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  • Do I want 6” girth?

    So I’ve recently had a nice growth spurt, floating around 5.4-5.5” (yet to change sig). My girth goal is 6” but I’m wondering from those who are there, is this going too far?

    When I first started growing I found it difficult to enter my wife and she voiced concern, but now she seems quite used to it and enjoys the new girth. We always use lube now, and she loves the stretch and I love the feeling of her tight on my Dick!

    I’m asking those beyond 5.5 and up to 6 and beyond, did you guys experience anything negative going past 5.5? I’m wondering if she’ll get used to 6 just like she’s used to 5.5?

    Any advice is appreciated. I have a feeling I’ll be knocking on 6” in a year or two so no rush on answers lol.
    Start: 5/28/2019 BPEL - 6.25, EG - 4.75
    Current:10/1/2021 BPEL - 7.5, EG - 5.625

  • #2
    This varies a great deal from woman to woman and you should discuss with your wife .

    Most of the limited science on the subject indicates the most popular girth for women is less than what you have now .

    My personal experience was my wife said the girth I had when we first met (5.5") was ideal whereas given the skill I have she is fine with length. I actually got my girth up to 6.25"(and growing) but it started costing me sex . AS a compromise I now maintain around 6".

    People tend to overstate the she gets used to it and warm up arguments by the way.

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    • #3
      Definitely planning to discuss as girth continues to move upward. The whole point of PE for most of us is to have great sex, I would hate to be counterproductive by growing too large. Maybe there is a middle ground of 5.75!

      What do you mean by people tend to overstate used to it and warm up? Meaning the woman doesn’t get used to it?
      Start: 5/28/2019 BPEL - 6.25, EG - 4.75
      Current:10/1/2021 BPEL - 7.5, EG - 5.625

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      • #4
        It's a really great question - and good to ask guys who have actually lived with a size like this. I started PE at 5.8" EG and that measurement was my average, not my largest measurement (which was 6" even). I've had my share of sexual fun and multiple partners over the decades and not once have I ever wished I had less girth. I love the big eyed looks some women get when they see it for the first time and they clearly enjoy the girth. Women I've been with for some time get used to it pretty quickly, like your wife has. But nothing like the first time with a woman when she has that involuntary gasp when he slides in, followed by obvious enjoyment.

        I had a friendly ex-sex relationship with an ex for awhile after we divorced and she mentioned she missed my size and commented on her new guy while holding up her pinky finger. I will say that several women have been hesitant to try anal, but all I dated for any period eventually did anal with me and were up for doing it more after that scary first time. And when you do anal with them for the first or second time, it's a bit of a process to keep from hurting them. But after a couple times, they also get used to it and the process is alot easier. With a couple women, both I dated for quite a while, I think we might have done anal as much as PIV! Oral sex - no problem, limitations or complaints I've encountered. I suppose if you like 20-30 minute blow-jobs a thick one is going to make her jaw more sore faster.

        All that said, my gf knew from the start when I started PE. When we first started dating, she commented on how nice my cock was, but when faced with it becoming even bigger with PE, she asked if I could avoid getting much thicker. I think what alot of guys say about maximum girth is probably true - 6" seems to pretty much be the limit before it's too big, too often. That's why my goal girth is really not much off my current size.
        Start: BPEL 6.75', EG 5.8", BPFL 4.5", FG 4.7", BPFSL 7.0"
        05/2021: BPEL 7.65”, EG 6.0”, BPFL 5.8”, FG 5.0", BPFSL 8.0"
        Goal: BPEL 8.0", EG 6.0", BPFL 5.75" FG 5.0", BPFSL 8.5"

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        • #5
          5,5 inch is very good and over average. What did you do to get extra girth?
          congratulations.
          BPEL: 5,9 EG: 4,8
          BPFL: 3,6 FG: 3,75
          13.03.2020

          Long term Goal
          NBPEL: 8 inch EG: 6 inch

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          • #6
            Same question as Icebear. How did you achieve the gains you had since you started? I saw your stats on your profile and they are quite impressive.
            Progress Log
            Start (20/06/2020):
            BPEL 5.9, EG 4.1
            Current (21/10/2020): BPEL 6.3, EG 4.5

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            • #7
              My girth increased slowly over 5 plus years from 4.4” girth to 5.5” girth (thanks to pumping) and my wife has yet to mention any difference. Now, after a pumping session, I pleasure my wife with a 6” plus girth and she still has yet to make a comment. However, I do use a lot of lube.
              Valued Member of 12+ years at the PEGym
              12/'09 (start) NBP EL - 4.5, EG - 4.4
              12/11 NBPEL - 5.1, MSEG - 5
              01/13 NBPEL - 5.35, MSEG - 5.1
              01/14 NBPEL - 5.35, MSEG - 5.25
              01/16 NBPEL - 5.4, MSEG - 5.5
              Fat Pad = 1+/-

              Real cars have two seats. Everything else is a bus.

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              • #8
                This is something to think about. I have the goal of 8" girth, but as I've been told before, I should test my 5.5" first. Hard to do for a big 'ol virgin. I'm pretty warped by porn, too.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by not2big View Post
                  My girth increased slowly over 5 plus years from 4.4” girth to 5.5” girth (thanks to pumping) and my wife has yet to mention any difference.
                  Do you have any recommendations on girth gains from your experience? I am a beginner and especially interested in girth.
                  Progress Log
                  Start (20/06/2020):
                  BPEL 5.9, EG 4.1
                  Current (21/10/2020): BPEL 6.3, EG 4.5

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Icebear View Post
                    5,5 inch is very good and over average. What did you do to get extra girth?
                    congratulations.
                    Pumping, clamping, squeezes & Ulis. These are my girth busters!
                    Start: 5/28/2019 BPEL - 6.25, EG - 4.75
                    Current:10/1/2021 BPEL - 7.5, EG - 5.625

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by Bazba View Post
                      This is something to think about. I have the goal of 8" girth, but as I've been told before, I should test my 5.5" first. Hard to do for a big 'ol virgin. I'm pretty warped by porn, too.
                      Lol 8”. Dude that’s the size of a 20oz beer can. Definitely a warped perception.
                      Start: 5/28/2019 BPEL - 6.25, EG - 4.75
                      Current:10/1/2021 BPEL - 7.5, EG - 5.625

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Physdoc View Post
                        It's a really great question - and good to ask guys who have actually lived with a size like this. I started PE at 5.8" EG and that measurement was my average, not my largest measurement (which was 6" even). I've had my share of sexual fun and multiple partners over the decades and not once have I ever wished I had less girth. I love the big eyed looks some women get when they see it for the first time and they clearly enjoy the girth. Women I've been with for some time get used to it pretty quickly, like your wife has. But nothing like the first time with a woman when she has that involuntary gasp when he slides in, followed by obvious enjoyment.

                        I had a friendly ex-sex relationship with an ex for awhile after we divorced and she mentioned she missed my size and commented on her new guy while holding up her pinky finger. I will say that several women have been hesitant to try anal, but all I dated for any period eventually did anal with me and were up for doing it more after that scary first time. And when you do anal with them for the first or second time, it's a bit of a process to keep from hurting them. But after a couple times, they also get used to it and the process is alot easier. With a couple women, both I dated for quite a while, I think we might have done anal as much as PIV! Oral sex - no problem, limitations or complaints I've encountered. I suppose if you like 20-30 minute blow-jobs a thick one is going to make her jaw more sore faster.

                        All that said, my gf knew from the start when I started PE. When we first started dating, she commented on how nice my cock was, but when faced with it becoming even bigger with PE, she asked if I could avoid getting much thicker. I think what alot of guys say about maximum girth is probably true - 6" seems to pretty much be the limit before it's too big, too often. That's why my goal girth is really not much off my current size.
                        Thanks for the reply. I’m on the same page, 6” seems to be the maximum girth and for good reason. Im shooting for it!
                        Start: 5/28/2019 BPEL - 6.25, EG - 4.75
                        Current:10/1/2021 BPEL - 7.5, EG - 5.625

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                        • #13
                          For the average woman it will be too much if you want to have one night stand or daily sex.
                          For a committed partner it might work depending..

                          Maybe consider what I did.. Dick shaping I focused mostly on increasing girth towards the base which is now beyond 6 and I use not often but for woman who can take it.
                          25cm! Let's go!

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by BallsMahoney View Post
                            Lol 8”. Dude that’s the size of a 20oz beer can. Definitely a warped perception.
                            Or a Moe's burrito... I want 6" cause a 5.5" flaccid is BEEFY looking.
                            1 inch at a time
                            GOAL: +1.5 BPEL, +1 MEG
                            Progress Log

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by DickerSchwanz View Post
                              For the average woman it will be too much if you want to have one night stand or daily sex.
                              For a committed partner it might work depending..

                              Maybe consider what I did.. Dick shaping I focused mostly on increasing girth towards the base which is now beyond 6 and I use not often but for woman who can take it.
                              how do you target the base only?
                              Start: 5/28/2019 BPEL - 6.25, EG - 4.75
                              Current:10/1/2021 BPEL - 7.5, EG - 5.625

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