then to flaccid state again, the numbers are in chronological order. Can anyone have a look and tell me what they think?

    https://imageshack.com/a/IoKM/1

    It took a long while to achieve an erection around 10 mins, before I had this problem I would get an erection instantly. After I had achieved an erection (only 20% blood flow), it only took a couple of seconds for the penis to come down and go flaccid again. As seen in images 3 and 4, my penis shaft has a slight angle and is pointing downwards, before I had this problem my penis shaft would never be at an angle it would always be straight.

    My penis shaft also hangs more downwards and points more to the left compared to before, is this a sign of penile suspensory damage?
    Last edited by ac130a; 06-08-2016, 12:58 PM.

  • #2
    You have anxiety.

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    • #3
      Originally posted by Pegasus View Post
      You have anxiety.
      Why could it be due to anxiety?

      Here are all the difficulties I am facing with

      1) Penis size is 1.5x less in flaccid state compared to how it was before
      2) Scrotum is generally tight and doesn't respond to temperature changes
      3) Penis feels rubbery
      4) When I get an erection, only 30% blood at max flows through my penis
      5) Total loss of libido
      6) Penis feels loose
      7) Weak orgasm
      8) Penis head (glans) feels numb
      Last edited by ac130a; 06-04-2016, 04:20 PM.

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      • #4
        Difficulties cause anxiety and anxiety is not good for your penis.
        Do you feel you got some strange injury during sex? Very doubtful.
        The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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        • #5
          here we go again with another doctor giving drugs like if it was candy. And it didn't fix anything. No shit!

          I suspect severe malnutrition.

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          • #6
            Originally posted by CUSP82 View Post
            Difficulties cause anxiety and anxiety is not good for your penis.
            Do you feel you got some strange injury during sex? Very doubtful.
            Well I did not feel any pain during sex however, I have noticed that whilst I was having sex in missionary position, I was kind of thrusting my entire body and out in a weird way rather than just thrusting my pelvis in and out. Perhaps this could be the reason why I had injured my penis? Despite not feeling any pain at all.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Jackxxx View Post
              here we go again with another doctor giving drugs like if it was candy. And it didn't fix anything. No shit!

              I suspect severe malnutrition.
              Hi can you have a look at my link which shows my penis?

              Before I had sex for the first time my penis was working perfectly fine. Do you know why this could be due to malnutrition and what can I do about it to get my penis sorted out?

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              • #8
                Anyone help please?

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                • #9
                  A physio who works on the pelvic floor could look for stress /injury in the pelvic floor . It is possible you overstressed it , docs are very poor at picking up this kind of problem.

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Pegasus View Post
                    You have anxiety.
                    I endorse Pegasus.

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by Pegasus View Post
                      A physio who works on the pelvic floor could look for stress /injury in the pelvic floor . It is possible you overstressed it docs are very poor at picking up this kind of problem.
                      Hi if I had overstressed my pelvic floor then what would happen? What would a physio do about this?

                      I have been to a urologist about this issue 2 months ago, the urologist had asked me if I had suffered from any penile injury I had told them no I didn't suffer from any injury but told the all the 1-8 difficulties I am having with my penis. The urologist had just told me that this cause is purely psychological and that it is not possible for me at a young age to suffer from erectile dysfunction. My urologist had told my GP the same thing as well but had also said that I might need psychological sex counselling if I need to.

                      Since these 2 weeks my penis has remained the same, there has not been any improvements and I am still experiencing all of those difficulties as I had previously stated.

                      Do I have a hard flaccid penis based on all the information I have given? Can someone please give me some advice about what I should do?
                      Last edited by ac130a; 09-20-2016, 03:35 PM.

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                      • #12
                        Hard flaccid is a symptom with a number of potential causes, not a disease in and of itself.

                        Have you read Peg's post here? Pelvic physio
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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by Big Al View Post
                          Hard flaccid is a symptom with a number of potential causes, not a disease in and of itself.

                          Have you read Peg's post here? Pelvic physio
                          Yes I have read all of that. But the only problem I have is erectile dysfunction. I do not know of any pelvic floor physiotherpahist in my area. I live in the UK? Is my problem something to do with the pelvic floor muscle or is it something else?

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                          • #14
                            Is your penis hard during its flaccid state? Do your erections feel super stiff? I have this too but I don't have the numbness and can still mastrubate and have sex with pretty good erections...the stress definitely isn't helping with your libido.

                            Try the pelvic physio or look up at ways to reduce the stress in your pelvic floor (pelvic stretching, trigger point therapy, etc).

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                            • #15
                              You have my sympathy, ac130a.

                              My penis also went numb overnight in circumstances very similar to your own. To this day, I've never been able to work out how this happened but I caught an STD that may have something to do with it.

                              Have you been checked just to make sure there's no infection of any kind?

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