Could getting bigger make sex worse?

[RageWarrior Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RageWarrior]

My GF has expressed to me that our sex is the best she's ever had. I'm an average 5.5" but always been good at reading reactions finding the g-spot etc. I'm the first person to make her cum multiple times and the first person to apply pressure just above her pelvis to really hit her g-spot.

She communicated to me that her ex was bigger and the sex mostly hurt. Initially this bruised my ego but it's obvious that our relationship has a lot more than any of her past.

Anyway, this ego bruising started my PE venture 3 weeks ago, but I'm wondering now if bigger could actually make things worse? Is there a possibility of having great sex and then getting too big to the point where stretching is painful or hitting the cervix becomes an issue? Or do I have a "long" way to go before this becomes an issue?

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

PE till she screams in pain?

I would believe her tho, because just like bananas, peaches also come in different sizes.

[rbi99 Retired Moderator Member of the Month Nov 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close rbi99]

Adding more girth in your case (assuming your girlfriend is your only sex partner and you guys are serious) will cause issues. In my case, intercourse originally with my wife required a decent amount of foreplay before I could enter her, and when she went down on me she could get a few inches of my shaft into her mouth. Now we need a lot of foreplay and lube, and when she goes down on me she can literally only get my glans into her mouth. Those are changed conditions for us, but not problems. My wife does a whole lot more than simply "blow" my glans, she does many other things while it is in her mouth. She makes me cum every single time she goes down on me. As for intercourse, we never were able to wam-bam it, but now it is even a little more involved. Neither are problems for us, just changed conditions. If the only reason you want to get bigger is because of her ex, you need to rethink your shit. She said intercourse with him was painful, listen to her.

[madyogi Moderator Member of the Month April 2020PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close madyogi]

If the only reason you want to get bigger is because of her ex, you need to rethink your shit. She said intercourse with him was painful, listen to her.

Listen to this, and consider what you're doing and why.

My wife delivered our child vaginally and had an episiotomy in the process. She also had multiple sex partners before me. We have always had great sex, and she never complained, but there was certainly room for me to grow. We have tested this out with toys, and I know I could get to 7.5" length without "bottoming out". I'm not sure how much further I want to go girth-wise. I know that I can feel her pussy more around my cock now that I've picked up .5" or so. I'll go for more, but I'm don't care about being 9x6 or having a "monster cock." This is not a vanity project, nor is it something to cover for some vague insecurity. I want to have better sex with my wife, so I'm not interested in going "too far". She is capable of telling me where to stop.

Depending on where you are in your relationship, you could ask honestly if she would like it if you were bigger, because you can get bigger. But that's the kind of question that has to come from a place of confidence, not out of a need for validation.

[theGOAT Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close theGOAT]

It can, but you really need to get into the Monster category

I ve been with around 30 women, and now I am 7 1/2 years with the same woman. Was 6.3 x 5.2 initially, now I am aroumd 7 x 5.6. Sex is better. Yes, I can make her feel pain if I am not careful, if I slide in faster than I need to or If she is not very aroused at the moment. But once thay happens, sex is just better for her. I heard sounds and moans that I havent heard before with my old size. The thing is, with bigger dick come bigger responsibilities. You need to strive to be a better lover always, but if your dick grows is a MUST.

Most girls who say they have some ex with bigger dick and how it has hurt, usually the guys is inexperienced or/and impatient.

In conclusion bigger dick + skill > skill > bigger dick without skill

[Ultimate Burrito Moderator Member of the Month Oct 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Ultimate Burrito]

The thing about PE is that it's not a drastic change all at once. You are basically gaining millimetres at a time. As long as you have sex frequently you should know in advance when you are getting close to being too big. That being said, if sex is great as it is and you are happy with your size then don't try to fix something that isn't broken.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Hmm my wife did tell me when I got too big . Now my view is length you can get around with skill but my wife was talking girth . So if that 5.5 " you are talking about is girth you may want to be cautious how you progress.

[incogneeetoe Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2017*Special Appreciated Moderator Nov. 2021* PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close incogneeetoe]

She communicated to me that her ex was bigger and the sex mostly hurt. Initially this bruised my ego but it's obvious that our relationship has a lot more than any of her past.

If you're big sex can hurt. And big is situational. At 7x5.7 a few women had difficulty. But I discovered that going slow and using foreplay made it work.

Anyway, this ego bruising started my PE venture 3 weeks ago, but I'm wondering now if bigger could actually make things worse? Is there a possibility of having great sex and then getting too big to the point where stretching is painful or hitting the cervix becomes an issue? Or do I have a "long" way to go before this becomes an issue?

The thing about the cervix is that you don't have to ram the whole thing in. My wife can take 75%, I know that, so I do not try to pound in 80%. I use a good 65% and when needed put in the last 10%. It's all good.

There is something to be said about have an inch or two out in the air.

[Ultimate Burrito Moderator Member of the Month Oct 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Ultimate Burrito]

It's true that every girl is different! Some love to have their cervix hit while others wince in pain, some have smooth textured vaginas while others fell more groovy, some are just naturally tight while others require exercises like kegels to keep it tight, some have deep vaginal canals while others are short or normal. All of this is from first hand experience and I guess that was part of the thrill of being with each new partner.

The general consensus for me was at 7.5" I was just perfect for my partners. I decided to get risky and went for another .25" and was told any bigger there might would be issues and would take some time to get used to. That's where I stopped. There has never been complaints about thickness and the only issue I have ran into is needing some lube to get it in initially.

That's all changed with my current partner (the cali girl for those who have been keeping up with me). Now her doctor told her that she was naturally deep. I'm not sure what the average length for a vagina is but he said her's was 7" which was notable. Regardless of what that actually means, she's one of the only girls that I haven't managed to reach the cervix. This gives me new speculations about women who are size queens, perhaps they are after the size because they are so deep?? In addition to being deep she is also TIGHT!

To tie it all together, my size was considered by many to be just perfect and even pushing the edge of too big so I stopped shooting for extra length. With my girlfriend now, I could probably improve her sexual experience by gaining a little more length.

[halzebra Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close halzebra]

I was average by measurement and small in my mind. I had a girth-enlarging procedure. Nothing but complaints. "It hurts." Seriously.

[closed297 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed297]

Me and my wife discuss it weekly atm as im just starting out and were picking a boundary together.
Here's a tip you can buy a cock sleeve for about 20$.
They come in: 1inch gains lxg 2inch gains lxg 3inch gains lxg.
If you can get hard have her folate you with spit then slip it on (dont lube the inside).
It's a pretty good indicator as to what's possible and what's comfortable.
I bottomed out on the 1 inch one and wasn't able to enter with no lube..
So we found out she is quite shallow...and girth at 5.4 ish got good feedback..
I guess i'm saying if you love her and want what's ideal... 20$ and this method is not the worst way to find out

[theGOAT Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close theGOAT]

bigger = better

[Herbivore Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Herbivore]

I was average by measurement and small in my mind. I had a girth-enlarging procedure. Nothing but complaints. "It hurts." Seriously.

You had surgery to increase your girth?! I don't want to get this done but I'm curious. What is this surgery called? What was your girth before and after? Did it affect your erection quality?

[simonjay Member Find all posts View Profile Close simonjay]

Since my first lot of PE a few years ago I was always quite thick, and sex was tricky sometimes. After she had babies it was much better - she was a bit larger down there. We also found out the angle made a lot of difference. Also, for some reason all anatomy diagrams have the cervix right at the end of the vagina, but it is often on the side. When the penis it at the correct angle it can slide past the cervix and stretch the vagina in length without any pain - if you do it slowly. No need for any teenage banging away !
Recent PE I am getting to about 8.5" length and almost 8" circumference in the middle. We use plenty of lube and there are no problems.
Oh, blowjobs. Well she cannot get all of the glans in let alone anything else. She does have quite a small mouth though.

[peforever Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close peforever]

8 inch MEG? That is probably world record, since the thickest I have ever heard even in porn is 7 MEG.