Does BPEL matter for sex? How much goes in?

[Boricua]

Look am I the only 1 who sees this clear. You get bpel by pushing an uncomfortable object in to you groin . So is there some reason you don't like pushing penis into pussy cause I really don't see how not to push harder given the motivation

You are not seeing it clear. We push the ruler to measure as accurate as possible. Using it all during sex is a different thing. I can easily do it because my BPEL and NBPEL are almost the same and my wife is skinny. You say you can do it, probably you don't have too much fat pad. For someone with more fat pad may not be possible (if the girl has some fat it may be even harder). So, it is not a matter of if they "like to do it", and it doesn't mean that they are "doing it wrong" it simply is physically impossible.

[Classic57]

I know when she’s on top and grinding its way more pressure then I ever do measuring!

[BigStick4Pleasure]

You'll know she was getting all of that fat pad length when both of you have painfully bruised pubic bones the next day.

[BigO]

I know when she’s on top and grinding its way more pressure then I ever do measuring!

Thats a fact

[Johnny D]

I was wondering, how much of your penis actually goes inside when you have sex? Like if I go in as deep as I can, is that only my NBPEL? or is it that and a bit of my BPEL? It sucks being 6 inches EL and being 1.5 inches bigger when measuring BPEL. I hope at least some of that is used during sex.

Only you would know. None of us can tell you how hard you're pushing and how much of your fat pad is being compressed. You know the answer to that, not us.

But, like Pegasus said, if you don't use all of it you're missing something (and so is she)

[Pegasus]

You are not seeing it clear. We push the ruler to measure as accurate as possible. Using it all during sex is a different thing. I can easily do it because my BPEL and NBPEL are almost the same and my wife is skinny. You say you can do it, probably you don't have too much fat pad. For someone with more fat pad may not be possible (if the girl has some fat it may be even harder). So, it is not a matter of if they "like to do it", and it doesn't mean that they are "doing it wrong" it simply is physically impossible.

BS like i said if you can push a ruler you can push your penis especially given some momentum. For that matter your pubic bone is actually harder than a ruler . If you have so much fat it will not compact then that will affect the ruler as well and lower your bpel which brings us back to the same point .

[aewave]

Look it's simple enough push it in that pussy ,if you are not using bpel you are doing it wrong .

Guys I have a question , how can you not want to push your penis all the way in ? How can you be more motivated to push a ruler into your groin than your penis into pussy?

If was to push my penis as deep as possible every stroke, I'd bust in under 30 seconds. It's the pulling effect of my foreskin that creates extreme arousal. So deep strokes are a no go for me until I'm ready to end the session.

[Pegasus]

Go to the pre e section for advice on how to increase stamina .

[VIIby5]

my guess is full thrust is 75% of your fat pad squashed.

Thats my best estimate also.

My fat pad is easily depressed. For example my NBP length is often under 6". Most of my pics I am at least pressing in a little and have no problem revealing close to 7" for the camera. If I can do that with my fingers I can surely do that balls deep in my wife. Besides her response when I push in seems to indicate I'm putting in a bit more than 5.5" to 5.75", if you know what im talking about.

Also for those who say you can only use NBP. What would you say the chances are of a sub 6" penis reliably getting into the posterior fornix/culdesac or bottoming out. I can do that with my wife pretty regularly if thats what she is in the mood for. Yea I know no two vaginas are the same and some certainly could be bottomed out with less than 6" but I dont believe that to be the case on average.

[BundleUp]

If was to push my penis as deep as possible every stroke, I'd bust in under 30 seconds. It's the pulling effect of my foreskin that creates extreme arousal. So deep strokes are a no go for me until I'm ready to end the session.

I'm working on this very problem myself. The combination of skin stretch and bottoming out (plus her response) is the "instant nut" button. So I'm stretching the skin on my shaft, similar to a foreskin restoration, hoping to take that factor out of play. I used to be able to pile drive her into oblivion, but I've gained almost an inch in length without loosening up the skin to match, plus I'm hitting bottom now. Not to mention the extra girth makes her feel tighter.

Mo' dick, mo' problems, lol.