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  • Porn-induced desire to grow cock?

    If we were to examine our true motivations for enhancing cock, if we momentarily set aside the added size, confidence, increased stamina, better EQ and improved pleasure for the partner (assuming she would appreciate larger)... would we trace it back to porn's influence?

    I remember a time (before I had ever seen porn - in late teens), that size was never a concern to me. And yet since being exposed to porn and the bigger guys that are inevitably part of the industry and amateur scene, wanting a slightly bigger cock has slowly infiltrated in my mind as something worthy of a goal to achieve. I have been trying to stay away from porn, and am now resolute to eliminate it (it's actually quite toxic). And yet, in the back of my mind, I desire the enhancement, as a way to sexually self-actualize and feel more confident approaching women, if that makes any sense...

    I'm just wondering at this stage whether PE is a true goal for us, or if upon closer look it's a goal stemming from porn's brainwash. Any of you having thought or struggled with this issue?

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    All throughout history, size has been synonymous with manliness. I think that feeling would still be there for most if porn didn't exist, but maybe not as significant. I do agree with you that porn damages self-image quite a bit, among other things. It did effect how I saw myself and my self-esteem, but I came to accept my size and learned how to use it and other tricks to satisfy women. Now, my goal is to become the ideal size for my wife. She has a dildo she says is the perfect size for her and it's not much bigger than I am now... so of course I'm trying to greatly surpass that. haha.

    One thing that helped me discount the "bigger is better" argument is porn, actually. If you watch the women, you see them constantly putting their hands up to stop the guys from going deeper. Sometimes you see them wince in pain.
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    • #3
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      • #4
        Not so much Porn in my case. I always viewed porn AS a fantasy. Just like regular entertainment Movies.

        For me it started out more of a thing with womans expressed desires and idolizing of big guys. If its real or «Locker room talk» (in lack of better and less overused expression) does not matter. Its a real thing. Just like other physical attributes like six pack etc.

        I do realize that it is not as important in a long term relationships. And i do it mostly for my own sake now. Just like going to the gym.
        Start 5.8 (14.9 cm) BPEL 5.2 MEG

        Now: 7 .9 (20 cm ) BPEL 5.3 MEG

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        • #5
          Actually this has varied historically in Rome a smaller penis was more desired.

          I do think it is a social pressure thing of which porn is only part.

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          • #6
            Yup, correct. In many of the ancient cultures this was so. Ever see a naked male statue in museums with a big schlong? Never, always tiny.

            Originally posted by Pegasus View Post
            Actually this has varied historically in Rome a smaller penis was more desired.

            I do think it is a social pressure thing of which porn is only part.
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            • #7
              Ah. Well then, I learned something new today.

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              • #8
                Originally posted by Pegasus View Post
                Actually this has varied historically in Rome a smaller penis was more desired.

                I do think it is a social pressure thing of which porn is only part.
                Interesting. Do you know why that was the case in ancient Rome?

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                • #9
                  The romans regarded a large penis as rather comic.

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by tank0909 View Post
                    All throughout history, size has been synonymous with manliness.
                    Just that sometimes a smaller penis was perceived as manlier.

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                    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_...size#Antiquity

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                    • #11
                      Personally for me I think it's a mixture of porn and a desire to be the best (in bed) that I can be.

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                      • #12
                        I can think of no greater motivation than the darkness of porn.
                        "I will lick my dick"

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by Pegasus View Post
                          The romans regarded a large penis as rather comic.
                          Until the barbarian invaders came with their hung weapons of war!
                          "I will lick my dick"

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                          • #14
                            Porn had nothing do with my choice...
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                            Initial 1/5/18
                            BPEL: 6.75-7"
                            EG: 5.25- 5.5
                            results 9/10/18
                            BPEL 22.22 cm - 8.75 in
                            EG 5.75 mid girth and 6.12 base.

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by Pegasus View Post
                              The romans regarded a large penis as rather comic.
                              I like to think I'm pretty funny, but I'm trying to become utterly hilarious.
                              Original/Current Stats:
                              2014-09-01: BPEL 6.8"/NBPEL 6" MEG 5.0", BPFL 5"/NBPFL 4" FG 4.4"
                              2019-03-16: BPEL 8"/NBPEL 6.75" MEG 5.2", BPFL 6.75"/NBPFL 5.5" FG 4.5"

                              Goals:
                              Realistic: BPEL 8.5"/NBPEL 7.5" MEG 5.5"
                              Optimistic: BPEL 9"/NBPEL 8" MEG 5.75"
                              Dream: BPEL 10"/NBPEL 9" MEG 6.5"

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