Do hot chicks think average is small?

[Pegasus]

If you fake the first couple of times because you realize its not gonna happen at that time, but acknowledge he could still make you cum sometime down the road that's okay. But like after the first month or so after sex and communicating and still no orgasm and you are faking it... Yeah I would rather you told me. With an understanding that we both will be going are separate ways once you tell me because that situation is not fair to either party. If I have treated you with respect and such something like "hey I'm sorry but I am used to sex with bigger guys and I can't cum during sex with you because you are smaller. Which sucks because you're a cool guy but I promise I won't tell anyone. I got your back." I would leave thinking damn...this sucks, but what a chill girl though for saying that I gotta respect it. Everybody has preferences and even different anatomy themselves in some cases.

For me its the ridicule and social ostracization I have a problem with. Like a lot of women will go back to their friends or even mutual friends and be like "OMG LET ME TELL YOU THIS GUY HAD A DICK THE SIZE OF MY PINKY IT WAS SO WEIRD HAHAHAHA" (actual quote I've heard...) All the girlfriends proceed to laugh and poke fun at the guy behind his back or have inside jokes about him when they see him.
I'm supposedly average so at least I'm functional size, thus it hurt when it happened to me but I can't even imagine the pain smaller, less functional size guys feel when something like that gets back to them. Especially if they have been good guys to the women. If the guy has been an objective asshole like cheating or domestic violence or something I can understand that type of reaction, but otherwise I think it should be treated like a mild disability imo.

Guys onsite who are over average size claim girls have done this .

[Alwaysbbetter]

So this thread really seems to have legs...No pun...Think of it from this standpoint point..Ideas are already skewed here if you think of the nature of this forum..We are not here for nothing guys...At some point, all of us desired being something more...Somebof us had experiences like the other poster...some just want to be a very best period...

But it probably should surprise any of us that guys here have stories like the OP
providing motivation...The simple fact is this...modern women are far more permiscuous than in the past...You have culture, porn, social media ect...all of which seem to favor the female...while our masculinity is attacked constantly...ive been out of dating for many years now...I still have some friends out there though...Average looking women are demanding the highest value men...They are seeing more penises even just from guys on social media...they are picking and choosing who and when they want to bang...eventually, this backfires on them as they age and get tossed aside...

Agree with the other poster saying that breasts are not q fair comparison...The penis is the actual performer...when she clowns that she is clowning your sex to some extent...I do feel it raises some red flags...you would think that some of these women would get a realistic sense of what big, medium and small is...But I think in their prime they go out looking for the best deal...Which means that 1 or 2 guy out of say 10...Most women also do not seek to count the also rams like we do...I was talking once to a female about how every guy always ends up dumping the....I stopped her and said wait...what about that last guy you left...wait yo u said you walked broke it off with guys on two separate occasions when a guy you knew became single...It turns out...she only really counted the guys she was really into...I think that is happening here on two levels...One...these females may not fully respect the guy they clown..infect I doubt they do....2. this becomes the marker of that...the small penis things get thrown around as control as they see you as less value than some of the others.. I wonder how small your penis would be if you told them to leave?

[Party]

So. I had a conversation with a woman the other day, size matters to her as long as it’s not to big. She said you guys are so lucky to be men. I asked, why? I followed up by saying, sometimes I wish I had been born a woman. Why, she asked, Multiple reasons I answered, with a wink.
She said “Oh, Okay.”

[Pegasus]

So this thread really seems to have legs...No pun...Think of it from this standpoint point..Ideas are already skewed here if you think of the nature of this forum..We are not here for nothing guys...At some point, all of us desired being something more...Somebof us had experiences like the other poster...some just want to be a very best period...

But it probably should surprise any of us that guys here have stories like the OP
providing motivation...The simple fact is this...modern women are far more permiscuous than in the past...You have culture, porn, social media ect...all of which seem to favor the female...while our masculinity is attacked constantly...ive been out of dating for many years now...I still have some friends out there though...Average looking women are demanding the highest value men...They are seeing more penises even just from guys on social media...they are picking and choosing who and when they want to bang...eventually, this backfires on them as they age and get tossed aside...

Agree with the other poster saying that breasts are not q fair comparison...The penis is the actual performer...when she clowns that she is clowning your sex to some extent...I do feel it raises some red flags...you would think that some of these women would get a realistic sense of what big, medium and small is...But I think in their prime they go out looking for the best deal...Which means that 1 or 2 guy out of say 10...Most women also do not seek to count the also rams like we do...I was talking once to a female about how every guy always ends up dumping the....I stopped her and said wait...what about that last guy you left...wait yo u said you walked broke it off with guys on two separate occasions when a guy you knew became single...It turns out...she only really counted the guys she was really into...I think that is happening here on two levels...One...these females may not fully respect the guy they clown..infect I doubt they do....2. this becomes the marker of that...the small penis things get thrown around as control as they see you as less value than some of the others.. I wonder how small your penis would be if you told them to leave?

High value is usually about money/social status.
Can you explain "clown"?

[Coolrahul]

Do you think that hot chicks think that an average size is small? I wonder if the guys that pursue hot chicks tend to have larger dicks, and it results in hot chicks seeing much larger sizes as being average and the real average as being small. I am 6.75 bpel and 5 inches mseg and I've been called small by several good looking women. They were not jilted exes or anything either. I get the impression that average size to a hot chick is probably more like 7 inches npel and 5.5 inches mseg. Hopefully I'm wrong.

What do you guys think? Does this seem reflective of reality, or not?

O.P. first of all you're huge. If a girl ever told you that you're small, either they were those "hot chicks" who basically have a very high level of ego, because they get attention from a lot of guys which inflates their ego or they really don't have a clue about penis sizes.

I will say the best way to overcome your doubts about penis size is not being over-weight + shaving your pubes. Trust me shaving pubes makes a much bigger difference.

I am 5.5 x 4.5" and I only have had one girlfriend. The first time she saw my penis, she said "You're big". She was a sweet girl and I know she said it to keep my heart, and I replied her "No, its not big its average." She asked me if I ever measured my size and I told her. She pulled out her phone, did a quick google search about average penis size, and the result showed 5.16 x 4.0". She said "See you should be happy you're bigger than average."

Clearly, she didn't have any idea about penis sizes and was just satisfied that I am around average. I'm an Indian and this is the average size in my country...most of the guys on this site are probably American or European so your average sizes must be bigger. The point is be happy with your size...all of you are bigger than some guy think about that. Don't let these "hot chicks" bother you, they don't know shit. Get back at them at their breast sizes, and tell them you've seen bigger. Case closed.

[Johnny D]

Come on, guys! You're always asking for a woman's perspective. Now when you finally get one, what do you do? You tell her she's wrong. Seriously?! SMH.....

[Coolrahul]

Come on, guys! You're always asking for a woman's perspective. Now when you finally get one, what do you do? You tell her she's wrong. Seriously?! SMH.....

Because some girls can be mean and be bitchy. You tell a flat-chested girl that she doesn't have boobs and you'll break her heart and her confidence. There are so many women with flat chests, don't they deserve a loving partner who doesn't make her feel like shit? Be a nice person if you're a guy or a girl.

[jamoke125]

Come on, guys! You're always asking for a woman's perspective. Now when you finally get one, what do you do? You tell her she's wrong. Seriously?! SMH.....

What do you mean you think 7x5 is small...?

[Alwaysbbetter]

I think your missing the point johnny...In these thread stories the guy didn't ask the chicks volunteered it...If the OP is explaining it right they really had no reason other than some power trip put em in his place nonsense...True, the OP needs to man up but don't tell me the girls are showing good qualities...In any case, if you guys don't like the comments leave the chicks...Find someone you feel more comfortable with that knows how to act...

[incogneeetoe]

Of course these are not scientific, just food for thought, but here are a few sexpolls done recently on reddit:

Is dick the most important thing in a relationship?
4 Yes, dick is very important
0 No, a nice face is more important
17 No, a nice personality is more important
14 No, both a nice face and a nice personality are more important

If you were dating an otherwise good guy but then you found out he only has 5 inch penis would you leave him?
3 yes, thats a dealbreaker
37 no, penis isnt all that matters in a relationship

Is 5 inch penis a turn off?
20 yes
41 no

What erect penis size is to small
14 Smaller than 2’
21 Smaller than 3’
63 Smaller than 4’
43 Smaller than 5’
16 Smaller than 6’

Women, does size matter
12 Yes, the bigger the better
13 No, it never matters
45 As long as he isn't stupidly small idc

Ladies, your about to hook up with a guy for the first time, what are you hoping for?
6 Smaller then average cock
38 Average cock
30 Above average size cock
18 A big cock
4 A monster cock

Is It harder to break a relationship if your bf is well endowed?
32 No, when i break a relationship penis size doesn't matter
0 No, It's more easier to leave a guy well endowed: i don't like a big penis
2 Yes, it's more easier to leave a guy poorly or normally endowed
5 Definitely Yes: a big penis Is hard to find

Have you ever went out with a guy because you were told he was extremely well endowed?
12 Yes
40 No