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- 01-25-2021 #21
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I wish I posted here years ago. I've never addressed these issues before. Never talked to anyone about them.
Regarding the way women reacted to me, I think maybe it's because I can be pretty arrogant, or, I was when I was younger. Maybe you're right and they were trying to insult me or something. I just took the comments at face value, and never questioned the motivations behind them.
- 01-25-2021 #22
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- 01-25-2021 #23
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I know how you feel.
I used to be the exact same size and im only marginally bigger now. I never have got the feeling I was anything other than average at best and unfortunately some women think average or even bigger is small. My sexual history is less than half as extensive as yours but have still taken at least two verbal shots at my size (no breakup or fight type thing) and one who coincidentally changed her mind about sex after seeing it. Another went for my friend after seeing and handling both of us. She said he had the bigger unit and went off with him. It was like I wasn't even there after that. Made me feel like i was two inches long.
- 01-26-2021 #24
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Dude are you being forreal? I hope you are not like role playing or something because that is a terrible situation.
As for the original thread topic, when I used to have sex many years ago I was 6 bpel and 5.25 mseg dating this girl that told all my friends I was small. She was like 7 or 8 out of 10 hot. I was not a cocky or arrogant guy either. Extremely nice and respectful. She hit me up years later trying to talk but I had ED of which I am still struggling with. I don't think I would have slept with that bitch anyway though. Or if I would have I would have just hit it and quit it. Low trash woman.
I hooked up with several other attractive woman after that and I could feel they were kind of disappointed after dropping trou. However, the less good looking ones I have been with did not care at all and were enthusiastic. Even some on the bigger side were consistently happy to be there. Really cool girls.
So yeah I definitely agree with the thread.
- 01-26-2021 #25
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Women use this as a power play it does not have any basis in reality . It works really well so bitchy women are into it .
We get it regularly onsite some of the maths is downright amusing .
- 01-26-2021 #26
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This is a depressing thread.
I think porn is to blame as for most girls, including myself, the first penis we see is in porn. (For me it was a pornstar called Manuel Ferrara). And this sets the bar as to what is considered 'normal'.
The first one I saw in real life appeared really small to me, and I thought it was just because we were teens. But as I saw more I realized that pornstars are quite a bit bigger than average.
The other thing porn does is subconsciously embeds the concept of 'bigger being better'. In most porn scenes the girl looks shocked at how big a guy is and makes it look like it feels amazing.
I believe that's actually what creates 'Size Queens' and the like, as porn and pop culture definitely makes the hung men more desirable. Till this day when watching porn a really large one really arouses me, whereas I know in real life it will be painful.
But the exact same thing happens to woman surrounding to breast size and looks. Being closer to flat chested than your average girl, guys always make remarks sometimes in a loving way like "I love your cute little tits" or in a plain way like "Wow your tits are so small!", and I still feel it, because I know he probably likes busty woman, and there's nothing wrong with that.
Also guys rate girls and call them 8, or 9 or 6. Its the same concept, as woman in movies have model good looks and some are quite busty.
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Reference bolded. Not just porn. I used to know a girl who told me her first was really big and she just assumed that was what the typical penis was supposed to look like. For a while that was her expectation, so for a while she thought most every guy after that was small.
Have your experiences correlated with what the size studies consider average (basically a 5" or so visible penis with 4.7 girth) or are the sizes you have experienced all over the map of within a certain range?
We all know what average is supposed to be according to the studies. But really, how often do women encounter that size. I don't really care what the studies say if the typical woman's expectations of normal far exceeds that.Last edited by VIIby5; 4 Weeks Ago at 09:21 PM.
- 4 Weeks Ago #28
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Awesome post but no, comments a woman say about a man’s manhood and what a guy says about a woman;s breast are totally different.
A guys self esteem is born out of what he, rightly or wrongly think of his size. For a woman to confirm his fears of being small with an unintentional comment kills him. For me, I, for one prefera smaller set of breasts, B cup, it’s all about the perky small nipples for me. My wife’s are perfect. I love to suck and rub them, she’s actually had breast orgasms. Really cool.A prayer, is kinda the same as a "Like". If there are enough likes, God will take notice. So "Like" away please. My daughter needs your prayers. Thank You.
- 4 Weeks Ago #29
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I think what Pegasus said is correct...Women know these comments impact you...Women search to control situations...Damaging your ego helps her gain control...On one hand, you need to be above these types of cheap shots...On the other hand, if a female is taking these types of jabs at you just ghost them period....No need to be with someone that doesn't view you as a high value man...
Out society is size obsessed...You see it all throughout porn and popular culture...Women have very unrealistic expectations when it comes to dating in general...let alone penis size...Ever here them saying they are looking 6 6 6? I believe its 6 ft tall, makes 6 figures and can't remember the final six...maybe 6 inches long...based on this thread that can't be right though...
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