4.5 inch girth? Should I forget about women?

[hopeoneday]

I gave my gf her first vaginal orgasm with my girth. Also I know some positions that make my unit feel girthier so I use them. It gets the job done, that's for sure

Nice. Did you have any problems with regular condoms as other fellow members said?

[Sticke]

Nice. Did you have any problems with regular condoms as other fellow members said?

Regulars in my country are 56mm I use 52-53mm which is the standard in most countries and I am totally fine. Need motivation to get some gains, but I am not interested at the moment.

[Big Al]

Your girth is statistically within the average range even if at the lower end of that. Your length above average.

You beat me to it!

[TBE]

I understand your anxiety about your size. There can be a naked girl standing in front of me trying to have sex with me yet i cant get hard because i know she will only enjoy girthy dick.
Just gotta believe in better future. Gains will come.

[thickpump]

I'm 4.5' below the gland and this drops to 4.2 around the base. My experience with multiple girls has been underwhelming. Hence I'm here. I'm not the slickest when it comes to women but some that I've been with kept a straight face and didn't even attempt to make noise when I am in them. A minority number have orgasms with me, but for the seeming majority, I am just too thin.

If you are like me, you know that in spite of all these positive comments on here to sooth your insecurity, you are still a little insecure about it. The truth - from another one similar to your size and probably have more experience, - is that our girth is a disadvantage when it comes to sex.

THis should motivate you to be bigger. Let your insecurity work for you. It ain't easy to jelq/pe on a disciplined schedule, especially if you have a life outside of this stuff. So use that extra motivation to work in your favor. I have. and I'm hoping to share my gains in the future

[tank0909]

It's not a disadvantage at all. You just have to know how to use it. Do some research into what techniques/positions/angles/etc to use so your partner gets the most out of what you're packing. Playing into their emotional side can help quite a bit, too. Just don't overdo it or it's a turn-off, depending on the girl, and don't use it in a manipulative manner or take advantage of them.

Insecurity is something that gets easily and deeply ingrained into our thought processes and has a negative effect on other aspects of life. But, like thickpump said, you can certainly use it to motivate yourself in whatever you choose to. After a while, it doesn't affect you as much anymore and you can start enjoying things again.

[Party]

OP. Can’t believe I didn’t see this thread earlier, anyway. I’m 4.5 aswell girth wise and have never had an issue getting the Mrs off, multiple times. Don’t stress.

[wcramblitt]

Interesting read on average length. There are a couple of charts that show what women want: <link removed>

As you can see on the second chart, most women can be satisfied with a smaller penis, it is just that a larger one is more ideal.

[ACPreE]

I'v been with my GF for going on 5 years now and my size has never been an issue. I'm 6' 4.5' and have left her scratching my back and shaking. If you learn how to use it you have nothing to be worry about. I haven't had the most experience as iv always been reserved. When i met my GF I was afraid because she was obviously out of my league. I was afraid that what if my penis was too small and i sucked in bed. I psyched myself out and when we first had sex she came twice and was surprised that I was as good as i was.

Think the moral of the story is, we are our biggest critic right? If we just get out of our own head we may even surprise ourselves.

Convince yourself that you can fuck the shit out of her regardless of your size and you will.

[Azmike]

Great response. OP-you should read this post more than once and follow his advice.

QUOTE=ACPreE;1574644]I'v been with my GF for going on 5 years now and my size has never been an issue. I'm 6' 4.5' and have left her scratching my back and shaking. If you learn how to use it you have nothing to be worry about. I haven't had the most experience as iv always been reserved. When i met my GF I was afraid because she was obviously out of my league. I was afraid that what if my penis was too small and i sucked in bed. I psyched myself out and when we first had sex she came twice and was surprised that I was as good as i was.

Think the moral of the story is, we are our biggest critic right? If we just get out of our own head we may even surprise ourselves.

Convince yourself that you can fuck the shit out of her regardless of your size and you will.[/QUOTE]