Girth or length?

**MeWorldwide88** · 07-25-2017

Ok, so weird question:

My length and girth fluctuates depending on my diet and exercise.

If I'm not eating well and exercising, my length is 6" BPEL and 5.12" MSEG

if I am eating well and exercising, my length is about 5.75" BPEL (maybe a shade under), and 5.37" MSEG and sometimes as high as 5.5" depending on EQ (also measuring too much makes me a bit stressed so take a bit longer to get good EQ)

So what would u guys rather? I know girls prefer girth to length (most) and the reviews from my wife have definitely been in favour of the girth, but it kinda sucks losing a little length. But I guess the girth counts for way more.

I'm guessing it's just better blood flow? Idk why it gets shorter tho. Kinda weird

**MeWorldwide88** · 07-25-2017

This has also made me realise how much more a quarter inch in girth is worth than a quarter inch in length.my dick looks incredibly fuller

**MeWorldwide88** · 08-31-2017

Ok guys legit question:

Would u rather 5.65 BPEL and 5.5 MSEG

OR

6.0 BPEL and 5.12 MSEG

**AverageDude48** · 08-31-2017

Good morning and welcome to the Forum.

This question is asked so often. No offense. Not saying anything in a roundabout way! I don't think that you know me yet, but I am rather honest and direct.

But, there are a couple of different conversations going on about this exact topic. I even created a post about "get hard, stay hard".....

So, most women (and I hesitate to say "most women" but I think that it is somewhat safe in this context) actually prefer a rock hard erection. Next, if there were a choice, would be girth. Finally, length. But, all three of those would be down the list of what a woman wants in a sexual partner / man!

Will there be 100% agreement with my contention? Heck no! Everyone is different and everyone likes different things. But, according to my experiences and according to a good number of women in here (well, to be clear - of the women in these forums....a good number of them) would VERY LIKELY agree.

From my experience, women have always really liked the fact that I get rock hard and stay rock hard and that I throb something fierce as the end approaches. They also like my girth. Which, as you can see from my stats, is right around average. Maybe a smidgen more. There have been few negative comments about my length. Some, for sure. But, mostly from self-admitted size-queens.

So, my whole purpose in being in here is for amazing overall health and awesome EQ (erection quality). Would I love to have a rock hard cock with the measurements in my "Goals"? Heck, yeah! I mean, HOLY COW! But, I am perfectly happy with what I have. If I can increase both length and girth (and not necessarily via increased EQ....legit gains in both) then I would be super happy. Am I going to be devastated if I never increase 1/8 inch in either? HELL NO!

Everyone is different. Everyone has different ideas. Everyone has different experiences.

My suggestions - on top of amazing EQ - is to be confident and to be sexually confident.

But, finally, to answer your question - the first! I would rather have the 5.65BPEL | 5.5 MEG.....if the two options that you provided were the only two options.

**everydaynormalguy** · 08-31-2017

With the given numbers I would say my choice is 6 BPEL and 5.12 girth.However that`s just my choice from the given numbers.Give another numbers and I am going to take a choice again

**LeafyGreens** · 08-31-2017

I also have an inverse relationship between length and girth. When my length is max, my girth is lower. When girth is max, my length is lower. My theory is that the tunica (the sheath for your cock) stretches more with the extra length and pulls the underlying muscles tighter. When it's not as stretched, the muscles are more free to expand underneath. This is just my guess based on general understanding of the anatomy. My change is not as big as yours, though. About 1/8" variation on girth, and 1/4" in length (typically)

Almost all routines, especially beginner routines, will help you accomplish both. So i don't think you need to choose any time soon which to focus on. If you were consistently PE'ing for a while and often hitting that 5.5" girth mark, i'd say to focus on the length, because...

GENERAL consensus is that 5.5" girth (mid shaft) is where "thick" begins, and it's the beginning of the so-called Goldicocks range (~5.5"-6.0"). This is the range where the girth is big enough to get noticed as being special, but not so large that it starts to become a problems for things like oral, anal, pain for the woman during vaginal, and lost sexual experiences because the girl says you're too big (apparently this really does happen to some guys).

There are lots of factors that affect when girth is too much:
- the girl: how tight, how much natural lubrication, ability to mentally and physically relax, trust, etc
- the style of sex: hard, fast, and deep or more gentle?
- circumcision: generally it seems like uncircumcised men can have more girth before it becomes a problem for vaginal penetration (i guess because the skin slides a bit and reduces direct friction)
- penis shape: are you measuring the mid but your head (first to enter) is much larger?
- foreplay: thicker and longer you are, the more foreplay is needed
- measurement variations: are you measuring in the right place, in the right way? are your measurements a little smaller or larger than they would be during normal sex (either due to measurement anxiety or due to higher eq during masturbation)

But usually guys say that the closer you get to 6"+, the more anal and oral become a big problem. And in some cases it causes problems for vaginal as well. You'll hear some women around here lament that their man got to thick for oral, and they miss it. Or they miss the ability to just have a good quickie, which disappeared when thickness got too large.

Some men at 6" girth report problems. Some say they've never had any problems at all. So so many factors at play.

I'm 7.25 - 7.5" BP length, and it's enough to cause some occasional problems during sex with my wife (and eliminates certain positions like legs near her ears). My girth was originally 5.125" but now around 5.25-5.375" and i've just always been more mentally concerned about it, so girth is my focus, but i still work both.

The nice thing about length is that you can control the depth of penetration if you wish, and I do believe that over time a woman's body can adjust to accommodate most lengths (and girths) up to a certain point. There are occasionally some positions where i wish I had more length. But really I'm just dying to hit 5.75" on girth. I would be really really happy with that.