jelqing question

when you jelq how hard should you actually grab the base and control the blood flow?

today i felt like i was jelqing wrong the whole time cause i really focused on grabbing the base and controling the blood flow which really made my penis look dick. i then stopped early because i felt like i may have been gripping too hard and getting too into it.

before when i jeqled i was really just thinking about stretching my penis with each jelq instead of the blood flow, in fact i really never even noticed the blood control.

do i have the concept right now or is it more of a both thing? do you still want to stretch out on the jelq or is it more of a blood flow thing?

and also how hard can you grip your penis?

It's a blood flow thing and try and be gentle.

It's all explained in the Jelqing link at the top of the page.