Can you keep a Bathmate a secret from your Partner?

**Redtony** · 03-03-2015

I think not!! You might be able to lock the bathroom door but once she sees your bruised tackle there is no way out!!! Fortunately or unfortunately I'm single but if i was in a relationship i don't know if i could use this - My tackle always looks red & deformed after.. This could turn a woman off you...

**elijohnson** · 03-03-2015

O.O

You might be overdoing it. Try breaking your session up into 5-7 minute sets, get the blood flowing between them with massage. When I've finished I use bio-oil to keep my skin happy. Although it does look a bit darker after it's nothing that couldn't be explained by the heat alone.

**Redtony** · 03-03-2015

yea I must be pumping to hard, the skin just below my penis head (I'm circumcised) looks enlarged and swollen and best described as elephant man syndrome - but always goes down after 24 hours...No pain No Gain I'm guessing!

**popol5169** · 03-03-2015

Well you're guessing completely wrong and are massively overdoing it with the bathmate.
Use your hands and add the bathmate as the icing on the cake for now.

**elijohnson** · 03-03-2015

Yikes. Listen to popol. No Pain. End of maxim.

No. Pain.

**mbenz989** · 03-03-2015

I tried to hide it at first but was pretty impossible to ever get a decent routine going. One day she found it and I was glad she did, she was pretty cool with it and more upset I didn't tell her. I now get to pump nearly every day, the sex we have is more enjoyable for both of us, and now that she knows I'm doing pe she's alright with me taking even more time in the shower to try to do some stretches and jelqing.

**Redtony** · 03-03-2015

Awesome!

**closed224** · 03-03-2015

Redtony, you are definitely over pumping. Either too much pressure, or too much time, or a combination of both.

**Redtony** · 03-03-2015

hi Wishful, i do warm up, stop every 5 minutes, maximum time 15 minutes - maybe 20 - i think i over do it - i pump sometimes to 18 mark maybe i should pump to 17 , but saying that , the deformity goes after 16 hours

**closed224** · 03-03-2015

If you lower your pressure you can encourage expansion throughout the penis. Then you get larger without the donut effect. I think you can build up more time with less pressure and improve your gains. Good luck, be safe.