Does your perception on size change as your dick gets bigger?

[begreat Member Find all posts View Profile Close begreat]

Does your perception on size change as your dick gets bigger? like what looked big to you before looks normal now. I notice this because I remember watching a video in which the guy has a big dick but now when I watch it again it looks pretty normal.

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

It's called penis dysmorphia...and yeah, it's real....

[mrcjevans Member Find all posts View Profile Close mrcjevans]

I have a biig dick statistically but think it is small, makes me depressed. Sometimes I need to slap myself out of it lol

[6inDongNotForLong Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 6inDongNotForLong]

Does your perception on size change as your dick gets bigger? like what looked big to you before looks normal now. I notice this because I remember watching a video in which the guy has a big dick but now when I watch it again I think it's pretty normal.

This happened for me as well, I watched a video and I had a panic attack, I began telling myself I was worthless and will never be enough or measure up to someone of my girlfriends past. But as my mental health got better, and I began doing PE consistent and feeling better about myself, when I saw that same video again they didn't seem nearly as big.

The mind is a beautiful, but terrible thing.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

Agreed, despite my stats and gains, not to mention my 50 lb weight loss and reduced fat pad, I still gotta small pecker. It doesn’t help either that I’m still smaller than most here, even after my gains. Not to memention the monsters in the photo section. I would tell myself I’m fine with my size but now after so many failed orgasm attempts I wonder. Not her, me, she’s in bliss. Starting to wonder if I’ll ever cum again? I would say if I go over a couple weeks without, I’m doomed to life without orgasm. Not worth living.

[6inDongNotForLong Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 6inDongNotForLong]

Agreed, despite my stats and gains, not to mention my 50 lb weight loss and reduced fat pad, I still gotta small pecker. It doesn’t help either that I’m still smaller than most here, even after my gains. Not to memention the monsters in the photo section. I would tell myself I’m fine with my size but now after so many failed orgasm attempts I wonder. Not her, me, she’s in bliss. Starting to wonder if I’ll ever cum again? I would say if I go over a couple weeks without, I’m doomed to life without orgasm. Not worth living.

Party, I think your inability to orgasm could be anxiety related.
I think you should try having sex without the expectation of orgasm.

Might help!

[thinktank Member Find all posts View Profile Close thinktank]

Party.

Bro, your angst is palpable and I hate angst for you, for me, and for all men. Angst makes us feel so unmanly

Thats the beauty of this site. Men helping men to feel better about themselves. Bro, you are number one in the saddle for your wife and family. Hold your chest out and see all that good and able dick of yours has produced in your life.

Anorgasmia is the pits. If you are not a member of the MMO group, you should join. MMOs reconnect you with your body and how it operates sexually. Feelings of orgasm become so intense that the key is forestalling them and putting them off. Your anorgasmia should go out the window with learning to connect with your body thru MMOs.

Just a suggestion. Your posts show you are a great guy and a caring and feeling guy. Dont let your good dick rule your life and sully who you are because of its dimensions. It has brought you great joy as a boy and a man.

Prayers for your P E journey bro. We are all in process, even the huge hung guys. They have their problems too.

[newbeginning Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close newbeginning]

Agreed, despite my stats and gains, not to mention my 50 lb weight loss and reduced fat pad, I still gotta small pecker. It doesn’t help either that I’m still smaller than most here, even after my gains. Not to memention the monsters in the photo section. I would tell myself I’m fine with my size but now after so many failed orgasm attempts I wonder. Not her, me, she’s in bliss. Starting to wonder if I’ll ever cum again? I would say if I go over a couple weeks without, I’m doomed to life without orgasm. Not worth living.

The orgasm attempts could be a sign that your penis is becoming numb. I know with me, I was going at it for nearly 45 minutes with my partner. I was quite enjoying it at the time actually, but I now feel the reason for that was because without me noticing my penis was becoming numb. I now stopped enlargement exercises for a month, feeling is now returning and I'm not lasting as long.

Now regarding the size penises. I also feel I have a small penis, my partner tells me otherwise. The guys on here are like penis gods that in a way increases anxiety about size even more. Since my injury recovery I feel better mentally. I feel like now "yeah I got a smaller cock but it works, and it works very well" LMAO.. I would prefer a small penis that gets hard than a big dick that just flops. I've seen porn in the past where guys with big dicks are just flopping about where they actually have to hold onto it as it's losing erection. It's ok having a big dick, but what's the point if you can't penetrate with it?

[everydaynormalguy Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close everydaynormalguy]

This condition is 10x worse when it`s about your own penis.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

The orgasm attempts could be a sign that your penis is becoming numb. I know with me, I was going at it for nearly 45 minutes with my partner. I was quite enjoying it at the time actually, but I now feel the reason for that was because without me noticing my penis was becoming numb. I now stopped enlargement exercises for a month, feeling is now returning and I'm not lasting as long.

Now regarding the size penises. I also feel I have a small penis, my partner tells me otherwise. The guys on here are like penis gods that in a way increases anxiety about size even more. Since my injury recovery I feel better mentally. I feel like now "yeah I got a smaller cock but it works, and it works very well" LMAO.. I would prefer a small penis that gets hard than a big dick that just flops. I've seen porn in the past where guys with big dicks are just flopping about where they actually have to hold onto it as it's losing erection. It's ok having a big dick, but what's the point if you can't penetrate with it?

Well i am 56 and have a partially destroyed Frenulum, thanks Andro Gold. But it was really her disinterest in my dick that has sent me to a bad place. I suggest something, ugh, I’m not doin that. Doesn’t wanna ride me, won’t suck me off, when it may now be the only option to cum again. Oh well, so sad, for me I guess. But she claims to love me and my pathetic cock. Sucks to be me.

[everydaynormalguy Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close everydaynormalguy]

" like what looked big to you before looks normal now."

- that`s a very interesting question.If I am simply used to my new size and looks normal to me...or if I can go back in time and suddenly add this size,if it`s going to look big then or simply I don`t find that size "big" in general.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

Party, I think your inability to orgasm could be anxiety related.
I think you should try having sex without the expectation of orgasm.


Might help!

oh, well I’ve done this many times, and I usually can’t get there, but I have called those, “All about her days”. Lots of vibrater, tongue, rim job, I actually thinksbshe prefers them. No stress about mine. LOL, but that’s always the case I learned from the last time.

[6inDongNotForLong Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 6inDongNotForLong]

Well i am 56 and have a partially destroyed Frenulum, thanks Andro Gold. But it was really her disinterest in my dick that has sent me to a bad place. I suggest something, ugh, I’m not doin that. Doesn’t wanna ride me, won’t suck me off, when it may now be the only option to cum again. Oh well, so sad, for me I guess. But she claims to love me and my pathetic cock. Sucks to be me.

Party, sex is supposed to be for the both of you.
I suggest you talk to her and let her know that you're going out of your way to meet her needs, and she isn't returning that respect.

I'm sure you've already done this, but as it seems, she's deciding that sex is all about her and isn't taking an interest in whether or not you feel good. That's not fair at all.

I say don't pound and pound, I say have sex with her and just do angles, ect. that feel good for you, and don't worry about her pleasure. Especially if you're always just making her feel good.

You deserve to feel nice too.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

" like what looked big to you before looks normal now."

- that`s a very interesting question.If I am simply used to my new size and looks normal to me...or if I can go back in time and suddenly add this size,if it`s going to look big then or simply I don`t find that size "big" in general.

LOL, yes. I recommend any Newbie to get a Clone aWilly Kit. I did. I do have starting pics for comparison, but nothing better than holding a 3D replica of your old package next to your new Manhood.

[Undead Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Undead]

Well i am 56 and have a partially destroyed Frenulum, thanks Andro Gold. But it was really her disinterest in my dick that has sent me to a bad place. I suggest something, ugh, I’m not doin that. Doesn’t wanna ride me, won’t suck me off, when it may now be the only option to cum again. Oh well, so sad, for me I guess. But she claims to love me and my pathetic cock. Sucks to be me.

Dude you put yourself down to that level.Your at the same size i was before p.e. im 4.8 inches in girth right now and honestly yeah i wish it was bigger but i also wish my brain wouldnt be so weak at times. Its that kind of weakness that reminds me that what i need to work on is my mentality not penis size. that might come in the future or might not who knows. Reality is a man as a man for what he is not for what his dick makes him.