is 7" really above average?

[going411by7]

Here is my take: females respond to a guy with a big smile, well groomed, and confident, who treats them with respect. If working out at the gym, or working on making his cock
longer and thicker, gives him more confidence, so be it. A good income is always a plus. Last comes his bulge, which many females just naturally check out. My experience has been that thicker is better than longer, and that most p.e. exercises,with or without "gadgets," will result in a larger girth for most men. Girth is where it's at, guys. Most women want to feel "filled up," and that comes from a larger girth.

But there are so many ways to please a woman, sexually. In an open and honest relationship, the woman will let you know how to please her; so focus on her and"tune in" to her sexual needs.

p.s. My tongue and lips worked best in bringing my lady to orgasm.

[Pegasus]

What is the the first question a woman asks ? Is it how fat is your cock ? Is it how long is your cock ? Can you fuck for an hour.? Is it do you have a good set of abs ? Is it can you flex your chest for me ?

No. Hmm bet it is some variant of a money/status question.

So for instance the number 1 status money question is "What do you do ? " So this gets direct to income education and the like a good solid money status question and so mainstream it is regarded as normal . If a guy asked the equevilant "Do you go like a threshing machine in bed "it would be uncouth.
Of course lots of others about where you live went to school yadayada and they will be checking the car you drive etc etc .

[Ultimate Burrito]

Truck man, I drive a truck.

[Johnny D]

Women don't notice the bulge unless it's something out of the ordinary (and then they're just thinking, "eww"). They aren't checking out bulges - ask them. I have and the answer is always the same; "Never". It's just a male misconception that's made from viewing the world through our own lenses. Men check out women's body parts and are turned on by them so assume that the same must be true of women. Perhaps your partner might be turned on by your package but that's because you're attached to it. They're not turned on by, or even interested in looking at, other guy's packages. Perhaps there's a woman or two out there as the exception to this, but they'd be a very rare exception. If a good looking woman shows you her tits, you'll be turned on almost instantly. If you show a woman your dick, you'll be kicked in the sack and subsequently put in cuffs. The things that make men tick just aren't the same with women. The belief that women are checking out bulges is a man's mistaken fantasy. Sorry.

[Hailtotheburrito]

Going by that previous mentioned study where women held the fake dick. They picked 6.4 inches for a one night stand and 6.3 for long term. Basically the same thing. But this would equate to 7-7.4 BPEL assuming a .5 to 1 inch fat pad because some of our dick is hidden from view when we bone pressed measure. So I think a goal of 7.4 ish BPEL would be considered ideal if this study translates to what they like. So assuming what they like is above average the girl will be happy to see you if you can bone press this much just like they probably giggled and smiled when fondling the fake dicks.
This would seem to corroborate what ultimate burrito has experienced during his escapades . And it probably won’t matter to me because I’m going big or I’m going home!

[Hailtotheburrito]

Oh yeah as I mentioned in my log I was messing around with a beautiful black girl with huge e tits back in the day and she proudly told me she only fucks 7 inch dicks or larger. I’m assuming this is based on toys. I know this is one example but if you saw this girl you’d start working on that 7 inch dick. . But she thought that was an impressive size so if it’s good enough for her....

[Phoenix7672]

Personally don't think that dildo size study can be directly translated to either NBPEL or BPEL. Sure, they picked around a 6.4" blue cylindrical dildo, but they would have been holding it/touching it, and in that way it would be closer to BPEL as at least part of the fat pad compresses easily.

Also don't forget as bone pressed is largely useable length, they were also choosing what they'd want inside them. Still feel most were actually picking in the 6-7" range, with one nighters being slightly longer and thicker (but still much much less than our ideals here).

[Nightforce]

One could also postulate that when the women were handling the fake phallus' the length they were perceiving they wanted inside of them was from where they were holding it to the tip, not stuffing the entire dildo inside of them. Maybe a refinement to that study would be to create a base on the models so women would have a reference point. I also think that study would have been quite a bit more useful if it had many more women involved, 75 isn't much of a study group.

However, with all that said including my own speculation, one thing is for sure, those women didn't choose 8" plus or 6"+ girth, they chose very reasonable size penis' which are only slightly above average found by many many penis size studies. Either way you look at it, yes, 7" is quite a bit above average based on just about every study done, even the inherently unreliable "self reported" studies, combined with the blue penis study, at 6.4" max desired length, 7" is still above that.

[Ultimate Burrito]

Having a big dick is standard, what the ladies really love is a big dick with features. For example, I get a lot of comments on how great my upward curve feels but the number one comment I get is how good the thickness of my cock head feels. They say the can feel the ridge of the head everywhere and a few have said that my cock was shaped like their favorite sex toy.

[megastan]

so can we get a poll of cock?
lol
so we can actually track overall progress in this forum since people know how to measure properly and consistently here

we can get a lot better results and a lot more people than those studies selecting random dudes who have no idea what they are doing