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  • Small research of an ideal penis size and setting my goal accordingly

    I am into PE for about 9 months already. I am convinced that PE works as I have already gotten bigger myself. So natural question I have got since then is what size should I set as my goal? Some PE’ers here say to get as big as you can. I do not think it is good idea and these are the arguments why:

    · PE takes time.
    While it is fun to PE, I do not imagine myself doing it for my whole life. There are many other things a real man should strive for in his life. IMHO, get ideal and then instead of enlarging, spend time and energy on training stamina and technique to make every woman orgasm! It is more important.

    · There is definitely a comfort limit during sex for a woman.
    While vaginal sex might be good, the problems comes during oral (jaw locking) and anal sex. Fellow PE’ers, try this yourself: take a Gillette shaving gel can, which is 6+ inches in circumference. Now, try to get it in your mouth. I am average height guy and I cannot get it in. Also take into account that average height girl has smaller mouth than average height guy. Considering length, it is the same problem. Why do you want to poke the girl? Especially, when G-spot is a couple of cm deep.

    · Having abnormally huge penis might decrease enjoyment and pleasure for us (males) too.
    Forget anal and oral with some girls. Forget going balls deep. Then you are left only with enjoying sex just with half of your penis. I do not see the point spending time doing PE and then being too large. For example, go to any porn site and search for Shane Diesel. He has one of the biggest girths in porn industry. During sex he is only using his head!

    All self-development gurus know and advocate setting goal and having an image of it in one’s mind. Those who are interested into psychology and self-development can check the talks, lectures and books of great people like Jim Rohn, Tony Robbins, Stephen Covey.

    In the following, I will explain my thought process I was having while trying to set my goal of an ideal penis size. First of all, I have decided to research only the articles and old threads on the pegym website because I do not trust in general mass media. I think many PE’ers know that Hollywood movies are conditioning our mind in the wrong way, especially regarding to the penis size.

    The next question was, do I want to set my goal as an ideal penis for men, for women, or for sex? This chart http://www.penissizedebate.com/image...nce_chart1.gif is considered by many PE’ers as ideal penis size for men, despite that the title says the opposite. 6.5 girth is perfect?! Are you kidding? As I suggested earlier, go and take to get a Gillet shaving gel can into your mouth. The best I believe is to consider the ideal size for sex as an act itself. I think women’s ideal should also be very close to it.

    These are some good articles related to an ideal penis size I have read and next to the links are specific numbers of an ideal I have found there:
    · https://www.pegym.com/articles/penis...survey-results 7.5x5.75
    · https://www.pegym.com/articles/discu...is-size-survey 7x5.5

    “Guys, let’s have a brief female anatomy lesson here…
    The average vagina, from the vaginal opening to the tip of the cervix, is between 3 and 4 inches long. Now, the vagina being one of the most wondrous anatomical parts, it can expand typically by up to 200% — this means – 6 to 8 inches max in length.
    10 inches??? Again — YIKES!
    This means there are 2 choices for the guy with this ginormous pants salami — 1. Not fully penetrate the woman or 2. Possibly hurt their partner.”

    Some good threads I have considered:
    · https://www.pegym.com/forums/womans-...ladies-pe.html 7.25x5.5

    “The other problem is no matter what size they say, guys will complain and it causes them to not want to post or maybe fudge a bit on their size preference. For example, if they say 9x6, then everyone calls them size queens and if they say 6x4.5 then everyone calls them liars. I think last thread the most popular answer seemed to be 7x5.5.”

    · https://www.pegym.com/forums/womans-...what-size.html
    · https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...gth-girth.html 8x6
    · https://www.pegym.com/forums/penis-e...ant-8-6-a.html 7x5.5
    · https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...lly-ideal.html 7.375x5.25

    One guy commented on the importance of technique and not size:
    “afterwards when her and I were talking she said he was the biggest she had had or seen, but he was terrible.”

    Also, some amazing videos and documentaries regarding penis size:
    · https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zQeigbIPq3Y
    · https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym/373...ced-women.html

    Finally, getting an average from all the numbers, I set my goal to be this: 7.25x5.5

    Any comments are very welcome as this is my first big thread created and decent research done on PE.
    Mantas
    Senior Member
    Last edited by Mantas; 10-23-2016, 06:16 AM.
    BPEL: 5.4, 5.6, 5.8, 6.0, 6.2, 6.4, 6.6, 6.8, 7.0, 7.2, 7.25
    MEG: 4.2, 4.3, 4.4, 4.5, 4.6, 4.7, 4.8, 4.9, 5.0, 5.1, 5.2, 5.3, 5.4, 5.5

  • #2
    Meh.

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    • #3
      Thanks for all the info and research you did here. And thanks for putting it in plain english. And thanks one more time for showing me that I only need to add a 1/4" in length and I will have the ideal penis.. I'm dead on at 5 1/2" girth, and 7" in length... I measure again in a month. I'm thinking I might see that 1/4" then...
      10/16..............1/17.......4/17
      bpsfl; 7.5".....7.5".......
      bpel; 6.75"....7.0"......
      meg; 5.5"......5.5".....
      beg; 6.0".......6.0".....
      Follow my log..https://www.pegym.com/forums/progres...gress-log.html
      Go Real Big Or Go Home!!!!

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      • #4
        Don't know why you would limit yourself to an "ideal number". This is for you not for them(maybe for them a little bit). Aim for what makes you happiest, aim for the biggest you can get, or biggest your partner can take comfortably.

        My personal opinion is at 7.25x5.5 most every woman can take more in both departments and be satisfied with it. It is a good number nonetheless

        Good luck in your goals

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        • #5
          It's interesting to see the numbers on this forum higher than recent studies, in terms of "ideal" length and girth. A pretty well done study done at U of Cali, published in 2015, put ideal at around 6.4"l x 5.0"c. If they're right, many of us on this forum are already there, or beyond.

          Let me mix it up a bit, though. Other studies, including a 2015 Swiss study, show that women rate penises different from men. The most important factor to women in that study was the penis' overall aesthetic appearance. Girth was third and length was sixth on their list of priority. Maybe we need to focus on more than LxW.
          Start: BPEL 6.75', EG 5.8", BPFL 4.5", FG 4.7", BPFSL 7.0"
          05/2021: BPEL 7.65”, EG 6.0”, BPFL 5.8”, FG 5.0", BPFSL 8.0"
          Goal: BPEL 8.0", EG 6.0", BPFL 5.75" FG 5.0", BPFSL 8.5"

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          • #6
            Originally posted by Physdoc View Post
            It's interesting to see the numbers on this forum higher than recent studies, in terms of "ideal" length and girth. A pretty well done study done at U of Cali, published in 2015, put ideal at around 6.4"l x 5.0"c. If they're right, many of us on this forum are already there, or beyond.

            Let me mix it up a bit, though. Other studies, including a 2015 Swiss study, show that women rate penises different from men. The most important factor to women in that study was the penis' overall aesthetic appearance. Girth was third and length was sixth on their list of priority. Maybe we need to focus on more than LxW.
            Ok now give an accurate description and definition of what "overall aesthetic appeal" is.
            Sure sounds meaningless .

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            • #7
              Can you be irked to get the Swiss Study? I'm actually really curious about it.

              As for the topic to be honest your penis size is, for better or worse, not something you should work too hard onspecifically with sex in mind in my opinion. This is especially true if you're not with a committed partner since you're no longer catering to "a need" and just pandering to a huge audience of people.

              I could see it though if your partner wants 8 x 6 and you promised it or something but otherwise it's only for you.
              MildlyLarge
              Junior Member
              Last edited by MildlyLarge; 10-23-2016, 07:38 AM.
              Giving it a go!

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              • #8
                Originally posted by Pegasus View Post
                Ok now give an accurate description and definition of what "overall aesthetic appeal" is.
                Sure sounds meaningless .
                Yeah, good point. I read all through the study and still didn't get a good sense for that. Seems they left it purely subjective.

                That said, it did make me think about comments women make about penises at nudist places. They do seem to often mention irregularities, like weird bumps, curves, skin spots/condition, weird glans shape, too much bush, saggy balls, etc.
                Start: BPEL 6.75', EG 5.8", BPFL 4.5", FG 4.7", BPFSL 7.0"
                05/2021: BPEL 7.65”, EG 6.0”, BPFL 5.8”, FG 5.0", BPFSL 8.0"
                Goal: BPEL 8.0", EG 6.0", BPFL 5.75" FG 5.0", BPFSL 8.5"

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                • #9
                  They all talk about the appearance of a penis... I've been told by a few woman that I have a sexy penis.. and also a perfect one.. But sexy was the #1 comment.. So yes, they do take the way it looks into consideration. Not so much the size. But appearance.
                  10/16..............1/17.......4/17
                  bpsfl; 7.5".....7.5".......
                  bpel; 6.75"....7.0"......
                  meg; 5.5"......5.5".....
                  beg; 6.0".......6.0".....
                  Follow my log..https://www.pegym.com/forums/progres...gress-log.html
                  Go Real Big Or Go Home!!!!

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                  • #10
                    at that goal you should be %90-99 bigger then most guys according to reaserch I've seen.

                    I honestly don't know if I'd want 6 inch girth. My mind might change as I get bigger and test my size on women. In my mind 5.25-5.5 would be perfect.

                    My goal is less then that becuase I'm sacrificing perfection for time.
                    Start 11/30/15: BPEL: 7 MEG:4?

                    10/08/16 BPEL: 7.5 MEG:4.5 BPFL:6 BEG:4.75

                    GOAL: BPEL:8 MEG: 5

                    PROGRESS LOG

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by Pipeman View Post
                      Thanks for all the info and research you did here. And thanks for putting it in plain english. And thanks one more time for showing me that I only need to add a 1/4" in length and I will have the ideal penis.. I'm dead on at 5 1/2" girth, and 7" in length... I measure again in a month. I'm thinking I might see that 1/4" then...
                      You are very welcome!
                      Originally posted by Cokafor View Post
                      Don't know why you would limit yourself to an "ideal number". This is for you not for them(maybe for them a little bit). Aim for what makes you happiest, aim for the biggest you can get, or biggest your partner can take comfortably.

                      My personal opinion is at 7.25x5.5 most every woman can take more in both departments and be satisfied with it. It is a good number nonetheless

                      Good luck in your goals
                      I gave the arguments why I want to set the number. Mainly it is because of time limit for me. Though, I might increase my goal as I get to 7.25x5.5 and test it to see if I am happy with it.
                      Mantas
                      Senior Member
                      Last edited by Mantas; 10-23-2016, 11:35 AM.
                      BPEL: 5.4, 5.6, 5.8, 6.0, 6.2, 6.4, 6.6, 6.8, 7.0, 7.2, 7.25
                      MEG: 4.2, 4.3, 4.4, 4.5, 4.6, 4.7, 4.8, 4.9, 5.0, 5.1, 5.2, 5.3, 5.4, 5.5

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Captainc View Post
                        at that goal you should be %90-99 bigger then most guys according to reaserch I've seen.

                        I honestly don't know if I'd want 6 inch girth. My mind might change as I get bigger and test my size on women. In my mind 5.25-5.5 would be perfect.

                        My goal is less then that becuase I'm sacrificing perfection for time.
                        Your thoughts are exacly like mine
                        BPEL: 5.4, 5.6, 5.8, 6.0, 6.2, 6.4, 6.6, 6.8, 7.0, 7.2, 7.25
                        MEG: 4.2, 4.3, 4.4, 4.5, 4.6, 4.7, 4.8, 4.9, 5.0, 5.1, 5.2, 5.3, 5.4, 5.5

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                        • #13
                          Something between 7" to 7.5" NBPEL and 5.5" to 6" BEG is ideal for me. No need for a monstercock..
                          Start 9/'16...11/'16...1/'17

                          NBPEL: 5.9 (15)...6.1 (15,5)...6.1 (15,5)
                          BEG: 4.7 (12)...4.9 (12,5)...5.0 (12,8)
                          FL: 3.54 (9)....3.54 (9)...3.54 (9)
                          FG: 3.54 (9)...3.94 (10)...3.94 (10)

                          Goal: NBPEL 7.3 (18,5) BEG 5.5 (14)

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by Physdoc View Post
                            Yeah, good point. I read all through the study and still didn't get a good sense for that. Seems they left it purely subjective.

                            That said, it did make me think about comments women make about penises at nudist places. They do seem to often mention irregularities, like weird bumps, curves, skin spots/condition, weird glans shape, too much bush, saggy balls, etc.
                            Uhhuh so one girl might say a guys balls are too saggy, the next too tight, the next girl might say he has too much bush, the next too little, the next his glans is too big the next it is too small etc.
                            I notice being told you have a "perfect" or pretty penis has come to be regarded by some men as a catch all phrase to mollify them.

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by HopefulPersistant View Post
                              Something between 7" to 7.5" NBPEL and 5.5" to 6" BEG is ideal for me. No need for a monstercock..
                              That's my goal too. To some girls that's gonna be a monster cock lol especially NBP!
                              Starting: 6.5x4.9

                              Current: 7.5x5.75

                              Goal: 8x6++

                              LOG: https://www.pegym.com/forums/progres...tereotype.html

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