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  • How to reverse girth gains?

    I know what you’re thinking: “why the shit would anyone want to reverse their gains?”
    When I was around the age of 20 I was very insecure and felt like I needed a bigger dick to validate myself and be more attractive to women. After thousands of jelques, squeezes, time inside tubes, and a damaged vein I managed to gain a quarter inch of girth. (no matter what I did I couldn’t gain length.)
    Fast forward many years and I’m married and have long forgotten about any desire for a bigger dick. Wife doesn’t care and I don’t care. But 2 consecutive traumatic life events triggered underlying obsessive compulsive disorder to become symptomatic and ever since then it’s been a struggle to live with intrusive thoughts, worry and anxiety.
    I can’t help but think that being on the receiving end of oral would be better if my dick were thinner again considering my wife’s mouth is tiny and even more so I just can’t stand the fact that I permanently altered myself and it makes me feel a lack of control over myself and my life. Ridiculous sounding I know, but that’s ocd for you. So my question is: is there any way I can purposely lose the quarter inch of girth I gained?

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    I doubt it. I think a counselor is a better option.

    What I don't understand is you say you and your wife don't care, but then you want to reverse your gains. Something isn't adding up here.
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    • #3
      Counseling has helped with the ocd in general but I have to admit that curiosity in this specific case got me thinking if this was possible as well. When I said wife and I don’t care, what I meant was I have no interest in having a giant dick and she doesn’t either. Thanks for the reply though.

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      • #4
        Are you 100% sure that you're gonna be okay with seeing yourself with a smaller dick? You say that your wife has a tiny mouth, but you also gotta take into account that she's gotten use to you having a certain level of girth, so she may feel a difference and it might not be a positive one. How long has it been since you've done PE? That would be great info for those who want to know if their gains are permanent. Just asking for a friend!

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        • #5
          Wow, feeling a bit blunt right now. I think contentment is a thing to behold! Look for it!
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          • #6
            How big is your penis? Both length and girth?

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            • #7
              I started pe somewhere around 15 years ago, ocd became symptomatic about 5 years ago and the thing that really kickstarted the girth was dry pumping with a homemade cylinder.

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              • #8
                How do you know this wasn't a natural gain? You was 20 years old, you might of still be growing. Some don't stop growing naturally until they were about 21 years old. Some stop growing at 14, some at 17, some at 21. You might of stopped at 20 years old. It might just be a coincidence that you got your gains when doing PE, when the truth is you was destined to of got that gain anyway.

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                • #9
                  I thought of that before but considering I began puberty at 9, had chest hair by the time I was 15 and started losing my hair around 20 I think any body changes regarding penis size would have happened long ago. I Could be wrong though.

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Josh5533 View Post
                    I thought of that before but considering I began puberty at 9, had chest hair by the time I was 15 and started losing my hair around 20 I think any body changes regarding penis size would have happened long ago. I Could be wrong though.
                    Puberty is strange. Some people stop growing at a young age, but penis length keeps on growing until like they're 21, which is probably why some short guys are very endowed, and vice-versa. Chances are the gains you had were most likely natural, which is why I wouldn't kick yourself about it.

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                    • #11
                      I think you need counseling my guy. There's nothing wrong with having a larger girth, matter fact everyone on this website spends so much time and effort looking to increase their length and girth. I think you need to be more grateful and content with what you have and not over think it. Definitely see a therapist for the mental health issues those aren't a joke.

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                      • #12
                        I have been for a while. It’s just much less awkward to bring up this topic with a group of guys who know the ins and outs of pe than a woman who could never really understand the insecurities of penis ownership.

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by Josh5533 View Post
                          I just can’t stand the fact that I permanently altered myself and it makes me feel a lack of control over myself and my life.
                          Wouldn't it be more reasonable to view your days of PE as you actually taking control over yourself? You wanted a bigger penis, and you got one, by your own accord. That doesn't equate to 'lack of control'.

                          Unfortunately, I can't give you any advice on achieving a thinner penis. Might be better to have your wife work on her jaw flexibility.

                          Even though you don't care about the mental side of having a big penis anymore, and feel that blowjobs would be better with a smaller size, have you thought about the possibility of losing some pleasure from PIV sex?
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                          • #14
                            Man. I reckon you should just stretch it like mad. You may find the opposite of what expect will hell for your anxiety.

                            Maybe doing a length only routine may reduce girth through stretching and if it doest, so what? You'll have a bigger dick.
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                            • #15
                              What we all have to understand is that not everyone wants to get bigger. I remember reading this story of this guy who was depressed because his penis was just too big. Every relationship he had ended because of his large penis. I think he said he was like 10 inches. Anyway at breaking point he ordered an escort, and even the escort refused to have sex with him. All of us men want to have a really big dick, but it's not us who's got to take it LOL.

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