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- 01-26-2021 #31
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- 01-27-2021 #33
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My current partner of 3 years calls me “ka door lek” which means small cock in Thai. I am 7 inches nbpel at my best so it is laughable but she is serious in her critique of my manhood. You have to except some girls are only going to come across larger than average ones
- 01-27-2021 #34
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- 01-27-2021 #37
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So guys I'm not a feminist and probably dislike them, but there does seem to a bias against woman here. For the most part the female equivalent of dick size to woman is breast size. Also breasts are like a key differentiator of femininity.
From my point of view, we have it worse as we have to walk around in public in clothes which clearly articulate how big or small they are, and also just my looking at our clothing has specific sizes already made for us. One of the first things that a guy asks when sexting is your cup size.
Guys on the other hand have it easy in that there's no clothes made specifically for a small dick, nor do you have to show it out in public.
I totally understand that you have an amazing sex life with a girl
A question I have is that if a girl who normally orgasms vaginally quite easily with partners of her size preference, doesn't cum with you, and the issue is size. Would you want her to tell you? Or rather fake orgasms so as to not hurt your feelings? Or pretend that she can't orgasm vaginally?
I've done all three, so I know there's no right answer.
I totally understand that if you have amazing sex with a woman and she orgasms easily with you, and she makes comments on penis size, they're probably unwarranted and she's trying to mess with you. On the other hand she could be just faking.
- 01-27-2021 #38
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Ooof yeah that's a good point. Porn has been messing things up for years now. Everybody talks about how young men watch it and compare themselves, but young woman too it will skew their expectations like you said. And more and more young women are watching I think because I see an increasing number of them on forums like nofap and such unfortunately.
I have to say though the breast and dick comparison is actually pretty different. Breast is more like height or shoulder width or something for a man. Its unchangeable and is visibly apparent thus it factors in to initial attraction. What you see is what you get. A dick on the other hand is hidden and many times a woman will make the decision to sleep with you or not without knowing anything about it. Unless the guy is pulling a grey sweatpants routine or she has heard about if from someone else. Also (and this might be more important), unlike breasts, it is directly involved in intercourse and the pleasure your partner gets. This is why many many women will be regarded as hot or a sex symbol or something regardless of small breasts whereas a man could look like Thor or something but if he has a small penis his sex appeal will plummet. Keira Knightley, Natalie Portman, Cameron Diaz all have small breasts, but they are 10's in my book lol and probably a lot of other guys too. So even if it were on the same playing field as dick size I think way more guys would be down for small breasts than there would be women down for small dicks.
I just brought the rating up initially because the thread was about how attractiveness plays into the women's perception of size. But I feel like everybody kinda rates everybody right? Like a man will come up to a woman and the woman mentally will be like okay he's "hot" or "handsome" or "cute" or "ehh" or "ew" or "EWWW." It's the same thing except men put it in numbers because idk... Maybe we really are mathematical or something haha....
- 01-27-2021 #39
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If you fake the first couple of times because you realize its not gonna happen at that time, but acknowledge he could still make you cum sometime down the road that's okay. But like after the first month or so after sex and communicating and still no orgasm and you are faking it... Yeah I would rather you told me. With an understanding that we both will be going are separate ways once you tell me because that situation is not fair to either party. If I have treated you with respect and such something like "hey I'm sorry but I am used to sex with bigger guys and I can't cum during sex with you because you are smaller. Which sucks because you're a cool guy but I promise I won't tell anyone. I got your back." I would leave thinking damn...this sucks, but what a chill girl though for saying that, I gotta respect it. Everybody has preferences and even different anatomy themselves in some cases.
For me its the ridicule and social ostracization I have a problem with. Like a lot of women will go back to their friends or even mutual friends and be like "OMG LET ME TELL YOU THIS GUY HAD A DICK THE SIZE OF MY PINKY IT WAS SO WEIRD HAHAHAHA" (actual quote I've heard...) All the girlfriends proceed to laugh and poke fun at the guy behind his back or have inside jokes about him when they see him.
I'm supposedly average so at least I'm functional size, thus it hurt when it happened to me but I can't even imagine the pain smaller, less functional size guys feel when something like that gets back to them. Especially if they have been good guys to the women. I think it should be treated like a mild disability imo.
Society as a whole openly praises big dicks and then has this snickery attitude toward small dicks which is puzzling because this is basically acknowledging that small dick men face serious challenges during sex. Sex being something that is such a natural and deeply instinctual part of life and plays a large part in experiencing love and intimacy with someone...which is like the ultimate goal for like 95% of people: finding love and someone to share you life with. So someone having challenges in this department, due to something that is widely regarded as something that they cannot change, is like a nightmare and I don't understand the empathetic disconnect people have toward it.
And then on top of that after hearing the condescending attitude to small dicks, a small dick guy will vent and be like yes it sucks and then the SAME PEOPLE will literally come back and gas light them like "oh it doesn't matter, its the motion of the ocean, YOU JUST GOTTA BE MORE CONFIDENT, IT ONLY MATTERS BECAUSE YOU THINK IT MATTERS (or some other bs...). It's like jeez idk how these small dudes don't go insane...Last edited by jamoke125; 01-27-2021 at 06:10 AM.
- 01-27-2021 #40
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