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  • Feeling cursed and hopeless with my small penis

    Just need somewhere to vent, I’ve been really hopeless lately thinking about my small penis. I’m talking to a girl currently but I’m scared to even go sexual with her because of my size

    My flaccid is laughable as I’m 1 inch flaccid and my erect is a small 4.75 inches.

    I’m just curious, for someone in my shoes who is small, what’s the best options for me? Should I just stop talking to this girl and remain single? I don’t want to disappoint her, and if it gets sexual, I’m sure she’s going to stop talking to me when she finds out I’m small down there.

    This really sucks because I’m attracted to the girl, I have heard surgery is a bad option, and I’m just stuck and miserable at the moment

    I can’t really do manual work because my flaccid is small. I guess I just need someone to give me options with the girl, because I already like her a lot but my manhood is small

    Why did this happen to me? I got fukked over by my genes

  • #2
    It appears you are only talking with yourself.

    My general advice to those who are only debating the issue with themselves, I offer this as a start.

    You seem to need a front end alignment, your brain vehicle is tending to veer off sharply, to the negative side of life's road.


    Begin practicing 'Equal Opportunity Balanced Thinking' ( EOBT ).
    When you catch yourself creating a negative thought,
    “what if I can’t get hard, what if I can’t please another ??"


    Then counter balance that with an opposing positive thought,
    "I can and will get hard, we are going to Rock it !"


    You owe it to yourself to practice balance in your thinking !


    On self control
    Think of your ability for self control like this -


    Picture inside your brain, a mental steering wheel, like one in an automobile.
    Now picture yourself as two hands on that Steering wheel.
    OK, good, your now in control over steering your brain and your thinking.
    You get to decide and steer your brain.


    If going in one direction doesn't work; then steer in another direction.


    Feel lost at times ? That happens with all of us. It is ok to ask for help, directions, a push and then resume steering.


    Congratulations ! You're in control. Stay on the road and 'keep it between the ditches'.

    So, see where you can begin thinking yourself out of that OneWay only trap.
    Valued Member of 11 years at the TheBiohacker
    Looks are deceiving, mirrors don't lie.

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    • #3
      I was about your size. She never complained. Up stroke her G spot. You’ll be fine
      A prayer, is kinda the same as a "Like". If there are enough likes, God will take notice. So "Like" away please. My daughter needs your prayers. Thank You.

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      • #4
        Hey 2000 - looks like you have been here for around a month now, don't know how long you lurked before joining. By now, we hope you have spent some time reviewing this site and read numerous success stories of members who were in similar circumstances to you. So, stop with the "woe is me" and move on to the positive, how can I get there and what do I need to do. Lots and lots of information here for free, live human beings to have chats with to discuss routines and bounce ideas off of. I hope that you didn't join this community to make a couple of posts and move on. There is much more to this site than that, we are a big family here, lots of awesome characters, and some pretty cool dudes on top of it. Grab a beer, settle in, and lets all start a conversation to get you where you need to be without surgery.

        if you haven't already, click on the START HERE button which is located upper left in the main forums, or located in the stickies in the beginner forums if accessing on a mobile device. Give us a committment to your dedicated time and effort and we will show you the way to put your problem behind you. There is no cost, only your time and desire to change what you have and see where it goes. Mind you, this takes time, so don't get frustrated. Start a PE program, start a log of your daily activities and let the community guide you to your goals.

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        • #5
          4. 75 bone pressed length or non ?

          Regardless I started at let's say 6.5 bpel and biggest I measured is 6. 75 and I know I'm small compared to some guys

          I'm seen showers in the �� showers and they looked at least 6 inches hanging there

          Maybe I overestimated or maybe not but what I saw I had no idea

          I've also seen one that looked super small like almost a female whos used steroids clit only fatter and wrinkle and it was quite small would be an understatement

          Anyways, manual will work, grab what you can and pull slightly or more depending on certain factors like if your erection quality goes down, may need to ease up, or I like to use manual stretching in the shower or at the end of a hanging set

          I recommend hanging starting light and manual stretching

          I did the whole beginner routine jelqing many, many hours and stretching, and don't know if I grew from it, I had a pumping routine I did for at least six months , sometimes every day, sometimes every other day

          I recommend starting hanging if length is your goal and I think starting with two pounds is enough to condition your penis and slowly work up in weight, s-l-o-w-l-y
          PEispossible
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          Last edited by PEispossible; 04-06-2020, 03:19 AM.
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          • #6
            Oh and you're not cursed, like my girlfriend says you can't churn butter with a toothpick, but you can work in enlarging your penis
            PEispossible
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            Last edited by PEispossible; 04-06-2020, 03:21 AM.
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            • #7
              Originally posted by PEispossible View Post
              4. 75 bone pressed length or non ?

              Regardless I started at let's say 6.5 bpel and biggest I measured is 6. 75 and I know I'm small compared to some guys

              I'm seen showers in the  showers and they looked at least 6 inches hanging there

              Maybe I overestimated or maybe not but what I saw I had no idea

              I've also seen one that looked super small like almost a clot

              Anyways manual will work

              I recommend hanging starting light and manual stretching

              I did the whole beginner routine jelqing many many hours and stretching, and don't know if I grew from it so I recommend starting hanging if length is your goal
              Average flacid is circa 3.5" sounds like you may have a head issue.

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              • #8
                Get into devices n shet

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                • #9
                  Welcome to the forum.

                  Over the past couple of years I've seen guys here your size make big diffences to the size of there units, using devices and manuals.

                  There's already a lot of good advice in the thread so I'll just give you one more, just to help you see that there are many options for you to grow a bigger unit.

                  For what it's worth I think Peispispossible's hanging advice is good to go. Also you could easily do manuals as you don't have to work with a totally flaccid unit.

                  One from me - buy a pump that fits. This would be a beginner set up.

                  Pump for 5 mins(go in at 100% erect, don't pump too hard)

                  This will allow your penis to be engorged, it will also pull your penis out from the base.
                  After five mins come out of the pump. Give your penis a few minuets to settle down, so it's still fat and long, but not erect.
                  Then grab it bellow the head and stretch it straight down for 30 second, rest stretch to the left 30secs,to the right 30 seconds and then straight up(towards belly button and finally straight out 30 seconds.

                  Then after that treat yourself to a wank, just make sure you don't cum for 5-10 mins.

                  At first you might not be able to get through all the stretched before you unit goes limp and starts to protract to your normal flaccid. This is OK, just zip up and put it away, keep practicing day by day and eventually you'll get through it.

                  Start a log here and we'll all chip in with advice to get you through it.
                  https://www.pegym.com/forums/progres...bulge-log.html


                  Start - 20/05/18.

                  BPEL - 6.75
                  EG - 5.00

                  Current stats.

                  25/4/20 BPEL - 8.35 "
                  EG - 5.7 "

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Pegasus View Post
                    Average flacid is circa 3.5" sounds like you may have a head issue.
                    it sounds like I have a head issue because ive seen a big hanging floppy dick and didn't know dicks like that existed until I saw it at fourteen years old when I was forced to shower with teen males in a adolescent center?

                    I just thought itd be nice to have a bigger dick, thats why Im here and doing penis enlargement

                    If you dont have a dick situation, why are you here?

                    Please refrain from your constructive criticism, I know you may be trying to help and you are probably right I probably do have head issues.

                    whats average flaccid have to do with anything?

                    Is it that average flaccid when its cold outside or when its in the summer when things seem to hang more ?
                    PEispossible
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                    Last edited by PEispossible; 04-06-2020, 03:37 AM.
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                    • #11
                      My flaccid was very small before too. I would start off with some manual, directional stretching (ie. 30 seconds each way: left, right, up, down, out). Try this daily for a month and pick up a cheap penis extender from Ebay and start clocking in some serious hours. Probably also start the JP90 program.

                      Like I said my flaccid was very small as well. PE will help tremendously in keeping your flaccid long & full.
                      Start: 5/28/2019 BPEL - 6.25, EG - 4.75
                      Current:10/1/2021 BPEL - 7.5, EG - 5.625

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                      • #12
                        My flaccids been super small when adrenaline is going or it's cold

                        Peg you sent me a messagesaying I said the average dick is six, where did I say that?


                        I'm all for helping that's why I'm here and that's why I recommend hanging
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                        • #13
                          Alright first off. The best way to satisfy your girl is to learn how to eat her pussy. Doesn't matter how big you are.

                          I was always worried about the size of my dick until I met my wife. I never really went down on women previously because I was always worried about STDs. But with her I just didn't care. Once I got the hang of it, I was never concerned about the size of my dick.

                          Now I enjoy eating her more than I do having sex.

                          Secondly, when I was in high school I was very small. Then around sophomore or Junior year I started reading about the arabian jelqing and started doing that. I injured myself many times mainly due to my low self confidence causing me to be impatient and over aggressive. Nonetheless. I made some gains from the low 5s to upper 5s, then low 6s. I pretty much stopped doing it in college and restarted in 2009.

                          I was a lot less self conscious once I left college. Though most of that revolved around my thought that I wasn't small anymore, but I was still self conscious. I was still afraid to ask out a really tall woman because I thought I couldn't please her.

                          My point is you can't let your fears control you. Just eat her pussy and fuck her hard and you'll please her. And stop watching porn. That fucks you up in the head. Real sex isn't like porn.

                          If you really want to make your dick bigger, start the JP90 routine. If you decide you like PE, get an inexpensive extender to start.


                          If you really like extending, buy the phallosan it's a lot more comfortable. Just remember that the most pleasure any man is going to give most women is eating her pussy. If you get to know your lover well and you are good at it, you can tell when she's close and you can edge the crap out of her.

                          There's a whole bunch of different techniques, the key to sex is communication.

                          I really can't guide you through having sex when it's small, because I had already enlarged it to above average size by the time I had sex. I can tell you that my view of my penis along with my stuttering delayed losing my virginity into my 20s.

                          If there's a girl you like and would date long term, just take it slow and learn to munch on it. If you think PE is worth a shot, then try it, but be patient. I've been doing it for 15-20 years and I had so many injuries when I was younger because I was impatient.
                          Pegasus
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                          Last edited by Pegasus; 04-08-2020, 01:19 AM.
                          My Scientific Theory on PE
                          https://www.pegym.com/forums/penis-e...ma-theory.html

                          Date BPFSL-BPEL-MEG-BEG
                          6/09 6.50-6.25-4.8-5.1
                          2/10 7.2-6.75-5.2-5.6
                          8/10 7.1-6.9
                          7/12 7.4-7.0-5.3-5.6
                          7/13 7.6-7.2-5.4-5.7
                          10/16 7.8-7.3
                          4/20 8.25-7.75-5.8-6.2
                          3/22 8.5-8.1-5.7-6.0

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                          • #14
                            Also most studies show that the average penis is between 5.0 and 5.5 inches plus or minus an inch. So your 4.75 is actually quite normal. It's just on the lower end. We have a very warped few of penis size nowadays due to pornography. Most of the really big pornstars claim 9-11 inches, but are really just 7-9. It's all camera angles and girls that are 4'11" and weigh 80-90 lbs.
                            My Scientific Theory on PE
                            https://www.pegym.com/forums/penis-e...ma-theory.html

                            Date BPFSL-BPEL-MEG-BEG
                            6/09 6.50-6.25-4.8-5.1
                            2/10 7.2-6.75-5.2-5.6
                            8/10 7.1-6.9
                            7/12 7.4-7.0-5.3-5.6
                            7/13 7.6-7.2-5.4-5.7
                            10/16 7.8-7.3
                            4/20 8.25-7.75-5.8-6.2
                            3/22 8.5-8.1-5.7-6.0

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by DryJelq View Post
                              Alright first off. The best way to satisfy your girl is to learn how to eat her pussy. Doesn't matter how big you are.

                              I was always worried about the size of my dick until I met my wife. I never really went down on women previously because I was always worried about STDs. But with her I just didn't care. Once I got the hang of it, I was never concerned about the size of my dick.

                              Now I enjoy eating her more than I do having sex.

                              Secondly, when I was in high school I was very small. Then around sophomore or Junior year I started reading about the arabian jelqing and started doing that. I injured myself many times mainly due to my low self confidence causing me to be impatient and over aggressive. Nonetheless. I made some gains from the low 5s to upper 5s, then low 6s. I pretty much stopped doing it in college and restarted in 2009.

                              I was a lot less self conscious once I left college. Though most of that revolved around my thought that I wasn't small anymore, but I was still self conscious. I was still afraid to ask out a really tall woman because I thought I couldn't please her.

                              My point is you can't let your fears control you. Just eat her pussy and fuck her hard and you'll please her. And stop watching porn. That fucks you up in the head. Real sex isn't like porn.

                              If you really want to make your dick bigger, start the JP90 routine. If you decide you like PE, get an inexpensive extender to start.

                              https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0...?ie=UTF8&psc=1

                              If you really like extending, buy the phallosan it's a lot more comfortable. Just remember that the most pleasure any man is going to give most women is eating her pussy. If you get to know your lover well and you are good at it, you can tell when she's close and you can edge the crap out of her.

                              There's a whole bunch of different techniques, the key to sex is communication.

                              I really can't guide you through having sex when it's small, because I had already enlarged it to above average size by the time I had sex. I can tell you that my view of my penis along with my stuttering delayed losing my virginity into my 20s.

                              If there's a girl you like and would date long term, just take it slow and learn to munch on it. If you think PE is worth a shot, then try it, but be patient. I've been doing it for 15-20 years and I had so many injuries when I was younger because I was impatient.
                              Would you recommend the Arabian Jelq?

                              I can’t do flaccid excersis cuz I’m small an inch

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