Thoughts on Desensitization

[hardcor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hardcor]

Hello,
I’m 26 and attractive. I feel horrible when I get opportunities to smash chicks and have to turn them down.
I’m a decent size 7 inches long and 6in thick base, 5.5in mid shaft and 4.5-5inch upper shaft/head.

I’m currently working on my arousal/ejaculation control. I bought a fleshlight and used it for several months and have not seen any results.
I’m going to start ballooning.
I’ve read that touching my sensitive areas for 20-30 minute straight for a few months (1day on/off) will completely rid of my PE.
What are your thoughts on this?

P.S. No porn at all

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

Why are you restricting yourself from sexual contact? Having a trusted partner to work with is the best way to speed up progress.

Instead of traditional edging/Stop and Starts, perform the "reverse" Stop and Starts to decrease your time to the PONR. The Reverse Stop and Starts is performed using an extremely light grip and attempt to ejaculate as quickly as possible. That should help to reset your sensory threshold.

Caution- it won't take many of these sessions to reset your sensory threshold!

[hardcor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hardcor]

Chief,
My issue is with PE , not DE

[anderkl Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close anderkl]

How do you think not having sex will help with cumming too fast during sex hahaha? Just tell them you cum fast and to let give you 10 minutes to get it back up after round 1.

[hardcor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hardcor]

How do you think not having sex will help with cumming too fast during sex hahaha? Just tell them you cum fast and to let give you 10 minutes to get it back up after round 1.

Lol Tell her my issue so she could have pity on me?
Sounds like an L waiting to happen

[TeoDeles Senior Member Member of the Month July 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close TeoDeles]

Wrong mindset. Its all in your head.
No girl will feel pity of you if she likes you.

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

Chief,
My issue is with PE , not DE

My apologies! My eyes aren't like they use to be!

The following should be of interest to you: "Extreme Stop and Starts" for Premature Ejaculation

[hardcor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hardcor]

Wrong mindset. Its all in your head.
No girl will feel pity of you if she likes you.

Are you serious? What girl wants to deal with a minute man?
She’ll feel like she wasted her time

[hardcor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hardcor]

My apologies! My eyes aren't like the use to be!

The following should be of interest to you: "Extreme Stop and Starts" for Premature Ejaculation

It’s all good
Thanks boss

[TeoDeles Senior Member Member of the Month July 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close TeoDeles]

Imo having this mindset will never unblock you in order to fix your problem.
Stress of these thoughts are the 1st thing you have to eleminate.

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

It’s all good
Thanks boss

Glad to help!

[hardcor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hardcor]

Imo having this mindset will never unblock you in order to fix your problem.
Stress of these thoughts are the 1st thing you have to eleminate.

There is no stress. This is not “mindset“. Just reality. I’m not entertaining hot chicks with a 1 minute penis. Hot chicks can score any guy they want and they usually pick the guy who gives them the best dick.
Maybe average chicks or below chicks would put up with it lol
Therefore, I respectfully disagree.

Hot chicks want big, durable dicks
And that’s what I want to give them

Anyways,
Let’s focus on answering the question guys:

“I’m going to start ballooning.
I’ve read that touching my sensitive areas for 20-30 minute straight for a few months (1day on/off) will completely rid of my PE.
What are your thoughts on this?”

[TeoDeles Senior Member Member of the Month July 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close TeoDeles]

Before starting PE to gain size I had an average length and below average girth dick.
I am 37yo looking like 28 yo involved in Body building from the age of 18.
I am very handsome with brutal face and great body and I have had sex with 40 women all of them sexy as fuck.
I could stay hard and have sex for more than 3h but my size was not big(you are bigger) and all of them had the best and most orgasms with me than other men with huge dicks.
You see? Its not only the size or the duration and stuff. Its also how much the women like you.
That s why I am telling you you are beating yourself without reason.
Yes now that my dick is a lot thicker and a little longer is better ... but what I am saying is that none of them told me to end up with me.
On the contrary they were full in love with me and they were chasing me for sex.
That s why I am telling you that you have to alter your mindset cause you have it all wrong.
I can t help you with how to last longer as I never had this prob.

Yes I am with you on the trying to last longer. But don t stress yourself cause its making your thing worst.

[anderkl Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close anderkl]

Are you serious? What girl wants to deal with a minute man?
She’ll feel like she wasted her time

Dude most men cum fast as crap anyways. You really think every other dude she's slept with has hit for 30+ minutes? You sound young or seriously sheltered, no insults, but the truth. Just go the first round, cum, tell her its been a minute, and get it back up and go again. Either listen to the advice here or stop replying and wasting the thread on foolishness.

[hardcor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hardcor]

Dude most men cum fast as crap anyways. You really think every other dude she's slept with has hit for 30+ minutes? You sound young or seriously sheltered, no insults, but the truth. Just go the first round, cum, tell her its been a minute, and get it back up and go again. Either listen to the advice here or stop replying and wasting the thread on foolishness.

That’s lame advice dude.
What I think you don’t understand is that I’ve been there and I’ve done that. I don’t like doing that weak crap. It’s embarrassing.
I want to learn how to improve my stamina, if you can’t help with that then stop wasting everyone’s time by replying. No disrespect.

Oh and News flash: Women don’t like “most men”
You ever heard 20% of the men are smashing 80% of the women?
Yeah that’s because women would rather share a man then settle for one who can’t last.