Do hot chicks think average is small?

**pfm** · 01-24-2021

If you're confident you don't let these things bother you. If you're feeling you're being attacked, then parry and thrust. Don't ask me what I'm talking about because I'm not explaining ... maybe too much Snow Maiden Sake.

**Pegasus** · 01-24-2021

Originally Posted by tinywhenflaccid

I was too shocked to say anything. I just said nothing, like a coward. One said, "I like your penis. It's not too small". Wtf, man? I just laugh at it, but since I stopped drinking, my insecurity is way more pronounced than it was.

This was meant to imply it was over average which it is.

**Pegasus** · 01-24-2021

My dick was 6.75"bpel by 4.75 " I never got called small . I did get called long a couple times . Worst comment was average girth but then that was true at the time so wasn't an issue .

**Pegasus** · 01-24-2021

My view any girl telling any guy they are small is not relationship material . I have dumped a girl because she told me she said to a previous boyfriend he was small .

**Alwaysbbetter** · 01-24-2021

Its funny because women often comment about how guys are obsessed with size, yet they are the likely cause in most cases...I think for the most part they don't know there head from there a**...I mean its doubtful that they have ever actually measured any guys they were with...they eyeball it and decide its big or not but the big test is when you stick it in them...

If a guy was say 7 inches ans told the chick he was 8.5 would they know the difference? no...they would run and tell there friends that they just road a 8.5 inch c*ck...I think the real problem is hypergamy...Women are designed to look for the most high value men they can have.. This generation is far more permiscuos than earlier generations...with them riding the c*ck carousel the way they are, they are bound to see some large ones...I think once they do everything becomes a comparison at that point....Statistically speaking, the OP size is actually above average...by a decent bit too...this just speaks to women never being satisfied...Some of the posters here have it pegged...If you let it impact you then your beat from jump street...If you give her toe curling orgasms she ain't to concerned about your size...I just think the bigger guys really develop alpha confidence when they have these women worshipping their junk...When you know your big, nothing is a better confidence booster...If your girl did lets say 25 guys, some would be small...most would be in the middle threshold and some would be large...they just remember the big guy because he alpha widowed her...If you carry yourself like your big she will likely not be concerned about your junk...If you let it bother you she will no doubt off you in time...I think they know they can throw their weight around with this subject so unless your really big they can get away with this..

**tinywhenflaccid** · 01-24-2021

I thought she meant it wasn't tiny, but still small. Maybe you're right.

**Pegasus** · 01-24-2021

Originally Posted by Alwaysbbetter

Its funny because women often comment about how guys are obsessed with size, yet they are the likely cause in most cases...I think for the most part they don't know there head from there a**...I mean its doubtful that they have ever actually measured any guys they were with...they eyeball it and decide its big or not but the big test is when you stick it in them...

If a guy was say 7 inches ans told the chick he was 8.5 would they know the difference? no...they would run and tell there friends that they just road a 8.5 inch c*ck...I think the real problem is hypergamy...Women are designed to look for the most high value men they can have.. This generation is far more permiscuos than earlier generations...with them riding the c*ck carousel the way they are, they are bound to see some large ones...I think once they do everything becomes a comparison at that point....Statistically speaking, the OP size is actually above average...by a decent bit too...this just speaks to women never being satisfied...Some of the posters here have it pegged...If you let it impact you then your beat from jump street...If you give her toe curling orgasms she ain't to concerned about your size...I just think the bigger guys really develop alpha confidence when they have these women worshipping their junk...When you know your big, nothing is a better confidence booster...If your girl did lets say 25 guys, some would be small...most would be in the middle threshold and some would be large...they just remember the big guy because he alpha widowed her...If you carry yourself like your big she will likely not be concerned about your junk...If you let it bother you she will no doubt off you in time...I think they know they can throw their weight around with this subject so unless your really big they can get away with this..

Leaving aside the alpha /pua bunk I think there is a case for men making women pay a price for this behaviour.

**Pegasus** · 01-25-2021

Op if ths has only happened a couple of times and some may be poorly worded compliments then you are left with 1 or 2 haters . Haters got to hate .

**tinywhenflaccid** · 01-25-2021

I have only been with 10 women in my life. Was on a roll in the very beginning, then got into an LTR, which I am still in. 30% of the women I have been with have said I was small. I was always kind of confused by it myself. Like, why not just say nothing? Women can be cruel. Cruel I say. I personally would never say anything as hurtful to a woman I was with. Just thought that maybe I should try to make some gains and see if I can get a better reaction from the gf, or, if we break up, another woman.

**Alwaysbbetter** · 01-25-2021

Get the gains for yourself, not for someone else...Im thinking there is some type of impression or vibe your giving off for so many girls to feel the need to comment...Did you ever ask any of them or did they all jusr volunteer the comments? I find that weird because most women I've been with have said nothing or been very vague...

I can tell you one thing...Your going to need to get out of your own head...if you devalue yourself it will doom relationships and impact the bedroom...Focus on the quality you put out there...even small guys can make a female cum if they know what they are doing...I remember reading study that had women pick molds of their ideal size...I believe the most common choice was 6.4 inches long with 4.8 girth...Im pretty sure those were the exact measurements...So basically, you are within the range, although your giving a bone pressed length...Your probably right around these numbers in any case...If one of these females is making you insecure or making petty comments you shouldn't put up with it...In my opinion, it shows something about them that isn't desirable..This is something highly permiscuos women say..the type of women whose only value is there sexuality...Bottomline, these type of women will likely cheat on you as if they fully respected you they wouldn't be clowning your manhood...especially since your not small by most standards..