thinking of leaving the site....negativity.

[csr40 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close csr40]

As stated. .....many of you may know my posts and ive caught a ton of negativity. That much i dont mind. As it stands now...i only focus on regular PE and length training.
I post real and personal gains and experiences. I try and inform and learn.
But here lately i cannot help but notice a fairly big uptick in negativity and disrespect.
No one HAS to be here and share.
If any here have enjoyed my posts or gained any knowledge, entertainment, or enthusiasm or even hope.....then id remain. But otherwise it seems i may take a really long hiatus.

[WBspider Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close WBspider]

Sorry to hear that. I made a post on the Why you want 9 in thread, and got some backlash.

I felt I would get laughs, but didn't get any. I had good intentions with that post, and got some bad responses. I didn't mean to be disrespectful. Someone or some made comments, that said my post was immature, homophobic, and misogynistic. Three things I am not, but the post I admit was immature. I'm new hear, and haven't got a full feel of the members here.

You should consider staying with this community. I one day will end being a lurker, and provide it with wisdom.

[csr40 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close csr40]

Well i appreciate the words. They are very touchy. Moderators do a fairly good job but sometimes lash out on people defending themselves against "aggresive attackers" rather than the instigators . I got banned a few months back after being cursed at and disrespected then defending myself. Sometimes seems a bit "clickish".
But overall if one is humorous and insightful rather than just plain crude all will be well.
A lot of my decision may be based on sheer rude comments on disbelief and downright ignorance. People tend to judge what they do not know. I for one have never done that to anyone on here. Its their story. Doesn't hurt me at all if its true or a lie. I dont pretend to know unless proven one way or the other.
So i may wait and see. But overall........the negativity especially amongst a few senior haters has gotten to me. There is no "live and let live".

[popol5169 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close popol5169]

It may be very annoying for guys to read threads or posts about how a 8.5" girth guy who injected jelly in his wiener has no problems with ladies and how the tightest vagina enjoyed the girth an awful lot.
I'm not blaming you but if what you mean is you're on the receiving end of a lot of negativity then I guess that's unavoidable. Actually I'd say you managed to be spared on the last few threads you created.
One way you could help is if you expained in details how you gained your girth and the protocol, but then that would be dangerous info in the hands of the often young and mostly insecure guys of this forum, not to say that 99.999% of the members would not do it.
So there we are reading about stories of a massive girth none of us can ever achieve through regular PE.

[Jay48 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jay48]

It may be very annoying for guys to read threads or posts about how a 8.5" girth guy who injected jelly in his wiener has no problems with ladies and how the tightest vagina enjoyed the girth an awful lot.
I'm not blaming you but if what you mean is you're on the receiving end of a lot of negativity then I guess that's unavoidable. Actually I'd say you managed to be spared on the last few threads you created.
One way you could help is if you expained in details how you gained your girth and the protocol, but then that would be dangerous info in the hands of the often young and mostly insecure guys of this forum, not to say that 99.999% of the members would not do it.
So there we are reading about stories of a massive girth none of us can ever achieve through regular PE.

My thoughts exactly. I'm not sure how "inspiring," "enthusiastic," or "hopeful" it is for people to read threads about how much an 8.5 inch girth monster-penis made your girlfriend cum. Hopeful how? Can most people hope to reach that sort of goal? It's actually sort of bizarre to me that you expected any other response from a forum of, as the above poster mentioned, young and insecure guys. What sort of reaction could one expect? "Yahoo, great job man, good to hear your girlfriend loved your 8.5 inch girth penis, I'll never even get close to that, but I feel great reading about it!"

You could be helpful, however, if you actually gave a detailed explanation of how you managed to inject yourself to 8.5 girth. I mean, most people would probably be unwise to attempt such a feat, but it could be argued, in that case, that you might be being helpful in the chemical PE section of the forum, perhaps.

Not trying to be negative myself or anything, just seems strange to me why you're confused at some of the negative responses.

[Dangler Senior Administrator☼ Wizard ☼ White Tiger Award 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Dangler]

thread moved to the GYM forum.

[csr40 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close csr40]

I can understand the thought process. It just doesnt occur to me to be rude or disrespectful to anyone here. Thats what i do not understand. And its not just me. Ive seen it with many other members being disrespected even in regard to silly things such as body fat percentages.
I mean.....ok......so a guy posts he has 2% body fat. So what? He could be a middle aged tubby who is lying. Why does it matter and why argue with him if you have no way to prove or disprove his claim. Read....contribute.....learn....etc. But to hammer someone and his claim and decide YOU know (when you really dont) and then ridicule......well im not so sure thats very productive.

[closed291 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Member of the Month June 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed291]

Hi csr77,

Have you considered talking to the mods directly about your concerns?

[csr40 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close csr40]

And if you look closely at my posts......youll find its usually a respectful rebuttal in response to some fairly narrow thinking in regard to people posting preposed "facts".
Ie.......there is NO WAY any woman would enjoy anything over 6 inches in girth. Or.........8 is the DEEPEST any girl could EVER take.
Well........i inject real evidence to the contrary. Most of my experiences and posts are followed by "thats just my own personal limited experience "
And lots of other posts of mine are from a natural PE length gain experience.
And NONE ridicule others experiences. Only offer evidence supporting contrary "facts"

[Dangler Senior Administrator☼ Wizard ☼ White Tiger Award 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Dangler]

We do have this as a policy:

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Respect for members, their threads, posts, towards each other.

A Policy of the PEGym, is -
Members are to treat each other with Respect,
thread topics and their posts within, deserve/receive that same Respect.

If your post or behavior, appears to cross that line, you may be asked to edit your post,
your post may be deleted, and/or you may be warned via
Private Message, issued an Infraction, or banned from using the forum.
Bans may last from 1 day to being permanent.

If you have a concern or issue with something,
you can contact a Moderator, Report a Post, Report a PM.

Lastly, from the Start Here thread, item #4


4) Freedom of speech is our motto, but don't abuse it! Treat others with respect, keep your posts clean, avoid porn, don't act like an idiot, and be friendly to others. If you follow these guidelines, you'll do well here!

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That is from the START HERE! thread.
#4 above says it best.

[Jay48 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jay48]

And if you look closely at my posts......youll find its usually a respectful rebuttal in response to some fairly narrow thinking in regard to people posting preposed "facts".
Ie.......there is NO WAY any woman would enjoy anything over 6 inches in girth. Or.........8 is the DEEPEST any girl could EVER take.
Well........i inject real evidence to the contrary. Most of my experiences and posts are followed by "thats just my own personal limited experience "
And lots of other posts of mine are from a natural PE length gain experience.
And NONE ridicule others experiences. Only offer evidence supporting contrary "facts"

Did you read my and Popol's post?

We're not questioning the truth of your experiences (I believe you absolutely); we're responding to your questions as to why some people might be irritated by your posts, namely that they are not very useful, and sort of obnoxious. Your posts amount to nothing more than, "some women enjoy monstrous penises with over 7.5-8.5 girth and 9+ length."

This, of course, is absolutely nothing new, and a plain truism that no one with half a brain would question. All one has to do is look at some of Shane Diesel's or Shorty Mac's clips for girth, and Mandingo's for length. Some of those girls are CLEARLY enjoying it, so why do you also have to say so? We already know, my friend. There's video evidence.

[Zman007 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Zman007]

Well, looks at how you've acted throughout the threads you've created. You were beligerent, rude, used multi post rants, and were warned and repeatedly addressed by mods. You claim your very unique experiences, all women taking 9" dildos and your claimed 8.5" girth with ease, as the norm.

Couple that with the fact you inject KY into your dick, claim 8.5" in girth, and to date have supplied two pictures that do not support that claim. No doubt you are massive, your girth is ridiculous even at ~7.5", but it isn't 8.5". Look how tight you grasp a soda can, girth 8.18" and have your thumb and middle finger as close as possible, now look at you grasping your cock, your hand is far more relaxed, your thumb and middle finger aren't lined up to maximize the distance between them, and the gap is as large or large. And, you have not posted a picture with a fabric tape, if you did so you'd likely have the largest measured girth on the Internet. I am saying you are making extraordinary claims and are not supplying evidence sufficient to support those claims.

I am saying you are using a pretty simple trick to claim an absolutely ridiculous girth that isn't necessary because you already have a ridiculous girth . Using the same trick, I with my above average sized hands and 7.5" wrist go from a loose .5" gap to a 2" gap using that method and it looks just like your picture. Now, looking at your hand size on a soda can, I'm pretty damn sure my hands are actually bigger than yours. What I am saying is that you do not have 8.5" girth. I am saying that when you make that claim you are lying. I am saying you have shown evidence of massive girth, but it isn't likely above 7.5".

Is is it possible I'm wrong, yeah, it's possible but not likely. Want to quiet those claims, go ahead, post a legitimate picture with a tape. What I am saying is that literally everyone her has doubted your claims since you came here and what you supplied as proof of your claims it a nice trick making your truly massive girth look even more out of this world to meet your exaggerated claims.

This is why I game you negative reputation, and your response was to give me retalitory negative rep in return.

[Tamora Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Aug 2015 PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Tamora]

So...what can we do about this situation before it possibly spirals out of control?

Csr77...you have your freedom of speech which is written into your constitution. However, as it has been explained very succinctly to us mods, when here you should treat it as being a guest in someone's house. There are unwritten rules of behaviour that we all have to adhere to. Moderating that can be a very fine line.

Moderators do a fairly good job but sometimes lash out on people defending themselves against "aggresive attackers" rather than the instigators . I got banned a few months back after being cursed at and disrespected then defending myself. Sometimes seems a bit "clickish".

You know this statement isn't true. Your situation was treated honestly and fairly, you weren't banned permanently, no-one has tried to silence you on this thread and you are entitled to your opinions just as everyone else is. Probably best not to hold a grudge and move on in a positive manner.

Oh...and just as a polite reminder to everyone...

Mean behavior detrimental to the goals of the PEGym (including name-calling, bullying or playing off the insecurities of others, excessive questioning the stats or gains of other members, baiting or intentionally inciting others)

...can lead to an infraction.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

The guys you don't want to hear their comments just put them on your ignore list. I did it with my wife; works great.

[Tamora Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Aug 2015 PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Tamora]

So that's why I never get a response from Cusp! Now I know!